@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius
i dont think aries make good friends
Are Aries Good Friends or Not
Aries individuals can sometimes be self-focused and competitive, which may challenge friendship dynamics. They often seek attention and may struggle with sharing the spotlight, but they are also loyal and energetic friends. Compatibility depends on understanding their assertiveness and independence while setting healthy boundaries in the friendship.
I've met a few and encountered the sme attitude. Overall, I think they're cool. Dont sweat DMV. Just have to accept people or who they are and not let the silliness get to you. If not, cut them off.
same thing here , I met few aries at first we were cool but after a while , I am annoyed
Aries, just like Sags..are pretty much loners at heart so its not easy for them to form deeper friendships/relationships, in that sense it wouldnt surprise me there's big clashes between the two signs in the long run.
i just feel myself growing angrier with her every day and its my own fault. so why be angry anymore?
awesome. i can send her to you 😛
DMV, a simple piece of advice..just cut her off. I know it may sound a bit unfair since in fact she hasnt done anything outrageous but being her own self, but thats the thing..you cant live with who she really is, so its better to let her go..
I have a lot of experience with Aries too, my big brother is one and also my mom, in general as it is the case with the other two fire signs, I prefer friendships with Aries than even earth signs or water signs, I like my freedom too much as well.
Cut that heifer off. She's been tripping for too long.
I understand your frustrations because we are both selfish/egotistical signs. It's all about me me me. Look at her and you'll find a lot of what you hate about her are the things you hate about yourself.
Also, why do you call her salty? Did you taste her at the party?
^ Kits! post about your life! how is your aries? 🙂
Why the hell are you even putting up with her? I never understood why people complain about those who piss them off instead of just cutting ties with them.
a decision is coming my friend.
Posted by DMV
a decision is coming my friend.
The decision shouldn't have lasted this long to make.
Posted by DMV
a decision is coming my friend.The decision shouldn't have lasted this long to make.
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That's not your call, mate.
Posted by DMV
a decision is coming my friend.The decision shouldn't have lasted this long to make.
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well my bad your highness. im not as quick on the trigger as you 😛
Quick Draw McGraw and shit lol
Posted by DMV
a decision is coming my friend.The decision shouldn't have lasted this long to make.
That's not your call, mate.
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True. But then again, I wasn't talking to you.
Posted by DMV
a decision is coming my friend.The decision shouldn't have lasted this long to make.
well my bad your highness. im not as quick on the trigger as you 😛
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-___- I only said that because you're mad at her. You're free to do whatever the hell you want.
Posted by DMV
a decision is coming my friend.The decision shouldn't have lasted this long to make.
That's not your call, mate.
True. But then again, I wasn't talking to you.
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geez. dont worry, be happy 🙂
Posted by DMV
a decision is coming my friend.The decision shouldn't have lasted this long to make.
That's not your call, mate.
True. But then again, I wasn't talking to you.
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This is a public message board, deal with it.
Posted by DMV
a decision is coming my friend.The decision shouldn't have lasted this long to make.
well my bad your highness. im not as quick on the trigger as you 😛
-___- I only said that because you're mad at her. You're free to do whatever the hell you want.
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i dont go into decisions lightly. i weigh pros and cons. i have to see the person multiple times to imagine a life without them and with them.
then. i make my decison. I drag it on like Lebron James.
Posted by DMV
a decision is coming my friend.The decision shouldn't have lasted this long to make.
That's not your call, mate.
True. But then again, I wasn't talking to you.
This is a public message board, deal with it.
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Exactly. It means that I'm free to post whatever I want whether you agree like it or not.
Thats correct, which also gives me the right to react to whatever post I desire, capice?
Posted by DMV
a decision is coming my friend.The decision shouldn't have lasted this long to make.
well my bad your highness. im not as quick on the trigger as you 😛
-___- I only said that because you're mad at her. You're free to do whatever the hell you want.
i dont go into decisions lightly. i weigh pros and cons. i have to see the person multiple times to imagine a life without them and with them.
then. i make my decison. I drag it on like Lebron James.
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Okay then, keep her around and let her continue pissing you off.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Thats correct, which also gives me the right to react to whatever post I desire, capice?
Well, sorry for hurting your feelings but it really wasnt your call, thats just a fact.
@DMV I'm so glad you made this post!!! I logged on today to post about a ex-friend i have with an aries rising and aries mars. We bump heads alot and i have made sooooo many attempts to find out the underlying issue. But the behavior of your friend is very close to what i experienced with her. Also I have a Strong scorpio influence(or so i've been told) with my mars in scorpio and my venus in the 8th house. I think its the aries vs scorp thing. I've always felt like my friend secretly dislikes the fact that i get alot of attention even when im not really trying. where as she goes out of her way to get attn.
Once example: One week I was being spontaneous and decided I wanted to get a piercing that weekend. Me being me, I call her and I'm all like "lets get piercings!!", she's down of course. I'm excited because i think this is the perfect crazy thing that all girlfriends should experience. wellll, she gets mad at me about something trivial (it was about something i said...and instead of telling me she was upset, she ignores me for the entire week) and she went and got the piercing by herself. and when i asked her what was up she was like "nothing". I really didnt care that she got it without me, but it did bother me that it seemed like she went out of her way to be hurtful. and she showed it off to everyone and just loved the attention. which i figured it must have been about all along. Weeks later she kept saying how she really wanted me to get the piercing and she wanted to go with me. and i was cool about it (but i never went). because it was never about being first it was about being friends and i really think she forgets that alot.
