anyone ever break up with your cohabitant

...who you are stuck with for at least another month? If so, how did it go?

Posted by jru2
...who you are stuck with for at least another month? If so, how did it go?

cops got called and my shit got broken. f'n leos/mars in cancer

jru -- think of when you were stuck with your ex-wife for years. It's NO fun!

Best to move on. If there is anything that can be recovered, it can be recovered on separate territories. Your relation is too wild. The chemistry must be crazy, but you two shouldn't be together for the way you describe your relation with your Aqua.

If the relation gets stuck for financial reasons, it becomes a nightmare. Even if you stop fighting, your soul slowly deteriorates. It's not healthy and I can tell you this from my own experience.

pay her first month's rent and kick her out asap.

Posted by FUM
pay her first month's rent and kick her out asap.

I wouldn't pay her crap as much trouble as she's caused him! "Get ta stepping!" Lol If anything she should pay him restitution.

wow, i didn't think of that ... lately, but yeah, that would be the way to go. maybe i'm too selfish to do that, and i still like having her around most of the time. it's a real mess. her life is falling apart right now and she seems to blame it on me, but she's done some really fucked up shit lately. she just keeps self-destructing. she's really down right now, and i feel for her ... a little car accident yesterday was last straw for her I think

About chemistry ... not so great between us actually. It's a weirder, deeper, sub-conscious connection that we have. we both missed the happy, giddy, in-love feelings that are usually so strong in a young relationship. She's experiencing that now with someone else, and I don't even care at this point. I can only imagine how awkward life must be for her right now.

we broke up again last night, but started talking practical stuff like sleeping arrangements and she doesn't even want me to sleep in the other bed. I don't know what to think.

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by FUM
pay her first month's rent and kick her out asap.

I wouldn't pay her crap as much trouble as she's caused him! "Get ta stepping!" Lol If anything she should pay him restitution.

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lol, thanks beautifulsoul! if only she ever had any money

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by FUM
pay her first month's rent and kick her out asap.

I wouldn't pay her crap as much trouble as she's caused him! "Get ta stepping!" Lol If anything she should pay him restitution.

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Sometimes paying for something speeds things up. She can either share a place with someone... Graig's list is full with those ads OR she can move in with the guy with who they have new love with.

It's only fair to you. I think you are confusing craziness with love. Her extreme reactions are not an indication of her love to you. You will not miss craziness. Perhaps for a while it may get quiet, but you need to stick to your guns to totally rid yourself of her. There are other exciting ways to live your life.

Posted by jru2

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by FUM
pay her first month's rent and kick her out asap.

I wouldn't pay her crap as much trouble as she's caused him! "Get ta stepping!" Lol If anything she should pay him restitution.

lol, thanks beautifulsoul! if only she ever had any money

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Keep some of her stuff and put the rest in a uhaul. "Beautifulsoul...that's cruel!" My response? If you stand on the tracks for too long eventually the train runs over you! Lol

Posted by ellessque
jru, stop playing, you aren't going anywhere. you know, we know and she knows it.

yup

Posted by DMV

Posted by ellessque
jru, stop playing, you aren't going anywhere. you know, we know and she knows it.

yup

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LOL

Posted by ellessque
jru, stop playing, you aren't going anywhere. you know, we know and she knows it.

it's my fucking house, so I kinda hope i'm not going anywhere.

I already joked with her about moving in with the new guy, she laughed. She already knows him well enough to know that they would hate each other after a bit.

Last night was just weird. She was so down that she just doesn't care anymore, and so she came clean about a lot more stuff. 1st thing she does though is get me to say that i'm still in love with the Aries. It was so strange why was it so important for her to hear me say that ...to alleviate her guilt? So I entertain her and say it.

Then she tells me all about Sunday at the music festival how out of 60,000 people she runs into her new guy accidentally (yeah right). So they spent the day together making out (kissing is all she has confessed to so far). She told him how I was making out with some other girl at a concert the night before, and how I had given her permission to make out with anyone she wanted (which I did) ... anyway, he just laughed saying how we're fucked up.

Aqua is telling me all about it and she's very happy so I can see how infatuated she is with him. She's going on and on about how much it meant to be kissed by someone who really desired her and how magical the chemistry between them was. It's just weird. I wasn't upset at all this time, but she was worried that i might throw a fit again. Really I only get mad when she lies or doesn't tell me stuff when i ask.

So then we talk about how its over between us and I say how its kind of a relief ... how i can't wait to see Aries, add my FaceBook girl-friends back that she deleted, etc. Then she's like oh, no, you can't do all that. It's kind of joking at this point, but she also wants free room and board, help if she has little financial emergencies ... oh, and there won't be any sex anymore, but she looked disappointed when I offered to sleep on other bed ... I'm laughing

So next she's in living room supposed to be studying, but texting her new boy toy ... and finally to get to studying she asks for one of those "J-- neck rub things". I thought she was asking for some object the way she said it, but she wanted me to rub her neck.

i'm rubbing her neck and shoulders and sometimes when i hit just the right spots she opens her mouth and groans. well i couldn

well i couldn't resist much of that and kissed her open mouth. her pants seemed to dissolve and next thing i know she's on top of me on the couch. Later i tell her that was the weirdest fucking breakup i've ever been through. Is break up sex normal, anyone?

Here's the thing though. I remember how we dated for almost 2 months before having sex last year. All the while, she was banging her fuck buddy at the time ... what she told me later was that she had to fuck him pretty often to keep from being tempted to have sex with me too soon. I was kinda put off by that, but now it seems like maybe in a way she is using me as the sex toy so she's less tempted to bang the new guy. I don't know, but that's my theory at the moment. I'm not minding so much. I imagine the sex could dry up at any time though ... will enjoy while it lasts though