One Size Fits All?

I was watching Born on The Fourth of July after not seeing it for many years. For those who dont know its about a guy named Ron Kovic who is gung-ho patriotic and goes off to fight in the vietnam war. He soon changes his viewpoint after seeing the reality over there and being wounded making paralyzed from the waist down. The movie covers his struggles with accepting being disabled and his transformation into an anti-war activist. It's sad Tom Cruise is nuts considering his performance as Ron is phenomenal.

Watching the film it was amazing to see how much I identified with Ron's struggles being disabled. Because I had been in a life threatening accident myself. Breaking both shoulders, arms, and legs. It's a miracle I wasn't paralyzed from the waist down like Ron. I'm recovered, and have the ability to walk. But I'll never be able to really run again or do any major physical activity due to the amount of plates and rods in my body.

Here is my question. During the time I was in the hospital my leg got infected. They put me on an antibiotic steroid combo to stop it. Otherwise they would have had to cut it off. Luckily it worked. The downside of the medication was it reduced a little bit of my penis size.

Before my accident I was average size, but now I'm just BARELY batting average so to speak. Ladies this is what I want to know. If I ever date again my penis size though average will be an issue since most women are size-queens. If you were my date and we already gotten intimate aka made out and now next date or two moving into the sex stage. I tell you the background on my barely average penis.

Would you give me the benefit of the doubt with that? Meaning see how sex goes the first time then make a judgement about continuing to date me? That's all I ask from a girl is to give me the benefit of the doubt. If she decides it's not worth to continue dating me after that I understand completely.

Please you dont have to be nice with your responses this is the internet after all 😉 Just be honest, would my pencil dick do the trick?

that is one of the greatest movies! very emotionally powerful! Im sorry you had to go through that hard time with your accident and all. thank god you can still walk and function properly. as for your supposed shrunken penis I think you are full of shite. steroids do not shrink the penis.. they can shrink the testes which could in turn halt any future growth depending on your age at the time. but there is no way they shrunk your penis! and guys with small penises just have to end up with girls with small boxes. theres matching sizes for everybody!!

I didnt say all women were size queens but that MOST were. That opinion is partially based on having female friends and their stories of adventures with guys. 2nd, you read threads on here regarding size a lot of gals here love the large.

I want to stress something as well, I'm not criticizing them for being size queens, just making an observation. Although a lot of women are brutally honest, there is also that same amount who say they aren't size queens to spare hurting guy's feelings.

@Seeingstar - I never said it was a steroid alone. It was a cocktail comprising of several different meds. Would you like me to scan and post the doctor's authorization on here they gave me to sign that had the warning size reduction could be one of the side effects?

I also never referred to it being a massive reduction, just a partial one.

It's easier said than done finding a gal with a small vag. I cant just go about getting busy then to find the lady has a Jurrasic Park for a vag then cut and run, since I'm Honey I Shrunk The Kids.

Posted by flipyourwig
It's sad Tom Cruise is nuts considering his performance as Ron is phenomenal.

I'm not really concerned with the topic.

Why do you call Tom Cruise nuts?
I really don't understand this animosity toward him within the last few years.

Elle - I think you misunderstand that part which is my fault. One, I dont care what size a woman's vagina is. But usually woman with large vaginas tend to be size oriented. And she'll think if a guy aint packing a 9 incher for her size there will not be sexual satisfaction. That's what I meant by that little comment. Also, that comment was a joke BTW to bring some levity to my thread since I was veering into Velveeta cheesiness.

It is easy in intellectual theory to say accept yourself. But imagine you have the world's smallest vagina that not even a 2incher could ram into. You're going to be insecure about being able to satisfy a guy. That's the reverse part with me being a guy. Like I said, I could care less the size of a woman's vagina as long as she gives me the benefit of the doubt the first time.

I want to stress I'm not criticizing size queens. They have a right to get sexual satisfaction. But I do think they're wrong for not giving the guy at least one chance sexually to prove themselves. Then if they could not feel the peen ladies have every justification for cutting him loose.

