Have You Ever Really Hated Someone ?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by dogsbody on Monday, October 27, 2008 and has 19 replies.

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@dogsbody
18 Years1,000+ Posts

Ive only ever "Hated" one person in my life:
A really nasty boss i once had, the coldest,hardest most ruthless Bitch Ive ever known.
She systematically got rid of everyone in the office that she didnt like, regardless of their competency,loyalty and years of service.
And, they were all replaced one by one with her "Friends"
That was 7yrs ago, I swear if i was driving down the street and she was crossing the road, id still be sorely tempted to put my foot on the accelerator and not the brake.
She got "Her's" in the end - Picked on the wrong person and ended up getting fired herself.
What goes around, comes around.

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@LeChuck
19 Years

Loud neighbors. I could work over them with a rusty spoon for days on end, but unfortunately that's very illegal.

I also have a thing for people who attack me without any provocation on my part, especially if I thought we were cool before.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Dogsbody, go to your edit profile page, on the bottom click on the profantiy filter .. then you'll be able to write and read profanities.

Cookiemonster will then be b.i.t.c.h ... if you write s.h.i.t.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

I'm more inclined to hate actions of people, and not the person themselves. such as .. I love my son, I loved my mother, etc .. and both of them could do "something" I absolutely hated. I've had bosses, friends, co-workers who have done things I couldn't stand for them to do ... but, I don't remember ever hating the person for it.

Perhaps, angry at the time ... but, the moment passed and realization then came that the person wasn't to be hated .. just the deed they did.

Before my mother passed away, when she was defenseless because her condition was fragile .. people did things to harm her emotionally because they took advantage of her helpless state of mind, and I still don't hate these people ... I hate how they treated her, though.

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@zantetzuken
18 YearsLeo

I have truly hated several people. Usually lasted a few years until I flushed them out of my system if I don't see them for a few years. There are a select few who I never stopped hating.

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@Perfect Gem Angel
18 Years500+ Posts

I can Hate, but it is really a waste of time and energy, which i would much rather spend "loving, sharing and caring" living in peace with, while creating.

I hate some actions folks do, but not them as a person, I hate some of the things that go on around me, but not life.

Hmmmmmm, maybe i use too strong a word, ya think? Hate vs. Dislike?