Can 2 Cancers work—

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by pretty713 on Tuesday, November 3, 2009 and has 11 replies.

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@pretty713
16 Years

In a love relationship...can two Cancers work and really be happy together—? Or will it be a emotional flood.

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@xangelfishx
19 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

statistics say nothing of their happiness. Cancers are more likely to stay together a) to avoid failure/lonliness and/or b) for the children. Most of the cancers I know barely get along with other cancers as friends because there's too much emotion and they view each other as weak and needy and don't trust one another. My cancer friend at work has been married to another cancer for a little over a year and things fell apart very quickly but they've stayed together for the reasons I mentioned.

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@MissMaryMack
16 Years

I was married to a Cancer for over 15 years. Some of them were great and some of them were terrible. We STILL 'get' each other and are each others biggest supporters...we just couldn't live together anymore. We stayed in the marriage wayyy longer than I suspect many others would have-neither one of us could admit that it was over.

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@Sarinka_Moon
16 Years

Only if both parties are willing to speak up and say what's on each other's minds because I believe this is one of the most unique combos I've ever experienced!

I dated a Cancer man for 10 years. We broke up when I moved away. There were good times, just like there were bad times. Nobody said it would be perfect.

You just can't be lazy in a relationship like this.

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@pretty713
16 Years

Posted by The-Dream
It can work only if both of you are not lazy in the relationship.

Someone else made a similar response like this a few post up........What do you mean by...."not be lazy".....do 2 Cancer's in a relationship require a lot of work?? and tip toeing handling everthing with soft gloves—?