@Lunar - People think Tom Cruise is nuts cause he is involved with the Church of Scientology. Which is a dangerous organization from all the books I've read. Cruise is not as enamored with the organization as he once was though. He is staying with them due to blackmail. For years he has been a closeted homosexual. His first wife Mimi, then Nicole, then Katie, were heterosexual covers. They all signed a contract which paid them a decent chunk of change plus career advancement for being his cover. Because the church is homophobic and will not accept their public face being gay.

It's the same situation with John Travolta. He's been gay for years and only got with Kelly Preston at the church's urging. Both him and tom's kids came from test tubes. I got all this info from books written by former members of the church. Actors for decades have had a habit of hiding their gayness out of fear of losing straight roles. Rock Hudson was gay for decades and had a heterosexual cover with different women. He didnt come out till the 80's. I feel sad for Tom and John more than anything. Nobody gives a damn if they're gay. They're too well established at this point to lose getting straight parts.

Posted by flipyourwig

@Lunar - People think Tom Cruise is nuts cause he is involved with the Church of Scientology. Which is a dangerous organization from all the books I've read. Cruise is not as enamored with the organization as he once was though. He is staying with them due to blackmail. For years he has been a closeted homosexual. His first wife Mimi, then Nicole, then Katie, were heterosexual covers. They all signed a contract which paid them a decent chunk of change plus career advancement for being his cover. Because the church is homophobic and will not accept their public face being gay.

It's the same situation with John Travolta. He's been gay for years and only got with Kelly Preston at the church's urging. Both him and tom's kids came from test tubes. I got all this info from books written by former members of the church. Actors for decades have had a habit of hiding their gayness out of fear of losing straight roles. Rock Hudson was gay for decades and had a heterosexual cover with different women. He didnt come out till the 80's. I feel sad for Tom and John more than anything. Nobody gives a damn if they're gay. They're too well established at this point to lose getting straight parts.

I still don't see anything that suggests that he is nuts.
Much of this is rumor, based on 3rd party accounts and hearsay.

If true it's actually quite tragic.
I'm betting Tom was taken very early in his career and put in a very difficult situation that many celebs find themselves in.
IF Tom Cruise is gay, he CANNOT come out! He's "trapped in the closet."
And he is under no obligation to leap out just to please the public.
He has a career and children to think about.
All involved are consenting adults.
Furthermore, every religion has it's criticism, he like every American is allowed freedom of religion.

I guess I have sluts for gal friends then 😉 Cause they'll bring it up in passing during conversation. At this point I bring up "Just because I'm your friend, doesn't mean I'm your fag hag" For the gay peeps on this board, I'm not in the least bit homophobe. I've gotten permission from my gay friends to use that term since they're saying it in conversation all the time. However crude and crass the term comes across, it delivers the point home to my lady friends about me having no interest in hearing their sexual escapades.

I think that's great you have standards sexually Elle. A lot of girls *coughs* my female friends *coughs* will put up with a guys lack of sexual prowess just because he carries a horse in his pants. Cause they think it will get better and it wont since the guy is used to putting minimal effort due to being hung like Michael Fassbender.

I dont try to put pressure on the situation. Once I know the girl will give me the benefit of the doubt sexually, it's game on. Unfortunately I'm too pent up sexually to have that give me a limp dick.

What's funny is I'm terrible at approaching women so most of the time women have approached me. But when it comes to dates I do pretty good. Although as I said in another thread, I've had my share of failures but that was mostly in my first year of dating. I seemed to correct my major mistakes from past ones where they weren't repeated.

I wish I had the gift of gab in regards to approaching women but in the back of my mind all I thinking is they're feeling how do I get rid of this creep? It's much easier for me with aggressive women then I'm in my comfort zones. God bless women who have fire or air in their chart 😉 A lot of men would be a lot more lonelier if you didn't 🙂