My Taurus ex is ignoring me

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Wow let's just say that the beginning or our relationship was rocky. I was still seeing someone else and hadn't told him about it. He fell for me fast, after about two weeks and he found out about the other guy and told me I should break it off. I did because I obviously wanted to be with him. But I felt guilty about the other guy so I strung him along. A few months later, after I broke up with the Taurus, he finds out I never truly broke up with him. I called him two weeks later to apologize and tell him the truth and he still wants to be with me and work things out. Then two months later out of the blue he says he cannot do it anymore and he needs time to heal before he can love again. I've been trying everything I can to get him to talk to me. I walked to his house for an hour, I've been calling and texting like crazy, but no response. I know that he truly loves and cares about me because he wanted to marry me and have his whole life revolved around me. And he's stood by me through the craziest of times. I just don't know how he could turn his back like that in an instant. How do I get him to respond to me because I reply want this more than anything and he is the one. He has never treated me to coldly. Part of me thinks that it is payback to teach me a lesson from all the bullshit ive put him through but I'm not sure. He isn't one to waste time either.
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I am not trying to put my emotions in this...But astrology wise a fixed sign is stubborn and won't budge once the mind is made up..

Now logically and realistically speaking..Just go ahead and move along I think you messed up...however lady if you messed up that bad and walked for me.. Haha I would sit down and listen and see what can be worked out. Damn girl dedication works though. But still some people mess up in life and must know how to fix it. And if it's too much at the end, you have to carry on and find someone else...
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What is the moon, mars, and mercury between you guys?

How ever not astrology wise man I think it has to be halfway in a relationship.... Never should be one sided...One feels neglected or hurt and the other perhaps selfish and stubborn. You got to work together little by little with foundation....

And if you have been in this situation before with a different guy.. would you stay or go..

How much walking can you do, dont any more. You did your part.

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What is the moon, mars, and mercury between you guys?

How ever not astrology wise man I think it has to be halfway in a relationship.... Never should be one sided...One feels neglected or hurt and the other perhaps selfish and stubborn. You got to work together little by little with foundation....

And if you have been in this situation before with a different guy.. would you stay or go..

How much walking can you do, dont any more. You did your part.


His is: Taurus sun, Pisces moon, Aries Venus, Aries Mercury.

Mine is: Virgo sun, Scorpio moon, Virgo Venus, and libra Mercury
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Wow let's just say that the beginning or our relationship was rocky. I was still seeing someone else and hadn't told him about it. He fell for me fast, after about two weeks and he found out about the other guy and told me I should break it off. I did because I obviously wanted to be with him. But I felt guilty about the other guy so I strung him along. A few months later, after I broke up with the Taurus, he finds out I never truly broke up with him. I called him two weeks later to apologize and tell him the truth and he still wants to be with me and work things out. Then two months later out of the blue he says he cannot do it anymore and he needs time to heal before he can love again. I've been trying everything I can to get him to talk to me. I walked to his house for an hour, I've been calling and texting like crazy, but no response. I know that he truly loves and cares about me because he wanted to marry me and have his whole life revolved around me. And he's stood by me through the craziest of times. I just don't know how he could turn his back like that in an instant. How do I get him to respond to me because I reply want this more than anything and he is the one. He has never treated me to coldly. Part of me thinks that it is payback to teach me a lesson from all the bullshit ive put him through but I'm not sure. He isn't one to waste time either.
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This is your problem, you can't act like you haven't hurt his feelings. At this point the ball is not in your court, it's in his. He's gets to make the choice of reviving the relationship or not. He gave you chances to leave the other guy.

Fixed sign = stubborn, not budging


So you think I should tell him that the ball is in his court and I'm truly sorry for everything and that I'm 100% committed and tell him the reasons why we are better together than separate?
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Should I stay consistent and trying to contact him because I've never been one to fight hard or push heavily for him like that. It's always been more him than me. But now I'm going full throttle because it took a kick in the ass for me to see clearly. Should I leave him alone for a week or two or keep it up with showing and telling him how much he really means to me.
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Wow let's just say that the beginning or our relationship was rocky. I was still seeing someone else and hadn't told him about it. He fell for me fast, after about two weeks and he found out about the other guy and told me I should break it off. I did because I obviously wanted to be with him. But I felt guilty about the other guy so I strung him along. A few months later, after I broke up with the Taurus, he finds out I never truly broke up with him. I called him two weeks later to apologize and tell him the truth and he still wants to be with me and work things out. Then two months later out of the blue he says he cannot do it anymore and he needs time to heal before he can love again. I've been trying everything I can to get him to talk to me. I walked to his house for an hour, I've been calling and texting like crazy, but no response. I know that he truly loves and cares about me because he wanted to marry me and have his whole life revolved around me. And he's stood by me through the craziest of times. I just don't know how he could turn his back like that in an instant. How do I get him to respond to me because I reply want this more than anything and he is the one. He has never treated me to coldly. Part of me thinks that it is payback to teach me a lesson from all the bullshit ive put him through but I'm not sure. He isn't one to waste time either.
This is your problem, you can't act like you haven't hurt his feelings. At this point the ball is not in your court, it's in his. He's gets to make the choice of reviving the relationship or not. He gave you chances to leave the other guy.

