Aries woman and Sag. man?

I am curious as to how this combination of me..as an aries woman and a sag. man I am in love with would be? He is in another country and we have an online deep friendship for the past two yrs.....but have never met yet....Should I give up hope to meet him or hang in there for awhile? I appreciate all input from sags or aries.

Thanks....🙂

I am under the impression that Sag and Arians are compatible , I am a Sag, I have never dated and Aries but if it's good to you and it feels good , I say go with it you can't lose, Sag are pretty prosporous they just don't like to be held down , they like their freedom, if your cool with that and don't mind the blunt jestures you are a ok!

I appreciate your response to my note about my Sag. friend. I'm sure that him and I would get along fantastically....and I do not mind the freedom and humorous remarks or bluntness...if it so happens, in fact I like his sense of humor and I find him so romantic, sweet and caring towards me through our two yrs of emails...and I have come to love him so very much--and from his words via--emails and notes, he seems to feel the same about me....but I do not really think we will ever meet in person, even though he said he may make it to the USA someday. I would love to say that I would wait for him forever...but since we are both in our early 50's--who knows how long I will be able to wait? I'm not expecting any promises or commitment at all.....just to be near him within a more reasonable distance to visit or share some time together now and then. But, like I said....time goes by in life too quickly, and a platonic love affair or friendship......is not easy for me since my feelings have grown deeper. I'm sure you can understand that a relationship cannot survive forever without real intimacy on a physical level..and not just a heart-n-soul love!!

I am going to see what happens by the end of this yr.....and if he cannot come see me, nor I can go to him, then I regretfully have to start over again..but one thing for sure--I don't know if I will ever have these feelings again for anyone else...such a shame .!!

A sad-lonely....broken-hearted aries woman....

Dear sad-lonely broken-hearted aries woman,
I totally understand what you are going through. I am a Sag & I was once involved w/an Aries man, only he was married and as much as he wanted to leave his wife, he couldn't even fathom the thought of leaving his children because his wife was such a b*tch that he knew she would make is life away from his kids a living hell if he ever left her. She was neurotic, clingy & so immature & what was so surprising was that she is a Sag! We first met on my job where he was doing some construction work & talked for almost a year and a 1/2 before we ever got involved. I had always sworn I would never get involved w/a married man, but he was like my soul mate, we had so much fun together, just talking and such. When we carried it to the next level, well that's all she wrote, I fell deeply and madley in love w/him & tried so hard to be patient, but even though he tried to leave twice, he just couldn't do it. He so loved his kids. So I had to say goodbye and it pretty much broke my heart in two, I had already had that heart broken by my ex right before I met him, so this was like the last straw. I moved on and actually moved out of the state to get my head together after all the hurt ~ met a sweet cappie and am now pretty damn happy ~ go figure a cappie/sag LOL ~ and the ringer on this story is ~ a yr after I left, the aries finally left, actually I think she finally left, but now he calls me and wants to talk and get together & I'm like...OH GODDESS! I won't do that to my sweetie now and the fact that mr. aries still wants me breaks my heart even more, I still have very deep feelings for him, but I'm staying where I am, this man has treated me w/respect & love and no BS and that is a rare commoditity these days. So darlin' I understand the need to move on, you can't wait around forever, like I told my aries man, "I will wait for so long and then I have to go" that time came & I moved on. Don't wait for him darlin' ~ start seeing other men and find the one that is willing to be there for you. You'll be far happier in the long run.

~MP & BB~
saggirl57

Hello saggirl.....thanks so much for the nice and thoughtful reply to my note about my sag friend. I know what you say is true to move on--but it is going to be soooo hard and hurtful because I too feel as if my sag love is my soulmate.....very strong feelings indeed. But I am going to see what happens by the end of this yr. and then if no hope, I am going to try to start over again--but for me it will never feel the same with anyone else....I just know this, and cannot explain it--it's just something very strange and wonderful with him.....!!

good luck to you also.....it must have been rough for you as well with your friend..I know the way you felt indeed!!

thanks again....
An aries friend always

~MM Aries Friend.....I so totally understand the "i will never find another like him"...as I said...my aries man is/was/and will prob. always be my soulmate ~ yes i love this cappie man I am with and we have fun together, but the honest truth is ~ it's not the same as w/my aries and i know it will never be the same. As my cappie mate still carries "feelings" for someone who hurt him terribly, but to him she was his soulmate as well....a "love at first site" happening that blew him out of the water, but he as well had to move on, because in the end, it didn't go anywhere, because she wasn't willing to understand him & be there for him when he needed it the most. There was a "click & match" in my aries relationship that I know I will never feel with anyone ever again. One thing I did forget to mention in all this....the aries man looked & sounded just like a man in a dream I had been having since I was 7 yrs old! I have had that dream on and off all my life, so when I did meet him, it was like a shock to my system and then a full understanding, but things happen for a reason, people come into our lives for a reason & either stay or move on, and who knows...somewhere down the road I may meet him again ~ and then maybe the time will be right, but until then I have to live & be happy as best I can and right now in this time and space and on this "path" in my life, this is where I'm happy. Just wanted to add that and let you know I totally understand the feelings you are having & the need to hang in there as long as you can to see the outcome of your feelings. I know how you feel darlin'...I live it everyday!

Merry Part & Blessed Be and much peace to your heart & soul!
saggirl57 🙂

Aries man and Sag woman, or which ever way
you pair in gender is a perfect match. The
humor, the adoration for one another is
like no other. My ex-Aries man and I
had a very special bond. I don't think
he or I wil ever forget one another. We
split because of our contiunous debates.
It began to bring me illness. I couldn't
stand hearing my lover scorn me so. But
I still loved him. We both have some emo-
tional baggage to sort through before we could
ever unite again. I know this sounds discouraging,
but the Aries man can be very controlling
and domineering. An independent woman
will never conform to such behavior.
FYI.........Good Luck