You are special cards

I dated this guy for about a year and eventually we both relocated. Because of the relocation we do not communicate very much. Eventhough we do not communicate regularly, every major holiday he sends me a card to say that I am very special to him. I received a you are special card for Thanksgiving. A little confused by this particular card because I sent him a card in September to wish him a happy birthday and emailed him several times but did not get a response. So the thanksgiving card left me confused.

What do you think about the you are special card ? Or should I not give it anymore thought.

Thanks! I sent him text asking why in a nice and discreet way.

Thanks! I know right.

Keeping the door open for opportunity if you ever are in the same place at the same time.

If you were special to him he'd do more than send a card. What's the point in being special when there is rarely communication. You can do better.

Curious though. Why are you sending him cards to begin with? Is he initiating these cards to you or responding to you sending him cards? And yes it makes a difference whose doing what first.

Tiki33- He sent me a card for Valentine's Day, and Easter. Because he sent those cards I just thought to send him a bday card. I agree with your advice. Thanks!

I asked him why over text and in so many words he said he was just saying hello and wasn't trying to interrupt or disturb anything with the card. I wanted to say please stop sending me those type of cards then.


Thanks your time ladies. Just wanted to get some opinions. Because it was very weird to me.

I meant for your time