Fixed sign = stubborn, not budging


So you think I should tell him that the ball is in his court and I'm truly sorry for everything and that I'm 100% committed and tell him the reasons why we are better together than separate?
No, you leave him alone and WAIT for him to come to you. If he doesn't, you move on but you do not harass him call him text him repeatedly because than you will be considered the "crazy ex".
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Yes but last time we got together it was because I reached out to him.
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What is the moon, mars, and mercury between you guys?

How ever not astrology wise man I think it has to be halfway in a relationship.... Never should be one sided...One feels neglected or hurt and the other perhaps selfish and stubborn. You got to work together little by little with foundation....

And if you have been in this situation before with a different guy.. would you stay or go..

How much walking can you do, dont any more. You did your part.


His is: Taurus sun, Pisces moon, Aries Venus, Aries Mercury.

Mine is: Virgo sun, Scorpio moon, Virgo Venus, and libra Mercury
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I have a very similar sign with your ex. If I was in his position, my way of thinking would probably feeling very sensitive and hurt because of the Pisces moon. He trusted you, believed in you and loved you so much, but his pride is not gonna let you in. My best bet, if you get to meet him, embrace him and hug him, hold on to him tightly and say can we get back together? (don't let it lead to sex), Guaranteed 10/10, if the Taurus guy is still interested in you he won't be able to resist your charms and he will start pursuing you again. All he wants deep down is reassurance and physical touch (doesn't have to be sexual).
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Taurus guys are like the dumbest of all the Zodiac signs when it comes to relationships. We don't overthink it, if we like you and you like us and you show it to us. Don't play games, stay honest and hold on to him tightly (we love feeling wanted). We're content and happy and will probably not go anywhere, remember to hug him super tightly (he will melt in your arms). Wear his favourite perfume and let the virgo charm take its course.
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What is the moon, mars, and mercury between you guys?

How ever not astrology wise man I think it has to be halfway in a relationship.... Never should be one sided...One feels neglected or hurt and the other perhaps selfish and stubborn. You got to work together little by little with foundation....

And if you have been in this situation before with a different guy.. would you stay or go..

How much walking can you do, dont any more. You did your part.


His is: Taurus sun, Pisces moon, Aries Venus, Aries Mercury.

Mine is: Virgo sun, Scorpio moon, Virgo Venus, and libra Mercury
I have a very similar sign with your ex. If I was in his position, my way of thinking would probably feeling very sensitive and hurt because of the Pisces moon. He trusted you, believed in you and loved you so much, but his pride is not gonna let you in. My best bet, if you get to meet him, embrace him and hug him, hold on to him tightly and say can we get back together? (don't let it lead to sex), Guaranteed 10/10, if the Taurus guy is still interested in you he won't be able to resist your charms and he will start pursuing you again. All he wants deep down is reassurance and physical touch (doesn't have to be sexual).
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That's the thing, I don't know how to get him to see me. He won't even answer my calls. I have been trying to see him but nothing. Because I know if I can hold him amd kiss him he will come back.
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Should I stay consistent and trying to contact him because I've never been one to fight hard or push heavily for him like that. It's always been more him than me. But now I'm going full throttle because it took a kick in the ass for me to see clearly. Should I leave him alone for a week or two or keep it up with showing and telling him how much he really means to me.
You're not listening. Everyone is saying to leave him alone.
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Taurus guys are like the dumbest of all the Zodiac signs when it comes to relationships. We don't overthink it, if we like you and you like us and you show it to us. Don't play games, stay honest and hold on to him tightly (we love feeling wanted). We're content and happy and will probably not go anywhere, remember to hug him super tightly (he will melt in your arms). Wear his favourite perfume and let the virgo charm take its course.
But she wasn't honest with him....