Me and my cap were together for 7 goin on 8 monthes it was great we continue to go on dates and ling walks with eachother we took our time with everything we never rushed or did things too soon. We love eachother but recently he felt i was pushing him too much and he pushed me away and needed time, i basically had to see him eveyday and he would just walk past me like nothing when i confronted him he said he love me to death but he needs time, every 2 days i broke down and called him or tried to talk to him for him to come back this just made it worst, after the arguments got worst he told me he cant do this rite now and its over, he told me it was over 2 more times after this, the second time it was our anaversary and i said happy anaversary and he said "were not together" then 20 mins later he sent me a txt saying "happy anversary" after he brokeup with me he continue to read my facebook and twitter and he doesnt have me as a friend on neither, everytime i trry to get him back he says he cant do it rite now, after our last convo 3 days past and he txt me sayin he misses me then didnt respond, the then later saw me by accident and he ran away from me then b4 i could leave the area he was in he called me and asked where i was then he meet me, after blankly starring into my face i just hugged him And started to kiss him after i kissed him he had tears in his eyes and said "we have to get back together we have to make this work, you cannot see other men you are still mines, i miss you sooo much you have nooo idea i love u and we have to take our time" i said ok . He then made me have lunch with him and a group of friends but b4 the lunch he bickered with me and was alittle mad, so after the dinner he said he cant do it its too soon i made him feel like he did when we brokeup so on valentines day i suprised him and bought him a teddy bear and card with candy, he acted cold to me and i tried to tlk to him the card was a poem he used to sing to me, so after we walked a few blocks and he was silent with attitude we stood on the platform and as his train came he took the card out the bag and got on the train and left me standing there on the platform with the candy and teddy bear in my hand. I decieded not to say anything to him and let him come back on his own time. He would call me and when the convo was good he would continue to call until we get into a argument about our relationship then he dissape
He would call me and when the convo was good he would continue to call until we get into a argument about our relationship then he dissapear for a day or 2 then call again the last time we tlked it was argument about him neededing time to get past everything and he said i cant be with you "rite now", he didnt tlk to me for a few days so i txt him and he said hes very depressed and everythings fucked up so he told me to leave him alone for rite now. Caps and their space. But i wounder is he gonna come back ? Im Aquarius with Venus in pisces Btw and 6 houses in capp too =)
He would call me and when the convo was good he would continue to call until we get into a argument about our relationship then he dissapear for a day or 2 then call again the last time we tlked it was argument about him neededing time to get past everything and he said i cant be with you "rite now", he didnt tlk to me for a few days so i txt him and he said hes very depressed and everythings fucked up so he told me to leave him alone for rite now. Caps and their space. But i wounder is he gonna come back ? Im Aquarius with Venus in pisces Btw and 6 houses in capp too =)
I know it is hard because you really like him, but he knows you like him. You have to back off just like he is doing. Find something else to do, don't BUY him anything anymore (unless you are exclusive). He should have been buying you something for Valentine's Day, NOT the other way around. He was probably embarrassed, because if you were his lady, believe me, he would have come out of his pocket and gave you the Valentine gift.
Let him come to you. Please. Then don't be available as much. Have a life that doesn't always accomodate him.
1. When he told you that he needed "space" the 1st time, you should've believed him & given it to him. No ands if or buts. When a person (Capricorn or not) says they need space or alone time, they are usually dead serious.
2. He's not ready for a relationship right now. He's said it 100 times. If you're confused, it's b/c you're purposely making things more complicated than need be. He's not ready & everything you've shared about his actions back up what he's said to you 100 times.
3. He may have true feelings for you OR his sweet talk may all be bull. Whatever the case may be, his fear of commitment to you OUTWEIGHS his feelings for you. That's why he can't bring himself to get back with you.
4. He may really like/love you but yet not like that you come off as being so clingy. That turns off most men, not just your guy. So don't be surprised when your frequent calls & desperation for his attention or for him to talk to you, earn you the silent treatment or cold shoulder.
5. I'm not saying move on. BUT you've gotta atleast do something DIFFERENT than what you've already been doing (b/c what you've been doing has NOT been working). Back up a little bit. Give him some room. Allow your logic to come back, instead of you approaching every situation involving him solely with your feelings.
6. If you want him back that bad, back up. He's told you AND shown you that you wanting him at a time when he's pulling away from you is NOT working & is NOT the way to get him back or get what you want. So change things up a bit. Surprise him. Be unpredictable for once. Right now, he's expecting for you to be your usual clingy self when he pulls away, so be the opposite. Not b/c you wanna play games, BUT b/c you oughta love yourself enough to NOT chase someone unless they feel your worth it and/or will chase you on a CONSISTENT basis
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go on dates and ling walks with eachother we took our time with everything we
never rushed or did things too soon. We love eachother but recently he felt i
was pushing him too much and he pushed me away and needed time, i basically had
to see him eveyday and he would just walk past me like nothing when i confronted
him he said he love me to death but he needs time, every 2 days i broke down and
called him or tried to talk to him for him to come back this just made it worst,
after the arguments got worst he told me he cant do this rite now and its over,
he told me it was over 2 more times after this, the second time it was our
anaversary and i said happy anaversary and he said "were not together" then 20
mins later he sent me a txt saying "happy anversary" after he brokeup with me he
continue to read my facebook and twitter and he doesnt have me as a friend on
neither, everytime i trry to get him back he says he cant do it rite now, after
our last convo 3 days past and he txt me sayin he misses me then didnt respond,
the then later saw me by accident and he ran away from me then b4 i could leave
the area he was in he called me and asked where i was then he meet me, after
blankly starring into my face i just hugged him And started to kiss him after i
kissed him he had tears in his eyes and said "we have to get back together we
have to make this work, you cannot see other men you are still mines, i miss
you sooo much you have nooo idea i love u and we have to take our time" i said
ok . He then made me have lunch with him and a group of friends but b4 the lunch
he bickered with me and was alittle mad, so after the dinner he said he cant do
it its too soon i made him feel like he did when we brokeup so on valentines day
i suprised him and bought him a teddy bear and card with candy, he acted cold to
me and i tried to tlk to him the card was a poem he used to sing to me, so after
we walked a few blocks and he was silent with attitude we stood on the platform
and as his train came he took the card out the bag and got on the train and left
me standing there on the platform with the candy and teddy bear in my hand. I
decieded not to say anything to him and let him come back on his own time. He
would call me and when the convo was good he would continue to call until we get
into a argument about our relationship then he dissape