I was having a conversation with my best friend. He is a gay male. He said something so profound. He says the recipe for love is as follows:
Lust Stage Connection 1 - Meet someone you have great sex with. 2 - It becomes a routine of meeting for sex.
Love Stage 3 - You start spending time with them and doing other things than having sex. 4 - You begin to have a care about them and their physical well being.
Compassion Stage 5 - You develop an emotional connection stage filled with compassion for the other and it has nothing to do with the sex. 6 - Best description is it feels very much like your best friend or soul mate type connection.
Do you think it happens this way? I think the order can be changed around.
I don't think there is an order necessarily; they are all key ingredients and while some may be added before others once they're all in the mix you have your recipe 🙂
Thanks 4 sharin aqua. I would waiver that this is the way the majority of men see love as well. It is not surprising most women see it from an emotional point; after all most women associate sex with love or emotional bonding. Men are a bit more animalistc which leads to lust or the hunting stage. Have u ever noticed the more u keep a guy at bay he will hunt or desire his mistress more so. Desire is an interesting mind trick which leads to more lust.
Thanks 4 sharin aqua. I would waiver that this is the way the majority of men see love as well. It is not surprising most women see it from an emotional point; after all most women associate sex with love or emotional bonding. Men are a bit more animalistc which leads to lust or the hunting stage. Have u ever noticed the more u keep a guy at bay he will hunt or desire his mistress more so. Desire is an interesting mind trick which leads to more lust.
Thanks 4 sharin aqua. I would waiver that this is the way the majority of men see love as well. It is not surprising most women see it from an emotional point; after all most women associate sex with love or emotional bonding. Men are a bit more animalistc which leads to lust or the hunting stage. Have u ever noticed the more u keep a guy at bay he will hunt or desire his mistress more so. Desire is an interesting mind trick which leads to more lust.
Thanks 4 sharin aqua. I would waiver that this is the way the majority of men see love as well. It is not surprising most women see it from an emotional point; after all most women associate sex with love or emotional bonding. Men are a bit more animalistc which leads to lust or the hunting stage. Have u ever noticed the more u keep a guy at bay he will hunt or desire his mistress more so. Desire is an interesting mind trick which leads to more lust.
Lust Stage Connection
1 - Meet someone you have great sex with.
2 - It becomes a routine of meeting for sex.
Love Stage
3 - You start spending time with them and doing other things than having sex.
4 - You begin to have a care about them and their physical well being.
Compassion Stage
5 - You develop an emotional connection stage filled with compassion for the other and it has nothing to do with the sex.
6 - Best description is it feels very much like your best friend or soul mate type connection.
Do you think it happens this way? I think the order can be changed around.
PD