He was exactly who I thought he was?

Ok, is it wrong to have pre-assumptions about a potential mates character before the relationship actually starts??

I have to admit, I am guilty of doing this he turned out to be exactly how I thought 😢 DID I JINX myself by assuming in the first place?

Have you guy ever experience this, how did it end up ?

Sometimes it becomes a filter. If you're looking for manipulation any kind gestures looks like a set up

Hmmm seems like pre assuming actually does set a relationship up for failure or nah

Bad presumptions and poor advice add up to detrimental human behaviors? Tune is, dear readers, we may get an answer to our ponderous question as the thread goes on.

(Think about it.)

Nothing wrong with pre assumption, his character speaks for itself and you read it right, you saved yourself from that relationship ride from hell.

LOL!! Why are some of these comments not making any sense to me? Dxpnet is full of strange ppl, strange indeed -_- lol!

LOL@strange...I see you're looking for conflict, oops my bad, wrong thread.

Posted by tiki33
LOL@strange...I see you're looking for conflict, oops my bad, wrong thread.

Your post actually made sense (clear and to the point) You don't have to look for conflict on this site it usually comes with very little effort.

He want and usually they never are

He wasnt exactly who I thought he was and is someone entirely different I might add.

So damned down at the moment about it yet it typical behaviour from the person who i thought he was, that it makes sense little bit of sense although not all sense. Some parts just dont add up at all and still yet to figure it all out.

However who I thought he was he isnt and this is a good thing but then again why has it happened this way? and what is it that they want from me?

All is not lost and this is a good thing.

The reason why is because there are two people named a particular name and that he keeps changing his name like he changes his underpants this is why he wasnt who I thought he was even though he felt the same way like before. That never changes the way people feel or come across to you.

Ok also the drugs he may have gave me to forget 'these dreams' he would tell me more times than I care to remember

But even as these things do happen, who is forcing him to do this to me will become apparent in the near future as I believe everything happens for a reason sometimes that reason/s is not clearly seen at times of not at all and also at times there never is a reason for such things to happen and this is not one of them.

thats why i step back away from everything to see it clearer and the less i participate in life the more i see what is going on. Its fun and something i find a hobby with. i like it and i like it alot.