do Sagittarius men know what they want?

I love him and care about him but I'm tired of waiting on him. We've been through a lot and I have taken a lot from him, him cheating on me and lying to me, dropping me for another girl. but now I'm tired. He's still with this girl, always hanging out with her, and she lives with him. The sad part is I still sleep with him, he Texts and calls me all the time, he gets mad if Im around other guys even if they're friends, he's always asking me if I'm talking to other guys, and when I try to stop talking to him he always makes feel guilty by saying "so your giving up on me" I don't want to give up on him but I don't want to keep hurting myself. When he talks to me He acts like this girl does not exist!! Its crazy!! He's crazy!! He can't just act like this girl does not exist!! She lives with him! He accused me of talking to another guy because I didn't answer his first two phone calls one night when he got off of work. He was so mad at me. He sees all the guys that want me and feels insecure thinking that I want them..... I don't think he's going to change, and I don't think that he knows what he wants. Everyone thinks he's this amazing faithful guy (he was in the past before his ex cheated on him) I'm not saying he's a bad person but he's not as perfect as everyone thinks he is.

Yes, sag men do know what they want. Better than any other sign imo. He has chosen you to play a certain role in his life.

if you dont like the role, kick him to the curb. When your sick and tired lf being sick and tired, youll go find yourself a sweet scorpio.

Posted by DMV
Yes, sag men do know what they want. Better than any other sign imo. He has chosen you to play a certain role in his life.

if you dont like the role, kick him to the curb. When your sick and tired lf being sick and tired, youll go find yourself a sweet scorpio.

Yeah

+1 DMV

@I love him and care about him but I'm tired of waiting on him. We've been through a lot and I have taken a lot from him, him cheating on me and lying to me, dropping me for another girl.

When you love him more than you love yourself you are sending a man the wrong message and put yourself in a vulnerable position to be used and taken for granted.

When you take so little from a man and yet still give him more and more you set up a standard that is low and that low standard will be maintained through out the entire duration of the relationship.

Why should change and suddenly stop being a jerk when you've stuck around and stuck it out all the while he's being a jerk and you're still there giving him your all. No incentive to change when he can dole out the cheating and the lying and dropping you for another woman and you'll still be there.

Posted by tiki33

Why should change and suddenly stop being a jerk when you've stuck around and stuck it out all the while he's being a jerk and you're still there giving him your all. No incentive to change when he can dole out the cheating and the lying and dropping you for another woman and you'll still be there.

deserved repeating. Get a back bone cancer.

Posted by DMV
Yes, sag men do know what they want. Better than any other sign imo. He has chosen you to play a certain role in his life.

if you dont like the role, kick him to the curb. When your sick and tired lf being sick and tired, youll go find yourself a sweet scorpio.

+1

@OP, what I'm about to tell you to help you heal and grow. It is true. Sag men, more than any other sign, know what we want. The Sag you're involved with, wants his freedom and demonstrates that repeatedly. To come and go as he pleases. It appears he's committed to the other woman, but that's not true. Otherwise, he wouldn't be coming to you. There are plenty of us that want a relationship, others simply want their freedom. The ones who want their freedom, live complicated lives. Constantly struggling with the reality of people who want to keep them and wanting to roam...to live. At the heart of that struggle, is the ultimate decision of loving the world and bring faithful to one. Remember, Jupiter is our ruler, and he is about generosity and expansion.

But, you must accept responsibility for your choice to allow him in your life. Blame, if you want to call it that, lies solely with you as people are who they are. I understand wanting to love in the hope that they will change and see your effort and accept that gift. But you have to be real about and ask the hard question. Why am I loving him. Is it for his sake, or yours? I'm not saying your selfish, I'm saying that ultimately you should love without the expectation of it being returned. A hard concept to grasp and even harder to follow. That implies realism. You have to find someone that reciprocates that love unselfishly. He's not willing to do that and you can waste that strength for a lifetime waiting for him to do it. Find someone who not only knows what they want, but the both of you want the same thing. Its that simple.

Posted by DMV
Yes, sag men do know what they want. Better than any other sign imo. He has chosen you to play a certain role in his life.

if you dont like the role, kick him to the curb. When your sick and tired lf being sick and tired, youll go find yourself a sweet scorpio.

+1000

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by DMV
Yes, sag men do know what they want. Better than any other sign imo. He has chosen you to play a certain role in his life.

if you dont like the role, kick him to the curb. When your sick and tired lf being sick and tired, youll go find yourself a sweet scorpio.

+1

@OP, what I'm about to tell you to help you heal and grow. It is true. Sag men, more than any other sign, know what we want. The Sag you're involved with, wants his freedom and demonstrates that repeatedly. To come and go as he pleases. It appears he's committed to the other woman, but that's not true. Otherwise, he wouldn't be coming to you. There are plenty of us that want a relationship, others simply want their freedom. The ones who want their freedom, live complicated lives. Constantly struggling with the reality of people who want to keep them and wanting to roam...to live. At the heart of that struggle, is the ultimate decision of loving the world and bring faithful to one. Remember, Jupiter is our ruler, and he is about generosity and expansion.

But, you must accept responsibility for your choice to allow him in your life. Blame, if you want to call it that, lies solely with you as people are who they are. I understand wanting to love in the hope that they will change and see your effort and accept that gift. But you have to be real about and ask the hard question. Why am I loving him. Is it for his sake, or yours? I'm not saying your selfish, I'm saying that ultimately you should love without the expectation of it being returned. A hard concept to grasp and even harder to follow. That implies realism. You have to find someone that reciprocates that love unselfishly. He's not willing to do that and you can waste that strength for a lifetime waiting for him to do it. Find someone who not only knows what they want, but the both of you want the same thing. Its that simple.

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Whyyyyy do you put up with that 😢

Immature sag men are highly sexed and love to frolic around like a wild loner wolf and have adventures with everyone they come across and this tends to cause them to be confused about what they want because they have so many options and so many new adventures they want to experience.

Mature sag men know exactly what they want and if they want it badly enough, they will claim it and have it (or won't stop until they do).

i disagree, I dont see it as immature vs mature. His sexual pursuits and need for adventure have zip to do with his maturity level. I really dont understand why some cant keep living it up and society demands them to either grow up and act like the status quo or be labeled immature.

Just because someone doesnt act how you think they should act, they get a labeled crazy/immature.

If i use your definition, he sounds very mature. He knows exactly what he wants and how to get. In fact, he found 2 women who are willing to play along on his adventures. He claimed it and he has it.#winning

Aint that right LoveLiveLife11?