Standards

Alright how long do you guys and woman wait to have sex with that person..for the first time.

I think its fair to say 3 months or longer...lol

Some say by the 3 rd date..

I don't follow a certain standard. When it feels right and we want to do it we do.

I think it depends on the chemistry, age, family background, etc.

I personally feel like 3 or 4 dates is acceptable...of course on a case by case basis 🙂

I have a new rule.

5 dates and that's if im interested.

within that you either get friend zoned or not called back.

but if its chemistry that is off the charts push it up to 4th or 3rd date lol.

1-2 months sounds ok.

I don't follow any set rules

Have any of you had sex on the first date ? And became a couple..

I know a few people who have been successful but for about 1-3 years. And it did evolve new born babies in their picture. So sad.


How could you possibly know ..and then bring babies into. Is it manipulation? Is it infatuation and lust, or just pure chemistry on the first 1-3 few dates..

If you want something sustainable its ok to wait on sex. Right.

That's what I heard..

Advice is wait for it.

Nowadays idk anymore. And I am beginning to think this is abnormal when I mention this topic..