Passive Aggressive?

Othan than Taurus, who is the least or worse in being Passive Aggressive?

Please describe;

If you have experienced a passive aggressive significant other. How did you deal with it?

Ok I know I can be passive aggressive. I don't mean to be.

How do you control it, so it doesn't affect others?

Is it a turn off?

If its one of those unrecognizable traits I possess without knowing. Damnit.

Every sign I have been with has been passive aggressive.
Sag
Cancer
Scorp
Aqua

Sag and cancer were by far the worst.
My current partner is the Aqua and at first I didn't even realize he was being passive aggressive but now when he does it I just call him on it and ask him to deal with the issue at hand like an adult.
Sometimes it works.
It can be a turn-off

passive agression in a corner I get backed into and I fucking hate it lol sometimes I wake up from it, its like being in limbo for me.

By far I think cancerians are passive aggressive same with saggitarians

All 12 of them fuckers!

All signs really. I've been so guilty of it myself. I've been practicing being more direct. I'm getting better.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Othan than Taurus, who is the least or worse in being Passive Aggressive?

Please describe;

If you have experienced a passive aggressive significant other. How did you deal with it?

Ok I know I can be passive aggressive. I don't mean to be.

How do you control it, so it doesn't affect others?

Is it a turn off?

If its one of those unrecognizable traits I possess without knowing. Damnit.

"Passive aggression is a destructive pattern of behaviour that can be seen as a form of emotional abuse in relationships that bites away at trust between people. It is a creation of negative energy in the ether which is clear to those involved and can create immense hurt and pain to all parties.

It happens when negative emotions and feelings build up and are then held in on a self-imposed need for either acceptance by another, dependence on others or to avoid even further arguments or conflict."

Any type of abuse toward another whether it's a significant other or someone else..is TOXIC. So yes..it would be a turn off and RUN kind of thing.

As soon as I smell this in a person..I walk the other way. Very immature.

Link to quote:

http://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/counsellor-articles/what-is-passive-aggressive-behaviour

Other than Taurus, who is the least or worse of passive aggressive behavior?

Is this a turn off? is it something you can control?

How do you control this?

Describe someone you know or love who has this unrecognizable trait? how do you react?

sorry repeat

I'm a Cancer, I can be passive aggressive but I do not enjoy it either. I just need time to get over it.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Othan than Taurus, who is the least or worse in being Passive Aggressive?

Please describe;

If you have experienced a passive aggressive significant other. How did you deal with it?

Ok I know I can be passive aggressive. I don't mean to be.

How do you control it, so it doesn't affect others?

Is it a turn off?

If its one of those unrecognizable traits I possess without knowing. Damnit.

"Passive aggression is a destructive pattern of behaviour that can be seen as a form of emotional abuse in relationships that bites away at trust between people. It is a creation of negative energy in the ether which is clear to those involved and can create immense hurt and pain to all parties.

It happens when negative emotions and feelings build up and are then held in on a self-imposed need for either acceptance by another, dependence on others or to avoid even further arguments or conflict."

Any type of abuse toward another whether it's a significant other or someone else..is TOXIC. So yes..it would be a turn off and RUN kind of thing.

As soon as I smell this in a person..I walk the other way. Very immature.

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Cancers!!!! Had an ex who used to love to withhold to punish and/or play the victim. I'm more of a direct person so it was a HUGE turnoff to me. We ended up breaking up.

I can be at times, Im a virgo but I think its immature and my father is a virgo and he is the opposite of passive. My mother can be passive aggressive, she's a Capricorn.

I control it by considering how beneficial expressing myself directly is emotionally healthier. Whenever a person is not directly expressing their anger, by simply saying it they are usually passive aggressive and it comes from a place of feeling communicatively inferior, we feel as if the other person doesn't understand us and won't, which isn't true. It honestly irritates my dad because he is a moon in leo and they don't like to be played with like that. I've also learned to listen more instead of inserting my ego in a situation which only makes me focus on how someone is emotionally hurting me, instead to deal with it, I go off by my self, get over, it then I talk it out and I feel much better. Passive agressiveness builds up, so take care of your emotions before they take care of you.

Can passive aggressive behavior be masked by mental disorders. Like certified psychopaths, bipolar, or schizophrenic. I assume if you have this behaviour trait. Is it because you were hurt by your parents when you were younger? Maybe abused, or molested..

because how does one become this?

I have experienced this with an Aquarius and Cancer man but it's been way more frequent with the Cancer.

Pisces big time

You can't win with someone like that...

Ugh