I've been with my virgo man for a year now..at the beggining of the relationship..( ist 2 months)..i could feel that he do really loves me..i could see all the effort on his part to win me over..but then i have observed that he tends to lie low when he feels that am already into him..i dont now know if he still have real feelings for me..he go to my place friday night..and we see each other saturdays and sundays..when i text him he replies to my messages and return my calls promptly..an when i do need him..he still there for me..but whats bothering me is the fact that i can see the changes on how hes treating me now compared before..just yesterday i got angry on him coz after we parted last wednesday..(he slept in my place)..i waited for him to just even text me..to ask me if am doing ok..but i just get disappointed..so i initiate the text and told him how dare him to not even remember to text me..and his excuse was he thought i have decided to drift myself away from him since i told him last thursday that i cried since i've realized that what we're doing is wrong..that's one of my problem on him..he just conclude things without even asking me first whats on me..and disappear and comes back whenever he wants..before; i was not bothered by his disappearing acts and just wait for him to come back..am thinking that when this guy still come back then that means that he really loves me and still wants to be with me..but its different now..i dont want to be treated that way anymore..he has to make up his mind and stop playing games with me..am asking you guys to help me realize what's really going on in him..and what to do with this situation..i love him and i dont have plans to break up with him..
confused with my virgo man..

ohhhh.. my heart aches for u it really does.. i will be blunt (unfortunate at times Sagg tendency of mine) Hes probably having sex or even emotional relations with another person.. if its not ALL U then common sense.. someone is getting it somewhere.. i just finally.. after so muchhh consideration let my virgo guy go.. u dont wana wait til i did.. AFTER the point of no return did i decide this.. by then he had already started being caddy and mean even.. sooo unlike him..to this day i dont know wat happened.. he never wants to tell me.. i was just as u r perplexed as hell.. the mind games..they speak for themselves.. he didnt even wana be bothered with being serious..!!.. that was wat drove me to the fact that he cant possibly love me cause it didnt start like this so y the hell is it like this now... they are much better at showing than telling. HIS ACTIONS WILL SPEAK LOUDER THAN HIS WORDS my whimsical imagination was showing me all the pitiful excuses i gave for still bein openminded about him and US even butnow i know its over.. wana know wat i told him wen he called me last nite.."Throw away my number.." wana know wat he said.."Done bun"..mind u we've known each other for over 5 years now.. he now acts like its been 5 days or sum sh--.. but im not going to get on my soapbox.. wat do u really feel in your heart for this man..??.. thats wats important.. if HE isnt tryin to hear it.. u already know wat u must do 😉
yeah, i feel your pain love. i really do. i fell in love with a virgo as well, didnt end too pretty. i told him, as we started talking i dont want to get attatched,(for personal reasons of course)but all he said was "Oh, please do!"
listen dear, it hurts, we love easily and in the process get hurt just as easily. dont end up like the rest of us try moving on slowly but surely. the reason for this is bc if you move on too fast you'll not only be hurting yourself but your mate as well...hoped this helped.
listen dear, it hurts, we love easily and in the process get hurt just as easily. dont end up like the rest of us try moving on slowly but surely. the reason for this is bc if you move on too fast you'll not only be hurting yourself but your mate as well...hoped this helped.
so what happened last night..he texted me and were communicating for like two hours through text..he seemed to be thoughtful again..i told him am already missing him...but he replied that he was going home today and well be back on monday.so it means he can/t see me on weekends...just told him that he should keep in touch with me while hes there..and just said he will..so does it mean that he still cares?...
so what happened last night..he texted me and were communicating for like two hours through text..he seemed to be thoughtful again..i told him am already missing him...but he replied that he was going home today and well be back on monday.so it means he can/t see me on weekends...just told him that he should keep in touch with me while hes there..and just said he will..so does it mean that he still cares?...
he's 34 and seperated for more or less 4 years now..they dont have a child..i really never thought that i would fall for an older guy much more to a married man..it just happens..coz we're boardmates before..for almost a year..but i live in another boarding house for almost 3 months now..but the relationship still continues..i thought then my love for him will just fade away by the time i will leave..but i was wrong!..now..we dont see each other everyday like before but i still have the same feelings for him..
OK....don't hate me...
Hopeless may be right....I just went through this very same thing with Virgo guy...he disappears, doesnt call, etc...come to find out I'm not the only "woman" in his life. I asked and he answered honestly...yes, he is sleeping w/ others. Probabaly even has a full on relationship w/ someone and I was just a booty call in between.
Virgos can be dogs= MEN all can be dogs no matter what sign.
I would ask straight out if he he was sleeping with others...they usually are honest if asked but will not volunteer the information.
Hopeless may be right....I just went through this very same thing with Virgo guy...he disappears, doesnt call, etc...come to find out I'm not the only "woman" in his life. I asked and he answered honestly...yes, he is sleeping w/ others. Probabaly even has a full on relationship w/ someone and I was just a booty call in between.
Virgos can be dogs= MEN all can be dogs no matter what sign.
I would ask straight out if he he was sleeping with others...they usually are honest if asked but will not volunteer the information.
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