@abdoolly
13 YearsVirgo
people i want to ask you how can i be attracktive
who is goth
who is goth
Mostly it's about attitude. Walk straight and with confidence. Develop your own swager. Smile. Don't be afraid to speak to people - just be friendly. Relax. Work out and muscle up. All of these things will build and show confidence.
If you need to look at your wardrobe, do so. If you need to go to the barber, do so. If you need your eyebrows shaped, do so. Etc.
YOUR FUCKED MIGHT AS WELL JUST KILL YOUR SELF OR START DATEING PRIENCE.
You should refrain from trying to pick up chicks off random internet forums - looks desperate, trollish and down right creepy!
(and Pssy - you should be ashamed throwing names out off the cuff for him to contact as you did in the other thread!)
aww poor pup, listen get a new haircut, get some new clothes, join a gym, smile more and never act desperate.
Ahhh... the goth scene. Easy to fit into !
Posted by BalmyTigress
Build your sense of humor. Girls love to laugh. Goths aren't my preference at all, but I still have a minor crush on Noel Fielding because he's so cute and funny.
+1000000000
Def agree with the sense of humor thing....and get a style of your own that you can own...even if its goth....you gotta own it.
Most goth kids grow out of it by the mid 20's. Metalheads however stay metalheads for life. They may cut their hair, but the attitude will always be there.
To say you are goth, is to say you are limited .... if you expect to be open to love from others, then you are going to have to not be limited in and of yourself.
If a girl who was preppy really liked you, but, wouldn't because you are goth .... what would you do? How willing are you to expand yourself outside of your box.
And as a Virgo, you will be asking yourself this very question for the rest of your life.
Start treating girls like shit, be sarcastic, don't call them- Just be an asshole. Plenty of girls will fall at your feet!! You may even get some fatal attraction girls that just can't leave you alone lol
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I need help am a 17 years old man i can't make any girl love me and i don't know why I need help in this situation really am not very bad looking am an average look ,am also a virgo man. please i need advice from anyone who can help me thank you.