Who has the better sex life?

Russ Par asked this question this morning on his radio show: Who has the BETTER sex life?

-Single people?
-Married couples?
-Or divorced couples?

On 1 hand, I think single people have the best sex life b/c they can experience variety & don't ever have to get stuck with someone that doesn't really fulfill all of their needs. What 1 person won't do another will. And if you're single, you don't ever have to take "no" for an answer when it comes to getting your fantasies/needs fulfilled since there will always be another person next in line to do the job!

On the other hand, I think married couples have the better sex life b/c emotions/love are involved. Feelings being there makes sex/intimacy that much better. Plus, you'd assume that people who genuinely love & trust eachother are twice as likely to open up the most sexually (freak!) simply b/c of that emotional attachment (vs. a F buddy who just does the minimum all so they can bust a nut & go home!)

Plus, married couples don't necessarily have to worry about stds! And hey, knowing that you're constantly sleeping with someone who is clean/safe makes sex that more enjoyable! There's nothing worse than always having to go to the clinic the next day after sleeping with someone you're not committed to!

What do you guys think?

Married people having affairs probably have the best sex.

LOL good one MsPisces.

😉

I don't know about the rest of you but I try to have the best sex no matter what my relationship status is. All I know is that, for me, I have the absolute best sex when I am in a long term-er. I get it on a regular (and often!) basis, we're both super comfortable with each other, and the loving is there which raises the passion level.

sex is like pizza..... when its good its good..... when its bad its still good..... lol ummm really i find it much better in the arms of a well known lover

Good answers guys!

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Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
I didn't know that single people had sex. I don't!
To me being single does not mean that I have dates or casual sex either. I am not into that casual dating trend. That's just not natural too me. I am what the word really means; single. I am by myself,not sleeping around with random people,no friend with benefits, none of those games.

Although I have had heavenly sex maaaaaaaaanyyyy times, but this just happened when I was in serious relationships.
I am the kind of person that when I want to have sex, it has to be meaningful and beautiful. If there is no meaning nor feelings, then, no sex.

AMEN! I love what you said! That is exactly how I am! Just b/c a person is single doesn't mean that they sleep around and/or take advantage of the fact that they're single. Some single people are single by choice AND are perfectly fine with being to themselves emotionally & sexually!

The same goes for married couples. There's this stigma out there that says, "Uh oh! Don't get married b/c if you do, the sex will stop!" BULL! Alot of the married people I know have a great sex life & especially b/c they are that much more comfortable b/c of the ultimate level of commitment they signed up for! Not every married person is at home starving for sex & not every single person has a sexual partner's list of over 50 people!

I??ve never really got how single people can be having sex, but then I don't have sex with someone unless we are in what I??d consider to be a relationship. Unusually, for a man, I can't give myself physically to someone I don't care for, and if I do care for someone then I'm faithful to them.

Posted by VirgoM20
I??ve never really got how single people can be having sex, but then I don't have sex with someone unless we are in what I??d consider to be a relationship. Unusually, for a man, I can't give myself physically to someone I don't care for, and if I do care for someone then I'm faithful to them.

Oh I can tell you exactly why/how single people have sex! Not everybody associates or ties in sex with their emotions. Everyone is different in how they place sex on the list of importance in their life. And some people don't need to be attached in any way to the person they have sex with; some people can "get theirs" whether they love the person they are screwing or not. Of course, the "morally correct" thing to say is that we're only supposed to give it up to those whom we are emotionally invested/committed to, but the reality is though is that most people see sex & relationships as 2 different things. 2 people may need to have sex in order to keep the relationship BUT those very same 2 people don't need to feel the benefits of a relationship all just to get sex. Anyone can get/have sex; but not everyonce can find & sustain a commitment. And since they're 2 different things, alot of people don't put them in the same category