I dont want to hijack your post so i will prob post the full story later today. but this post really made me stop in my tracks.
I dont think aries are bad people...i think the women are hard to understand. and its difficult to get along with other "strong" women, especially if they are young or young minded. my childhood friend had an aries rising (and a leo sun), and that was another relationship i literally had to walk away from, though it wasn't as volatile as the latter. there was a lot of competition and unnecessary jealousy that i still will never understand.
I also think aries may do better in friendships with more passive signs...like libra. because someone has to back down. or at least pretend to.
Posted by MzSag
My Dad (an Aries) is loyal, but if you don't understand his personality, you'd think he's the shittiest friend of life. I swear he has NO censor with his friends. Hahahaha, him and like three other guys'll be sitting out on the porch, and he'll come in to pour himself a drink and say, "Yeah, me, blah, and blah are outside. They're just tellin a bunch of lies." Or when he gets in his moods (Cap Moon) and a friend comes over, he'll be like, "The fuck do they want? Man, shit..." and then he'll run 'em off. Hahahaha, but when you need my dad, he's got your back.As far as your Aries friend, DMV, she's just a hating ass bitch.
End of story.
That's how women are. Get some male friends and leave energy drainers like her by the wayside.
i actually get along with aries men better than the women. aries men feel like brothers to me.
i would like to read the whole story. post away. by the way, u make me want a piercing!
because it was never about being first it was about being friends and i really think she forgets that alot.
THIS right here.
she also did the same thing when i took both girls on a weekend getaway. we went to the beach and aries sat under the umbrella all day. on friggin south beach. me and virgo were out having the time of our lives. i went topless and was having a ball. i get back under the umbrella and aries says that she's thirsty. theres a guy walking around with COLD bottled water. 3 for $ 5. i tell him thats good. aries gets pissed off at me for telling the guy that it was okay. then starts complaining about the price, how she could have gotten it cheaper. where bitch where— we're on a beach! im like whatever, snap at me if u want to.
later that night, we go out. look whose no longer upset at the world. she's all joyous and cheery. talking to guys. doing her thing. complete 180. im like wtf. so you snap at me over some water, hang out under an umbrella all day, trying to ruin my beach day— so i ruined her evening. i was a bitch to her and virgo and any guy who came to our table. i dont give a fuck.
not to mention, she still cant keep her hands to herself and off a certain scorpio.
Posted by B788
Why the hell are you even putting up with her? I never understood why people complain about those who piss them off instead of just cutting ties with them.Definitely easier said than done.
Some people, like Saggis, just have really forgiving hearts... We have to get burned a few times before we realize not touch the iron.
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exactly right.
PSA: please dont take this post as an aries bashing post. its not.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Well, sorry for hurting your feelings but it really wasnt your call, thats just a fact.
Sorry to break it to you sweety but my feelings are NOT hurt. I may be a pisces but I also have a virgo moon so I know how to deal with you. Again, I never said it was MY CALL. How the hell did you even get that from what I said? I mean, seriously! You said that to me. I said it before and i'll say it again, DMV is free to take my advice into consideration or throw it away. Stop assuming.
Posted by B788
Why the hell are you even putting up with her? I never understood why people complain about those who piss them off instead of just cutting ties with them.Definitely easier said than done.
Some people, like Saggis, just have really forgiving hearts... We have to get burned a few times before we realize not touch the iron.
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I get what you're saying, but if the person is annoying you this much, you're bound to kick them in the curb sooner or later. This isn't friendship. Clearly, dmv is irritated as hell from this girl. How much more should she put up with because she has a "forgiving heart"?
Yeah if you can't feel comfortable with your friends or just can't trust them any longer then there is no point trying. Time to pack it in, looks like.
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so a couple months ago, me and virgo when to a porn convention. i asked aries if she wanted to go but she said it wasnt her thing. me and virgo brought outfits. we saved the outfits and decided to wear them to a bday party where we also served drinks. aries gets there and has the SALTIEST attitude. i noticed it and kept it moving. i asked virgo if she was ok and virgo goes "well, you know how she gets when the spotlight isnt on her." i didnt even think about that but are u f'n kididng me— then virgo told me that she had asked aries if aries wanted to be apart of it and aries declined. i told virgo, why would u even offer it? why do WE always have to go a step further to make sure she isnt feeling salty—? so for the whole night, were serving drinks in bomb ass outfits being good hostess and she's just sitting in the background.
THE NEXT DAY we go to a party and she decides to be behind the bar the whole night serving drinks. really bitch? you just cant leave well enough alone. did u want to serve drinks this bad that you spent the next 8 hours behind a bar?? im like W, if u feel the need to do something to give you an ego boost, run with it. let me just say that shes NEVER served drinks b4. not even at her own parties!
the next day were having dinner and she starts telling me about her wonderful day of bar tending and how she made tips and how much she loves bar tending. MIND YOU, me and virgo told her that we were going to start a business of party entertainment. im listening to her and sounding so disinterested that i want to just walk out on her.
im just getting tired of it. sooooo tired of it.