Virgo males as friends...

Are Virgo males compatible of long lasting friendships with girls? When they say something do they mean what they are saying? Basically, I'm curious about how Virgo males view girls as friends. I've read somewhere on DXP that Virgos have small circles of friends. Is it like Virgos test people to see if the person is worthy and if they are then the Virgo considers you a friend?
Any replies would be great.

Sorry, I wrote the wrong thing in the first post. Strike the first sentence. What I meant instead of compatible was this:
"Are Virgo males able to have long lasting friendships with girls?"

Some Virgos will not enter into relationship with you until them make sure that they totally control you.

You as an Aquarius, probably will never make a Virgo trust you, because any trick of trying to posses you will be unsuccessfull. They fear people whom they cant control.

Yeah Mistical.

And when you read, notice that Virgos fail to see that the world is "give and take" based. Not just give give give...

Haffo
So it's a control issue? Interesting. I've never dealt with Virgos except for one and I find him very confusing.

Strings

Is that really true what you wrote? Can you give a little more insight since you are a Virgo? You seem to know how Virgo males are🙂

Mystical

Yes it's control issue. But it's not same with all Virgos. Some do understand that. Watch out for this tendency if they are too much into themselves.

Haffo,

The one I know is not too much into himself. Although he has in the past wanted me to know how popular he is among girls. Strangely, it never bothered me. I've always seen him as a friend though. I just wonder how long a friendship can last and how long do they consider you a friend. Yes, being an Aquarian we value friendship very much. He's been a handful though but it's been very interesting. They have definitely gotten my interest because they are quite unique. 🙂

"Although he has in the past wanted me to know how popular he is among girls."

Watch it.

"Strangely, it never bothered me."

Should be.

"I just wonder how long a friendship can last and how long do they consider you a friend."

Under these circumstances of them, I don't think they could find a real friend.

"Yes, being an Aquarian we value friendship very much."

If they take more than they give, I say watch it. Don't let them take andvantage of you. I'm sure such behaviour will end friendship right there, but you might get hurt big time when this happens. So watch it.

"He's been a handful though but it's been very interesting. They have definitely gotten my interest because they are quite unique."

Don't let this fool you. Look at Shophie68's post.

Haffo,

I should be bothered with him telling me about other girls? I think if I was in love or whatever than it should bother me. Thankfully I'm not. Yes, he's not been so easy but he is very funny. I don't let him take advantage because I will not tolerate that. This is something he knows.

Yes, I have been reading Sophie68's post. What a shame to be treated like she was. Maybe the Virgo guy will come around some time. I have found and read a Virgo disappears to just reappear when you've forgotten them. It's like don't forget about me and could anybody forget a Virgo. They are not easy but do have a way of saying things to make you think.

" I should be bothered with him telling me about other girls?"

I mean, whats the point? He brings himself above the others which is a sign of big ego, and that is red flag for me, so yes my personal idea is that you should be bothered.

"Yes, he's not been so easy but he is very funny."

Virgos do appear like try to figure you out and find you weak spots for further manipualtions. I don't find this very wrong, but ego makes them use it only for themselves. They also seems to hide their tendencies behind some funny outfit alot too. So it can't fool me anymore.

"I don't let him take advantage because I will not tolerate that. This is something he knows. "

Great. Taking precuations is always good for future. Once the rod is broken, you will know what you will lose.

"Yes, I have been reading Sophie68's post. What a shame to be treated like she was. Maybe the Virgo guy will come around some time."

And the point of waiting him? I think after being treated like that, such person should be simply kicked in da arse.

"It's like don't forget about me and could anybody forget a Virgo."

Well they appear to asses the situation and plot the strategy. When they see like they are too much over you, they disappear for some time and allow you to cool down. When you cooled down, you generally forget about bad things happened in the past (A manipulation?) and bring your defences down which is your most vulnerable time. Once they realised your weak spots they move in.

"They are not easy but do have a way of saying things to make you think."

So am I.

Haffo,

I'm sensing you've dealt with Virgos before? You seem to have a lot of knowledge about how they are.

You are right on what you are saying. This Virgo friend would call me everyday for a month and a half. I didn't know why he did that and it was fine by me that he called. Then all of a sudden he stopped. I couldn't figure it out. I thought he and I were friends. I would call him too but he got annoyed with that because he wanted to do the calling. So when I didn't hear from him I gave him a little friendly call asking how he was. Oh, suddenly he had a girlfriend. He had been singel but not anymore. Then it was like I was forgotten. I let 2 weeks go by before I checked in on him (like friends do with each other) and he realizes he's better off alone than having a girlfriend. I don't understand this. Why does he have the girlfriend then? I guess he doesn't want to be alone. He told me he would be getting back to me as he always does. He hadn't forgotten me at all. He's the type who always comes back. He's been partying up a storm since his girlfriend isn't around.

I agree with you that the Virgo guy should be kicked in the arse with the way he has treated Sophie68. No one deserves to be treated like that. More than likely the Virgo guy will pop up when she least expects it. Then she has to decide what she wants to do.