My Pisces Girlfriend is acting weird

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by sagittarius198911 on Saturday, August 23, 2014 and has 12 replies.

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@sagittarius198911
11 Years

I have been a relation for about two month with this girl at work. she was perfect by all means ! sweet, caring and want me to be with her 24*7.We slept otp at night, and woke up everyday at the same time. She didn't want to spend any time without me !

All of a sudden she changed once she knew that I love her really deep and I care. She started to get upset and super angry or the slightest things I may do !!

From 4 days now, she stopped talking to me. Shes ignoring me and saying she doesn't have time when I can see she has time to post pictures and other stuff !! She stopped calling and asking ! Even when I call she will stay on the line for few minutes and say she will call again but she never does.

When I confronted her, and told her if she doesn't love me no more lefts be friends. She replayed it's up to you !! and that she doesn't want to argue about the issue.

It hurt so much that I can see she is fine not talking to me ! Why would anyone change so fast.

I'm a girl

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@AL4813
13 Years1,000+ Posts

seems like you're kissing her rear end too much... yes pisces girls are emotional and romantic etc..
but they want their man to be a man.. she already knows you love her, you dont have to remind her every hour. She's already sensing the pain you'll go through if she were to break up with you and she's making her attitude nasty so that YOU can sort of be the one to change.

I never thought I'd say this, and im probably gonna have to go throw up after, but i agree with p-angel.. you are putting her on a pedestal. She is feeling pressured and if you have not seen how a pisces woman reacts to this kind of pressure, well, you're finding out.

You're a fire sign bro, pick up your balls and stop getting caught up in your emotions. You can show her you care for her through your actions but dont smother her.

Just relax, take it easy and give her space when needed.

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@SpinCycle
11 YearsPisces

Since your both women.....one of you has be be alpha..which mean you...Pisces women really desire know the person they are with can lead....When you get all sappy and kiss butt..its a big turn off. I agree with P Angel and AL....step back and begin to live your own life once she can be part of..stop making her your life..

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@sagittarius198911
11 Years

Thank you all for your comments.

I just remembered that she told me once, she started to love me because of my strong personality.

Even though I tried my best not to hurt her with my pure honesty and anger. I guess I changed to make sure she's happy which I shouldn't have done at all.

Much is appreciated from you all

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@sagittarius198911
11 Years

I just want to understand why she changed all of a sudden.

When I tried to ask her she said she doesn't want to talk, and even her attitude got worse towards me.

I don't want to lose her ... I truly care for her, and love her.

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@sagittarius198911
11 Years

Posted by P-Angel
Posted by sagittarius198911

she was perfect by all means

I would break up with any person who put me on a pedalstool.

The issue is you, in that you don't leave room for humanity ... because to you, she's perfect.

You won't find a Pisces having that kind of deluded mind-set ... go look for an egotistical sign.

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When I said shes perfect, I meant she was everything I wanted. She cared, loved me and was there when I needed. I gave her everything she needs, from emotional security to fulfilling her needs.

And I do respect her space, I do give her time when she needs it. But for no reason she's building distance !

I was moving in our relation in baby steps, she was pushing for more, and when I gave her more, I don't know what happened.

I hope you understood my point of view.

Please do understand I'm seeking help .. Because I don't want to lose her.