scropio man with a gemini women

ok.. well i'm a gemini women and my bf is a scropio man... well from the very beginning he cliams that he was in love with me the 1st time he saw me which was 5 yrs ago.. so after two years of us just being friends we decided to start dating and it was fabulous.. we got along so well together when we started dating that we decided to move to a different state (miami, fl) after being together for seven months.. we were living the life until he got a job that required him to train in a two different cities for 6 mnts (3mnts for each).. that's when things started to change between us.. when he lived in tampa with two of his male coworkers he would call and want to talk all the time didn't even want me to go out with my female coworkers.. then once he had to move to orlando he was living with one male coworker and one female coworker he started going out with her all the time "because he got into a wreck and had to carpool with her".. things started changing i started getting supicious about them.. he didn't want to talk as much but yet still didn't want me to go anywhere..while he was away i did login to he's myspace, facebook, and email and found out that he had been talking to females from his home town about coming to see him and just talking inappropiate to them.. (i know that was wrong but he made me question him because he would always accuse me of things).. so after i figured that he was running his mouth i got pissed and confronted him about it.. when i did mention it to him he got really mad and started argueing about it.. so i just asked him not to do it anymore (note: he has dne it before to me and stop for a period of time).. so a few months go by and i start getting insurcure agian for no reason what so ever..so i checked it again and what do you know he was still running his mouth to a new set of girls.. so after that i made him move out the apartment and found a new roommate.. we broke up becuase i felt betrayed.. we still kept seeing each other every know and then cause he moved to the building next to mine in the same complex.. so after a few months went by i moved back home because my lease was up and i wanted to see if we were truely still in love with each other.. well i've been home for about two months and we still kept in touch and i found out that i was pregegnant.. so, he asked me to move back with him and he wanted me to be there by the beginning of april **read the next post for the end of the stroy**

well come to find out i had a miscariagge one week later.. when he found taht out he changed on me again.. he started saying that he thinks taht we're moving to fast and he's pretty much unsure now.. so i went to see him a week ago and it didn't feel the same come to find out he was still hiding things from me when i was being totally honest with him.. so i look past all of that and want it to work cause i do love him alot and the distance made it grow even more.. now he's tlling me that he thinks it's not a good idea for us to live together and taht i should rethink about coming down there then comes right back the next day and says to me i want you here with me but i don't want to live together.. if were not living to gether i'm not moving back to miami cause i think it would be pointless for us to have our own apartment and still be at each others 24/7 that's a waste of money.. what do you think he's doing?? he's sending me so many mix signals.. one day he wants it the next he doens't.. is this revenage for him becaue we had a really bad break-up?? i mean i just don't understand.. i've dated a scropio before him and we had a wonderful relationship my parents just didn't like him.. but this one they do and now i'm confused because i just don't know what he wants anymore.. was it lust on his side??

I think you answered your own question by suggesting that your relationship with a previous Scorpio was wonderful. I'm a Gem and have two very serious Scorps in my life, and although astrology can give you some sense of personality tendencies, the reality is nothing excuses a jerk. Clearly, this guy is exhibiting all signs that he is not ready, willing, and prepared to be in a relationship with you. I'm afraid I'm only saying in long form what others said to the point.

And, I say this from experience b/c one of my Scorps is what a man should be and the other is a man still learning (and who may never learn). I've also learned that my wanting the damaged man says more about me than about that person. Good luck.

wow InntJnky, you are a very wise person, now i can see at least one treat that your scorpios like in you.
can you please tell me how your relationship with your scorpio evolved? i just met a gemini guy and i just like to talk to him, he sees things so differently but i appreciate the way he thinks, we only met once but we've been talking for more than 10 days now....he tells me that he is looking for a serious relationship and he seems very open and upfront about it and i told him that i want to take things slow and he said that he can wait as long as it takes as long as he doesn't loose me!!!!i know it sounds good but not sure if he only says so to get my attention or just coz i represent something new in his life—he also said that he is considering moving in my area so we can be closer and i can go and visit him and stay over to his house for as many days as i wanted......it sounds a bit naive and difficult to believe as we don't know each other well at all...........what do you think?

"wow InntJnky, you are a very wise person, now i can see at least one treat that your scorpios like in you." Thanks, hardly that. I have a very good teacher in Experience, though 🙂. Still learning, too. 😛

"can you please tell me how your relationship with your scorpio evolved?" Which one? I'll go with the common denominator: both chose me, or sought me out. Both are introverts AND shy guys. Both contacted me via e-mail (after initially meeting) to do something casual; nothing to suggest to this poor Gemini that they were seeking more than a "how do you do," and in my ever friendly casual way I said yes, and I haven't shaken either one since 🙂. I find both difficult to communicate with (although one has heavy Virgo influences so he likes to communicate via writing more frequently). Scorp #1 (heavy Scorpio influences in Venus, Mercury, Mars, and Moon) and I were friends for almost 2 years (no hint of sex btw) when one day he asked me to visit his family, and when I said yes, it changed something (apparent to him, not to me) and boom his one expression of his emotions came via sex with no real discussion of the relationship before or after. Scorp #2 likes to talk about it (Aquarius in Moon and Venus in Virgo), but no action (for good reason--when I talk about him it's observations as friends). Sex (either implied or demonstrated) was a definite tipping point in both relationships.

Will add more later-- lunch calls! (Ha, typical Gem)

Just started dating a scorpio guy.

thank you very much Atlantic Myst, all the best and lots of love for your relationship.

markella: I'm still dating the scorp guy. We aren't exclusive yet and i haven't seen any chaacteristics of being a control freak... Maybe they will come out as time goes on.
But for now i'm having a great time.

I don't believe all scorps are control freaks. Maybe it has something to do with other moon, venus signs, etc. not just sun sign, you know.

Generally, yes, we have kinda possessiveness and jealousy but it depends on man to man for how much.

To jamreson0605, please forget your scorp and start a new life. He is not worth it.