Apologize to a Sagittarius?

So I met this Sagittarius and we had amazing chemistry (im a libra). Long story short at my last couple of times seeing her I think I might have come off a little clingy or boxing her in. Sadly this isnt my personality at all, but I think I saw the Sag quick exit. After this she said "thanks for being a nice guy, like a little brother." This is utter BS, the sexual chemistry was sooooo thick before that... I emailed her but got no response for about a week, is it a good idea to apologize, something like "hey im sorry I dropped that in your lap, good luck in the future" or does the act of doing it just come off as more clingy? Or is she just playing games altogether?

Can you at least give us some details on how clingy you are to her? For a Sag to behave that way, either you said something that is totally off or it could be that you were too bossy on her...I don't know I'm clueless as well.

My experience with saggs is that they are quite forgiving. If you feel you owe her an apology then apologise.

The outcome is not in your hands.

At the moment, she isn't speaking to you so you've nothing to lose, right?

Sags are quite forgiving, that's true. But never never LIE to a Sag we won't forgive you for that! 🙂

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Posted by Inertia1128
Sags are quite forgiving, that's true. But never never LIE to a Sag we won't forgive you for that! 🙂

Also, don't lie ABOUT us!

But in terms of forgiveness- I think it's possible for us to (eventually) forgive, but forget?

Hell no. WE DON'T forget people who have slighted us. And honestly- well, for me at least- once our trust has been betrayed, you will never be a close friend ever again.

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I am a Sag and completely agree. Because I can't be fake, I have a hard time pretending I like someone when I dont, I am not mean and I wont throw you under the bus, but I am also not looking out for you either.

Don't say the have a nice future part. Try to hang out with her again and creat that sexual chemistry again if you want her to consider you in that way again. Sometimes I don't have that attraction but it later builds up, or the other way around and I never consider that guy again. It's hard. Once I decide I DON"T want somebody it's hard to make me consider you. When someone I don't like continues to contact me with that intention it feels awkward for me.
And like others said already, I can't pretend to like somebody when I don't. It's obvious when I don't. And it's obvious what my intentions are.

That is sweet that you like her. But if someone said that to me, I'd think you were playing a game and probably move on.

Thanks for the replies, was tring to keep it short, but here is a little more needed detail 🙂
We met on vacation, she has a boyfriend, but had been traveling alone for a few months. We hung out for a couple days, noting physical happenned, but a lot of chemistry. We had great intellectual conversations as well as flirting, was just great overall. She was meeting up with her bf again in my country and I invited them both to come stay at our place for a few nights. So... we are all hanging out, her and I are pretty flirty, definitely got close a few times, but neither one if us is the cheating type imo. She kept inviting me to come visit her and stay at her place (she lives with her bf) and I finally figured it was time to let the white elephant out and said "about that, I really want to go to visit you but it might be a little awkward since your with your bf. I guess I need more of a reason to come there, do I have a reason? (its a pretty expensive flight)" She said "no, your stong you'll get over it." I said "OK" It was a pretty awkward conversation (left a lot out) and I was pretty oviously nervous but we also werent communicating very well. She said she does better with email. So the next day I sent her one and said "I like you, wanted you, but im not going to get between you and your bf, let me know if your ever single (was worded better than that 🙂). I did apologize though, said "im sorry if bringing this up put you in an awkward position." .....Phew, +10 points to everyone who read all that...
Anyway the real question- I would love to stay friends with her, but definitely dont want to get "friends' zoned." Im also not going to be waiting around for her or anything. But I really cant tell if this is a Sag "your out" thing with her responses or if I made her feel that way with what I said. I thought about waiting a bit and emailing her again, or sending here a package with a few cheap fun things for her birthday. Too much?

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I'd leave her to it and spend the money on yourself 🙂
If she's got a boyfriend yet 'entertains' you (for lack of a better term) she's not really a keeper anyways, and doing this just to see how far you'd go for a girl like her............................
Spend that money on yourself or with friends !
Maybe she politely hoping you'll not follow up on her flirting too, but has to much pride or wants to save face ?

I totally agree....Some ho's...I mean...girls just like attention from guys 🙂 Lol jk

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Yeah tbh im not sure, no way to tell. Anyway sounds like if Sags are at all interested they wont hesitate to get a hold of you, so guess just wait and see what happens.