Aries Woman and Scorpio Male NEW Relationship

Hello.

I am an Aries woman, and I have been seeing this guy for awhile. I just now started looking into the zodiac signs, this is actually the first time I've found any answers at all to questions that I have regarding myself and him. I've done a lot of studying on our compatibility and I see that our relationship will be challenging, and have it's ups and downs. However, I've also read that it's not impossible to have a good relationship. I've only been officially his "Girlfriend" for about a month, but before this we were seeing each other exclusively for 3 months. During that time period we had no arguments, problems, etc. However, I am a very worrisome person and a couple of weeks ago I mentioned something about him not having much time to hang out (he works constantly late nights) and we rarely have time to see each other during the week. He claims that he just works a lot and tends to keep to himself in his spare time. I am normally ok with this, but when we started dating he seemed to stop trying so much to makes plans with me. Before he would text me almost every day on his own and we would never go a day without speaking. After we became a "couple" I am now the one who has to make the effort to talk/hang out. These are not good signs. I really like him a lot and want this to work out, but I'm afraid I'm the one who may have caused problems by complaining about his availability and how he seemed to not want to talk as much as he did previously. My main concern is how often to talk to HIM. I want to give him space, but I don't want him to get bored of me. Right now I'm texting him only once at night, every other day. When I do talk to him, he responds immediately and keeps our conversations going for quite awhile, interested in how I'm doing and what I'm up to, etc. I guess I just miss him wanting to talk to me first, and making our plans to meet up. I'm not a needy person, but I would like at least a LITTLE bit of attention on his end.I also know what everybody says: wait for him to text first. If he wants to talk, he will. I'm just frustrated with waiting. It's not a great start off to our dating relationship, thanks to me and my
complaining.

Another thing is that he is 27 and has only had two girlfriends, he has never found any other girl besides myself worth dating, so that has to be a good sign at least, right?

I'm just really confused. Any advice?

Well, first - accept that you are needy. Which is fine. But don't claim to not be, when your question is about further satisfying your need to have him show his interest in you.

Second, the only way that what you want to have happen, will happen, is if you stop chasing him. You're giving him every reason not to have to pursue you. Every other day - he knows he's going to hear from you, because you can't (aries) wait for him to come to you.

Does it appear he likes you - from limited info - yes. Does it appear that he doesn't perceive the need to show his interest because you're already his - yes. From what I can see, not a whole lot that's confusing there, other than you aren't getting what you want. Which... either you change your actions to try and elicit the "right" response from him, or find someone that will give you the attention you need.