Your Venus- Your partner's Venus *Compatible?

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My Venus is in Capricorn: How I Relate to a Partner with Venus in Scorpio: The passion you sense in your Venus in Scorpio mate is real, and this thought excites you. Although other lovers may find you a tad reserved and perhaps even undemonstrative in love, your Venus in Scorpio lover has a way of making you feel extraordinary. Because you both fear and crave intimacy, your partner is probably one of the most ideal people to get to you. You are intrigued, and your partner is sure to find you equally fascinating—even a challenge. Your dedication to a relationship will be appreciated by your partner, probably more than most, and it is when you feel appreciated that you are at your romantic best. You both have strong personalities, in different ways, and this may cause some tension at times. However, neither of you can stay attracted to someone "weak" for too long, so the mutual respect can do wonders for your partnership. This is a stimulating combination, one with a lot of give and a lot of take. If anything, you will certainly never be bored with each other. Perhaps what you appreciate most from your Venus in Scorpio partner is his or her ability to see past your defenses. While others may be intimidated by your often cool and even aloof exterior, your partner knows there is a lot more to you.

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My venus is in Leo and my bf's is as well.

How You Relate to a Partner who also has Venus in Leo: Oh, the drama! Both of you have similar style s in love, and your pairing highlights both the strengths and weaknesses of your mutual Venus placement. On one hand, you will thoroughly enjoy your partner's intensity and passion. Both of you seem to be forever stuck in the dreamy first stages of romance, yet you also look for security in your partnerships. Your mutual desire for long-lasting romance and passion, as well as security, can be satisfied by one another. On the other hand, you both demand to be center stage in your partnership, and this can cause some problems. If you are in one of your melodramatic moods, who will come to your rescue? Your Venus in Leo partner might, but only if he/she is in that mood. Chances are rather high, however, that your partner will be needing some fawning and special attention too. This can be a love-hate relationship—a David Bowie lyric comes to mind: "when it's good, it's really good; and when it's bad I go to pieces." Both of you want to feel extra special—you want to be the best in your partner's eyes. This is a very passionate combination with much potential, but it may at times feel like too much of a good thing.

It's pretty accurate. However, the love-hate aspect is a little exaggerated. We're not quite that dramatic. I can see where we both wanna take the center stage. We both like to be fawned and fussed over by the other. I don't mind doing more of it but being that he's male, and a double cancer, he can be kind of oblivious sometimes when he needs to return the attention. I have to literally, point-blank ask for it and the female in me can get a little frustrated because I don't want to have to always ask. It's not that big of a deal though and most of the time things are really good. We truly do have the same love style and the reciprocity is sooo nice.
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Posted by wateraries
I have my venus in pisces. My ex had his venus in sagittarius. We drived each other crazy, he never understood me.
What do you guys think would be the best compatibility with venus in pisces? Venus in cancer or?



http://cafeastrology.com/articles/venuspiscescompatibility.html<BR>
Looks like Venus in Cancer or Virgo is best for you...this site has more info
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I have a Venus in Scorpio.

How You Relate to a Partner with Venus in Gemini: This has got to be one of the most challenging combinations! An odd couple? Absolutely. But remember that we often gravitate towards challenges, and we usually learn a great bit from people who are markedly different than ourselves. It seems that "like attracts like" on a spiritual level, but on the physical plane, opposites often attract! Initially, the attraction between you may be intense. Both of you are curious lovers (albeit in completely different ways!), and you can be entirely fascinated with one another. But the very differences that attracted you to each other in the first place can turn into serious "issues" as time goes on. Both of you are provocative in your own way. Your partner is a tease, a flirt. This doesn't necessarily mean that he or she flirts with everyone, but he or she does infuse a lot of lighthearted fun into their relationship. Your love nature is intense, and you crave intimacy. When intimacy is threatened, you can become very provocative in ways that are difficult to see for the untrained eye. The means by which you attempt to regain a sense of control will vary depending on the type of Venusian Scorpio you are. You are astute and perceptive, and can easily learn how to push your partner's buttons, and can become quite skilled at doing so in subtle ways. You want your partner's soul, not just their body! Your partner, however, has an entirely different view of partnership. He or she wants it to be fun, while you will gladly sacrifice fun for intensity. Learning to blend these distinctly different style s and values can be challenging, but with success, very rewarding!

Hehe, spot on!
Being a Saggy+Gem couple doesn'thelp with the whole opposites dilemma.
My main problem is my own jealousy and being possessive.
My boyfriend often bring up the argument that I want to own him "mind, body and soul", which isn't too far from the truth.
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my venus is in scorpio. My ex-bf who is a leo has his venus in Cancer:This is considered an easier pairing than most because both of your Venus signs are in Water. A similar—and familiar—vein to the quality of your expressions of love can draw you to one another and make you feel "at home". Both of you take commitment rather seriously, and neither of you is frivolous with your feelings and expressions. Your partner's warmth and caring nature will feel regenerating to you, and your partner senses your all-encompassing love that will hold special appeal to your loving partner. At times, the love you offer can feel all-consuming, but this doesn't scare your partner like it would with some other lovers. In fact, the love your partner gives is rather similar, and you don't fear closeness and intimacy. In fact, you live for it! The attraction between the two of you is magnetic, deeply felt, and has the potential to withstand the test of time if other factors in synastry support it. Both of you tend to be possessive in love, and your partner's memory is powerful. Communication should be as open as possible, as both of you tend towards holding silent grudges at times. Your partner's reaction to hurts is often internalized, while you can grow cold and unresponsive when you feel slighted. However, the empathy that runs between you can soften any hard angles in your relationship.