Help!! Cancer Ex wanted back....

I have had a bit of a turbulent realtionship with a cancer sun, leo rising, aires moon man and we got back so many itmes, the las t time I didn't even realize he was trying because of the shock and the pain of it all. Recently I wrote hima letter of closure and he answered back with feelings but refused to meet with me because of his new girl...I'm sonfused.what does he want and did I screw up by conatcting him too much and what am I to even thinkat this point—?

I'm usually the one pursued now I don't know how far to go to pursue him?? HelP!

Can you take some time to let us in a little more on this situation? And what sign are you?

Well one...honey he has another girlfriend. So at this point, whether he moved on too quickly from you or not, things won't be the same since he's added a new addition into his life. Him going to get another girlfriend will only confuse things within him even more b/c now instead of just dealing with all of your emotions & personality, he's got to deal with this new girl. I don't know why you guys broke up but at this point, you have to stop your emotions from completely taking over & allow some of your logic to come back. The more you guys break up just to make up, the MORE the chances that your relationship with him will lose a little bit of quality by the time you guys go back to eachother. If he moved on so quickly to another woman without finishing what he started with you then you need to just take a step back & analyze things for a second. Think about all the bull you'd prob. have to go through if you were to let him back in your life. It's okay to miss him b/c it's natural to have a little bit of trouble letting go of something that at one time was routine in your life. BUT, with what you've already shared, it seems like now you've just made this whole thing into a game of cat & mouse. Don't just miss him & want him back just b/c he stops chasing you. You guys keep on breaking up for a reason. To save yourself from more heartache, just try something different this time for 2010, & stay away from him so that you can get your mind more clear. Whether he chases you or not shouldn't matter. It's what he does with his SPARE time while he's away from you that counts

well heres the thing if he wont meet cause of a new gurl move on hes playin a game im sorry but with what you posted theres my blunt
opinion if you as me gurl above posted post more info then i can give a better educated guess of ur next move in my opinion should be


so good luck

Scorpio/Cancer can be a really beautiful thing. The feelings are so so intense, sometimes you gotta relax and take a break. If he has a new woman, leave him alone. If it's meant to be it'll be.. and chance is he is still thinking of you. Us Cancers never forget anyone who meant something to us.

Move on.

I agree. I think you should move on. IT's never worth it to continue craving someone who doesn't know how to finish one thing before he starts another. Whether he got another girlfriend to make you jealous, get a rebound, escape all the stuff with you or even if it's just b/c he's ready to move on, doesn't really matter b/c the main point to be made is that him moving on before clearing up all emotional ties with you means that he doesn't know how to effectively deal with emotional situations. His method of dealing with them is to run or to perhaps NOT even deal with them. Welp, maybe that's why you guys aren't working out. Now that he has a new girlfriend, & whether he got her for the right/wrong reasons, is besides the point. Now that he's with someone else it means that the chances of you 2 ever going back to being the same (which is what I'm assuming you want) get slimmer & slimmer as time goes by. Like I said, him having this new girlfriend means that he now has to deal with her personality, emotional demands & all the good/bad territory that comes with being with her. That in itself means that you, as the ex will never be able to fully get the attention & clear-headed chances that you deserve. That alone is grounds for moving on. Is it okay & natural to miss him? Sure. But what is so desirable or attractive about going back to someone only to end up in the same predicament every single time? Hell, you guys are spending more time NOT having a relationship than you guys spend on having one. Let this new girl have him. He walked away b/c he wanted to. Now if he comes back, it'll be for all the wrong reasons. As hard as it is to do so, just move on. I'm not saying forget about him, BUT what I am saying though is allow a little distance between the 2 of you so that you (b/c YOU're the only one you can CONTROL) can get back to being more logical moreso than all emotional. Once you start focusing on yourself, you'd be suprised..When & IF he comes back, it might hit you that he wasn't even worth it