Will my Sag ex come back

I need some advice, I am a Scorpio woman and I have just split up with a Sagittarius male a month ago. This was due to him being stressed and he was always in a mood with me so I recognized we needed a break. I believe he really loved me and has for 3 years but we were only together for 9 months.
Since then he has gone really spiteful and now won't talk to me, I tried the I love you txt didn't work, do you think he will ever come back to me, he did not even wish me merry xmas and has been asking other girls out.
I cant really txt him out of the blue, the last message I sent was 4 days ago, about an item I wanted back & he just put —2 busy??
I am heartbroken please help!!

You broke up with him and now you want him back. Hes on his high horse

Posted by DMV
You broke up with him and now you want him back. Hes on his high horse

Yes as I recognized we needed a break. I wont message him if you advise. Thanks

Posted by dreamy

Posted by DMV
You broke up with him and now you want him back. Hes on his high horse

Yes as I recognized we needed a break. I wont message him if you advise. Thanks

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I mean 9 months is 9 months.

You kinda didnt hold him down. The road got a lil rough and you bailed. When he texts you back just be honest that you felt abit unappreciated and ignored, you broke up to get some attention, but it didnt have the desired effect which was the end if his moodiness and the start of his undivided attention. You made a mistake and will become a better communicator and less emotional outburts.

honesty is the foundation of any successful relationship.

It was 9 months but I have known him for a few years, we were engaged, it got rough and I thought if we dont take a break it will get worse. I tried being honest and telling him I love him and made a mistake, he said we could get back and then 2 days later said he did not want to and I should go date other men. He has gone really spiteful and taken everything he bought me back, even birthday presants. I thought if he still loved me I would have got a happy xmas message but I got nothing (I did not send him one either as he has been a bit nasty but I put this down to him feeling I hurt him.

If he is in nasty mode best to fall back like Sagtastic said.

good lord girl, u broke off your engagement? Engaged after 9 months? Maybe he realized he moved tooooo fast. He probably feels like a fool.

listen, a sag man is a MAN. Must treat him accordingly.

see what happens after the new year.

Ye I think we did move too fast, we were so in love and got on great. From one day to another he changed.

I will give him some space even though its killing me not to text I will leave it for 3 weeks see if I get anything from him

Thanks for your advise

I advice you to give him space, capital S. When I'm in a iffy mood; I can ignore you even when the wheels fall off. If you push, I will continue to pull away, don't get him to the point where he will get nasty with words so you can get the hint.

SPACE, give him space.

Thanks thats what I will do

What a pity,girl.DIY,you are loaded with popcorn in the ass?You ought to be shitting gamma rays on him for ruining Xmas.Men far outnumber women,you know.

Why dont you cut the chase and act like a LADY.It's new year.Dont take into consideration these little dipshit's advice on retreating or giving him space.They prolly think it is cool. dummies.Give him space for,what?To Stroke his dick and perform autofellatio in the corner?

That guy is a typical self absorbed,selfish,dumbass Saggy who thinks it is cool to project the aforementioned traits.Dont ruin your life.Be a LADY,cheer up,and go scouting for a MAN.Your Sag WILL be with new people.Everybody does it,right?See to it that you dont fall into peer-pressure pit and settle for another dummy like your Saggy.Staying single is a matter of choice.

Gautama Buddha,said: When the student is ready,the master appears.

(Morgan Freeman's voice) - Ultimately,it is up to you.

Posted by dreamy
It was 9 months but I have known him for a few years, we were engaged, it got rough and I thought if we dont take a break it will get worse. I tried being honest and telling him I love him and made a mistake, he said we could get back and then 2 days later said he did not want to and I should go date other men. He has gone really spiteful and taken everything he bought me back, even birthday presants. I thought if he still loved me I would have got a happy xmas message but I got nothing (I did not send him one either as he has been a bit nasty but I put this down to him feeling I hurt him.

Don't get the taking back gifts part lol.

Eh, he'll be back. It may be a good while(a few months) but he will be. Why? You two were friends for years and engaged...he'll miss that regardless of what happened and how hurt he is at the moment. If he's fair, he'll take responsibility for his part meaning the inconsistency in his behavior and look at "the big picture." Should he really let go of what you two had over a misunderstanding? Could you have been more honest and handled it differently? Yes, but I'd like to think that the love between you is stronger than that and hopefully it is what guides his heart. Neither of you are perfect. No one is.

But you have to be realistic as well. There is a good chance that he won't want a full commitment but will still try to get what it is you provided. He values that otherwise he wouldn't be mad. He may come back, but that doesn't mean you two will be together like you were before. He may just be happy with "being in your life" aka friends with benefits. If you want more, you'll have to see if he's willing or move forward to someone who will give you that...sooner rather than later.

