The Leo woman & the Cap man

Hey everyone,
I'm new to this site, I'm just here tonite checking out the different responses & actual admittance about Cap men. I'm going to share my story, it is present "At this moment!" It is exciting, there is a strong connection that exist. It is so real! THANK GOD for this... LOL Here it goes...
Well if possible, please can both men & women respond. Shed some insight about this joyous beginning...
This may sound strange, but before I met him I dreamed about him. "It's the truth!" I didn't know it until I met him. LOL It scared the CRAP out of me. You see in the dream, this man would come to me, help me out with everything I needed. He was like a savior of some sort. Everyone I knew liked him, especially my sister who has only liked one guy I've been with. Remember this is still in the dream.
Well he stood really tall, when he talked to me I always had to look up to him. I'm a tall woman myself, however I had to look up to him to see his face. Which to me is a major turn on. The only thing in this reacurrent dream was that I couldn't see his face. He wore two specific colors that stood out, each night this dream would take place. Well after probably 7days of dreaming about this man. I met him, WOW!!! Was all I could say when I saw him. I told my sister when I saw him. Look there goes my type right there!! She looked and smiled. I instantly had a hot flash. I looked at him for a minute and realized that was him. I turned away, really fast because I'm thinking can this really be happening! Well we continued playing the game we were playing, we were at an game place for adults. So it was a cool meeting place, to some! LOL Well he actually came and stood right behind were we where. LOL I couldn't look back at him at all. I was to nervous I didn't even know the man, to be feeling this way but the feelin was to intense.
My sister asked if I wanted to go to the restroom, I was like YES. I felt I looked right, but I just needed to check! LOL Ladies you know how that is... Well as I walked past him, I felt like my knees were going to buckle. LMAO I seen him & felt him watching me. I almost wanted to run to the bathroom. hahahahaa I didn't just kept my cool & maintained a confident demeanor of CLASS. Well when my sister and I were walking back & he grab me. OMFG! LMAO he asked if he could talk to me for a minute. I was still walking a way, but I turned to him. Instantly when I looked in his face, I was him.

It's just me again. I just wanted to finish. This will be short! LOL well since this meeting it's only been a month. I'm realistic about things, I'm not at the point where I'm willing to drop what I have going on to move away to be with this person, however it is strongly thought about. I know, I have to get to know him better & figure out his flaws. Right now, It's new. I expect the reality of my endorphines working overtly in the emotional romance department. So my guard is up, I have been talking to him, getting to know him. Finding that his perspective of the world coincides with mine, that's whats making me more attracted. I love mental stimulation it triggers every other feeling in my body here for the opposite sex. LOL The thing is that, I've beem reading alot about the Cap men. He is a busy man, he loves what he does for a living. Which, I like a lot about him. We keep intouch even with the distance between us because his work has him out of the country. We talk, when I or he can't we text. I have a life. School fulltime a Coms BA, working on my Master in Psych. Trying to be a doctor one day. I appreciate his different side, the side that I don't have. Although I'm a LEO/lioness I don't like to be in control all the time. I like my man to be in charge in every aspect of our lives together. I do not like CHUMPS, I like MEN; stable, refined centered, atheletically built men. I love them to be in control & oddly enough he displays these characteristics. He expressed himself to me, all the time about how he feels. It took me by surprise but he is opened in that way with me. By reading all these different post, made me realize something or should I say have a need to ask. Could he be different from your normal cap? Could he be saying what he thinks I want to hear? I haven't responded back in conversation that I like him too. I just haven't don't know how really. I'm like that when I really like someone. I will tell him, but I'm being cautious because it's to early. I'm just getting to know him, however my feelings are compatible with his! I've also read different compatibilty formats & they vary. We don't then we do. I guess in due time, however the feed back would be great. I really want this to work, I feel he is THE ONE!Thank you all for taking the time to read this... Please respond, be honest even if the feeling is bad. I'm an adult, just looking for some real feed back. 1 more thing I haven't ever felt like I met THE ONE before..

Um, could I just ask how you knew he was a Cap? You didn't mention it so I assume you had asked him.

**He expressed himself to me, all the time about how he feels. It took me by surprise but he is opened in that way with me. By reading all these different post, made me realize something or should I say have a need to ask. Could he be different from your normal cap?**

"Normal" cap? The problem with what most boards & books write about Caps is they almost NEVER write about the 'true' Cap. It's always, "Oh, they're hardworking, dependable, unfeeling, emotionless, cold, etc, blah x3 ).

But I'm surrounded by Cap family members & my best friend is one. If you truly get to know them, you'd find how deep they are. Remember, a cap is not a normal goat but a Mer-goat. They can, and frequently do, swim the darkest, deepest oceans of emotions. It's just that most people are not fortunate enough to have witnessed this (Caps are great at keeping secrets.

That is Cap man has opened up to you is indeed a rare event and is a sign that he trusts you. Remember, as a Mer-goat, he is as intuitive as the water signs. Therefore, there must be something about you that he trusts enough to open up to you.


Also, I could never understand why women always whine that men never open up but when they do, women always second-guess & question whether "Could he be saying what he thinks I want to hear? ".

C'mon. Just go with the flow. If YOU don't open up too (but not too much), it's a safe bet that your Mer-Goat will either swim away like a fish or swiftly climb up some other mountain like a mountain goat.

Beowulf,

Thanks for the response...

Yes I did ask; he told me his Bdate so I found that he was a CAP. I'm going with the flow, he'll know in due time. I know this much as far as dealing with men that it's only mature to get to know them, if given the chance. I know that men set the tone for the relationship. I need to be courted, there has to be something within me that he has to want enough to work for. WHile this is happening he will be rewarded, NOT sexually but with what is necassary I feel to make him worthy, well let him know he is worthy! It's not a game, it's life his & mines. I do not plan on playing any games, WHY? When I want something serious. That just doesn't sound right, "I want something serious, but I'm playing games?!!" LOL

I wouldn't read a lot of the Cap traits on boards seeking advice, as these are usually all the negative traits. No women come on here to brag about all the wonderful things their Caps do and give the sign some brownie points lol. Most people come on this site to try and understand another sign when things aren't going so well. Seems like you guys are doing fine. Don't think too hard about his sincerity. Has he done anything for you to doubt his word? (I'm not saying trust him with your life, but trust that his word is his bond until he proves otherwise...)

Gemuine,

You are so right, thanks!! I have to give the CAP male MANY MANY props. The conection is there and I feel he is being sincere, no "Gemuine", he hasn't given me any other reason to think negative about what he says. His traits are really nice, he is open, he doesn't have a problem telling me how he feels & I like it, and appreciate his honesty. To be honest after I wrote on this blog I felt more comfortable to ask if he was sincere and he said YES, he really is & I just don't know how much!!!! To me at this moment he is the one. I just feel it, the things he does & says lets me know that the feeling is mutual right now. Thanks again Gemuine, sometimes we know; but we feel the need to get some insight from else where. Say a prayer for him & I... It's always needed!!

One more thing, LOL I haven't been intimate with him & I'm a LEO it really contradicts what I've read thus far on some blogs... That just goes to show, you can't believe everything you read or hear no matter who or what the source is... (-;