I need some help about a taurus...

OK! This is kind of a long story so I will try to condense it. So, a long time taurus guy and I started dating a little bit a few years ago, but nothing really came of it but we remained close and good friends. I could always count on him and he could count on me. But we lost contact because his girlfriend didn't like how much we talked. Well, until recently, I reached out to him first and we hit it off again. We talked about old time and feelings. Well, he kept bringing up us again and old feelings that he still loved me and thinks about me all time etc. He even said about taking a weekend trip to figure us out. (We both are in current relationships with other people) Of course, my old emotions came flooding back. We eventually hung out and had a great time, a couple weeks later, I had time to hang out with him but he couldn't. Well, I pestered him and teasing him about coming up until he snapped. Little did I know, you mess with the bull and you get the horns. When he snapped, he blamed everything on me that I was taking our "friendship too far" and "too literal." He said that he was happy with his girlfriend and wanted us to remain only casual and mutual friends. I didn't say much beyond ok but I was stunned. I than did another no-no and ignored him when he texted me the next day and again a few days later. I just needed time to think about it. I texted him about a week or so later saying I wasn't mad at him that I cooled down, but still wasn't happy with what he said but understood. I did eventually say I am sorry but I haven't heard anything from him since and it's going on 2 weeks since I said I'm sorry.

My questions

-why did he snap and blame stuff he said about us on me?
-will he come back?

I have read that to not interfere with a taurus when he is thinking. But how long do I have to wait?
I'm going crazy not talking to him? I miss him a lot.

Any insight is welcome.

Went the similar. Save yourself the heart ache, drama and thin thread he has you on. Cut bait and keep it moving. Some things need to stay in the past.
I'm sorry but it's true. Let him go.

Leave the guy alone and this is why his girlfriend had a problem with you, you take things way too far and it's drama.

If you have a boyfriend you really have no business reaching out to the Taurus.

Why tease him when he clearly stated he was busy. Why not say okay and let it be but of course you took it too far and so yeah he's going to snap off on you, what you did was immature and just needy, playing or not playing.

Stop chasing this guy, move on, you clearly want him as more than a friend and the bull isn't up for it. He picked her over you. What does that tell you?

Lolm tiki. I was so channeling you in my response. :-) could hear your fingers going when I typed mine. Lol

You had a girlfriend to begin with you lie when dealing with this other and think you can be friends with another, thats not how it usually goes.

What were you hoping to get out of this? Let go

Another string? Leave go

Other words - GO?

He sort of led you on. And he was wrong for that!

BUT the fact that he never committed to you should've been your cue that all those sweet "words" meant nothing if he wasn't gonna put his money where his mouth was!

I doubt he tells his girlfriend that he once used to fill your head up with false dreams & used the L word with you. He probably played you off like some platonic friend, hence the reason she's surprised and got offended when she saw/heard evidence of the contrary. His girlfriend probably went through his phone & saw that your conversation with him was a little too "emotional" for he liking & probably started an argument with him. Since she matters more to him than you do, he probably snapped on you 1. B/c he's mad that someone he's not with is causing problems with the person he loves & 2. His snappy reaction was moreso a show that he put on for his girlfriend

You know how women are...once they see that their man has put another woman in her "place," they start to feel better. Problem is, his girlfriend missed the hint that this guy gave you a reason to feel that you were more than friends & was willing to cross boundaries by even entertaining an emotional conversation with another woman to begin with. He probably got caught & snapped on you b/c it was his way of finally pushing you away AND giving his girlfriend the reassurance that she was looking for.

Just leave him alone. I get it. There was probably a time when things looked promising b/w you 2, but that ship has sailed & his lack of commitment to you was the ACTION everybody tells people to pay more attention to, & his WORDS backing up his action should be your confirmation that there will be no chance b/w you two

You might be ok with just being platonic friends with him from here on out but you have to be considerate of the fact that his woman may not buy it & she'd have every reason not to. Once a woman senses that another woman wants her man & is willing to disrespect her relationship boundaries to have him, it's only natural that she'll want her as far away from her man as possible.

It's all fun & games to call someone insecure or "just jealous" when you're being a b***tch about your man not talking to a specific female but when that female proves you RIGHT & shows that she doesn't have the respect for the relationship that she should, all bets are off. And if he's any kind of man & respects his commitment to her, he'll let you go. Once you get caught, you can't k

It's all fun & games to call someone insecure or "just jealous" when you're being a b***tch about your man not talking to a specific female but when that female proves you RIGHT & shows that she doesn't have the respect for the relationship that she should, all bets are off. And if he's any kind of man & respects his commitment to her, he'll let you go. Once you get caught, you can't keep the mistress or other woman as a "friend." No such thing.

Let it go. Even if you believe you can stomach being just platonic with him, his woman may not believe so & you've given her plenty of reason to not believe that you could, so it's over. If he comes back later once things have settled b/w him & her, then don't respond b/c at that point, you'll know that he's up to no good. All he'd do once he wheeled you back in is shrug you off like some obsessed fan the minute he gets caught talking to you again. What kind of friendship is that? 1 that is NOT a friendship at all! Cut your losses & let him go!