A seroius sTatement...?

I've heard that you can't help who you fall in love with?

is this statement true?

it's true for me. but it's always up to you to decide what you'll do with it.

how so GB? In a way men can't either because in order for them to initially wanna be with someone they have be attracted to them. So the in a way ..is out of their control.

^^ why do you think that is? the whole "women are more emotional" hoo-ha?

i dont know...im just wondering how much is really under our control? women can have power over their emotions if they choose too... women under 18 get a free pass but if your older I think you should be able to get it together.

If you can't choose who you are attracted to how can you choose who you love?

There are certain reason why your not choosing to go after that person for a relationship... reasons that you may or may not be able to point out.

"women under 18 get a free pass but if your older I think you should be able to get it together."

The funny thing is it was so much easier for me to control my emotions when I was younger! Oar at leas hide them, now it's damn near impossible sometimes!

"i can also talk myself out of it too. it just takes time."

yeah me too but allllllllooooooooottttttt of time and talking.

"I've heard that you can't help who you fall in love with?"

Absolutely True
You dont "Choose" to fall in love, it just happens.
The awkward bit is when your heart and your head are saying different things!

i agree dog.

I agree 2

"the worse thing a partner of mine can do, if the relationship isn't going well, is to leave me to my own thoughts without communicating."

That is the worst ever, my mind is my own worst enemy. If there's an issue and you tell me we are done talking about it or anything on those lines and you leave me to my own thoughts. It will be devestating.