This topic was created in the Relationships forum by sarasa on Wednesday, April 23, 2008 and has 9 replies.

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@sarasa
19 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

So, why do guys never call you when you want them to— And a lot of guys I know hate writing emails or sending texts...what's with that?? Oh and they usually only call when they subconsciously know that they need to return your call—....😕

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@oddball73
18 Years500+ PostsVirgo

Umm, I think if you want to chat to them and they haven't called, then you should call them. Why do so many girls leave everything up to the guy? If he doesn't answer, doesn't call you back or send you a message then forget about him.

I actually haven't met a guy who doesn't like emailing, texting & calling so chances are if a guy isn't doing it then maybe he's not that interested...

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@CanTaur
19 YearsTaurus

Because guys are jerks haha just kidding!. Call him once, if he doesn't call back, don't call again. Guys don't like girls who are needy & desperate or appear to be that way. Guys like to chase & if he's not chasing you, it's because he's not interested. If he does call, don't answer on the 1st ring, as if your sitting there waiting for the call, sometimes don't answer at all. If he leaves a message don't call back right away. Your a busy girl with other things going on. He'll like that cuz that tells him that if you do get together, you won't suffocate him. Guys don't speak with words like girls do, they speak with actions. If he's not dialing the phone, let it go 🙂

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@exoticscorpion
18 Years

yeah the first time he calls i def wouldn't answer and never make it like it's all about him....you have to act so detached with these men...and i agree if he hasn't called you forget about him....

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@abbeyness
18 YearsVirgo

I think when a guy isn't calling it's because he doesn't feel like speaking to you right now, give him space and let him miss you. He will definitely call you back when he is ready. If he calls suddenly after a long period of silence then don't answer it and let him stew for a while.

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@sarasa
19 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

still no call! I had called on the sunday (not this past sunday, the one before that). However, I was not calling from my cell (and he only has my cell). He has the tendancy to not answer calls that show up as "unknown" on his caller ID. Anyways, so the firt call from another line, he picked up but never said anything and hung up....so I called after 5 min or so and left a msg on his VM....

I was waiting ....thinking that he wouldn't have received my msg b/c he never cares for "unknown" calls, I called him on the following Wed. from my cell and told him that I had called before and left a msg and that him not getting bck to me was so not cool (b/c he usually gets bck to me as soon as he can)....

Now, it's almost been a week since I called from my cell....and I'm still waiting....hmmmm

BTW: I also told him that if he didn't wanna talk, he should just call me up and tell me and I would never call him again....this cancer man is getting on my last nerves....

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@starchild
18 Years

Sarasa...please dont call him again...trust me, by now (calling him from unknown numbers/blcked numbers) you may have turned him off....but that doesnt have to be the end of it...just chill out on him for awhile. Hey, a gurls gotta have SOME pride!

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@firebabe
19 Years

what i want to know seriously are there any men that doesnt ever send texts emails excetera,just because there not into doing that ,even though they like you or have feelings for you,they will contact you when ready .