Hi, I have recently started a long distance relationship with a Cancer man, I am a Pisces woman. We have known each other for over a year now communicating online and phone calls. We have never met in person and I am hoping to do so next year. We started off pretty good as friends and he was convinced that he will never fall in love with someone over the net or who he has never met in person. Well as fate had it, he did and I think this has taken him by surprise as he is not sure how this actually came to happen. Anyway, it has been 6 months now that he confessed his feelings for me and we have agreed to give this a try. I have to admit that I fell in love with him way before he did and I was needless to say thrilled with this turn of events. Things were going pretty good until recently. He just moved state a couple months ago in an effort to be able to afford a life for us. This is our plan, that in the future we will share a life together. He has just started a job and unfortunately I just left my own, now what this has done is perhaps making it a bit more difficult to obtain a Visa to visit him as the stipulations are so strict in my country to obtain one to visit him in the USA. Ever since this has happened, I noticed a difference in him. He has started to become a bit distant and I am not sure if it is that he fears that we may not be together. Of course being a Cancer male, he is not very open with his feelings and I am just guessing this is the case. We have gone from speaking everyday on the phone for hours to very little, we have not spoken to each other in 3 days and even regarding messaging his response is very vague. In fact, it is now that if I don't message him, he will not leave a message for me as he used to. I am getting the feeling that he is beginning to avoid me as we will both be online at the same time and I message him and he does not respond, this started yesterday, today the same and this is not the case as before. I have tried to call his phone and it goes into voicemail and I know he has his phone with him. When I sensed this happening, I asked him the day before, if things were okay between us, he said yes. I asked if he will give me his love and he said sure...then the day after nothing and today. I am confused. Is it that he is putting up defences so as to protect himself from being hurt in case as he thinks, I may not get my Visa? Or is this a common thing with Cancer men to take time out in a relationsh