Good luck and best wishes _??_

Thank you, I live in hope and will just have to sit and wait

Posted by dreamy
Thank you, I live in hope and will just have to sit and wait

Dont worry,dildos are your only true friends in harsh time like this.

Sounds like he burned his bridge, and moved on.

Ok! He went into diva mode taking the gifts.

Yes Wynter that's what it feels like but maybe that means he really didn't love me that much as it was not a major thing why we split up, i think he was just stressed due to moving too quick and ha works 7 days a week. Im thinking now if its meant to be it will happen, just wish my heart ache would go away, I am 39 and never felt it before!

Thanks for imput

Yes DMV he went ridiculous and was asking for things that cost 1 dollar, he said I did not deserve anything, it was not me that changed but he has still blamed me for everything!

Sounds like he took your advice. a break and is now probably fucking a bunch of other chicks. Saggies can take your hints n will do what you say when they really love you.

Posted by Sag89
Sounds like he took your advice. a break and is now probably fucking a bunch of other chicks. Saggies can take your hints n will do what you say when they really love you.

bwahaha ur hilarious

Posted by dreamy
Yes DMV he went ridiculous and was asking for things that cost 1 dollar, he said I did not deserve anything, it was not me that changed but he has still blamed me for everything!

yeah, hes pissed. I detect either a feminine mars or moon.

at first signs of being pissed off, everything will be the other persons fault. Time for introspect may help him to see his faults.

I know what heartache feels like.

He defo is pissed, I thought I was complicated as a Scorpio but Saggies take it to a whole new level!!

Heartache is not good, I need to stop moping about, il hit the gym tomorrow and try occupy myself a bit more!

Posted by Sag89
Sounds like he took your advice. a break and is now probably fucking a bunch of other chicks. Saggies can take your hints n will do what you say when they really love you.

I disagree. This has everything to do with ego and nothing about love. She put her foot down about his behavior and his ego kicked in and didn't like being told what to do not realizing that his behavior was hurting her...she's a water sign and that doesn't imply weakness on her part. The truth about us makes is while we wax poetic about wanting a strong independent but because of our "king mentality" we destroy the relationships with those same women who actually are the best for us. Simply, we have a problem with sharing power and being put in check after our behavior caused the situation. It really shouldn't take "space and reflection" to realize this as we are the sign that knows the truth...as he does. His ego is hurt not his feelings. His doubting the engagement and not knowing what to do took a toll on her. He most likely took his stress out on her and when she had enough he did the typical thing we males do...said :"ok" and bounced. Its actually out of anger and fear that we often leave. She's been accountable for her behavior. He should be a man, not a boy because he ran, and be accountable for his.

Posted by dreamy
He defo is pissed, I thought I was complicated as a Scorpio but Saggies take it to a whole new level!!

Heartache is not good, I need to stop moping about, il hit the gym tomorrow and try occupy myself a bit more!

Sags that have lots of Scorp in them can be hella confusing, if he has any. (especially Scorpio Venus)

Sorry 😢

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by Sag89
Sounds like he took your advice. a break and is now probably fucking a bunch of other chicks. Saggies can take your hints n will do what you say when they really love you.

I disagree. This has everything to do with ego and nothing about love. She put her foot down about his behavior and his ego kicked in and didn't like being told what to do not realizing that his behavior was hurting her...she's a water sign and that doesn't imply weakness on her part. The truth about us makes is while we wax poetic about wanting a strong independent but because of our "king mentality" we destroy the relationships with those same women who actually are the best for us. Simply, we have a problem with sharing power and being put in check after our behavior caused the situation. It really shouldn't take "space and reflection" to realize this as we are the sign that knows the truth...as he does. His ego is hurt not his feelings. His doubting the engagement and not knowing what to do took a toll on her. He most likely took his stress out on her and when she had enough he did the typical thing we males do...said :"ok" and bounced. Its actually out of anger and fear that we often leave. She's been accountable for her behavior. He should be a man, not a boy because he ran, and be accountable for his.

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It was a joke beautiful. He obviously cares about his pride more like any immature idiot. Come on, it was funny.

Posted by Sag89

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by Sag89
Sounds like he took your advice. a break and is now probably fucking a bunch of other chicks. Saggies can take your hints n will do what you say when they really love you.

I disagree. This has everything to do with ego and nothing about love. She put her foot down about his behavior and his ego kicked in and didn't like being told what to do not realizing that his behavior was hurting her...she's a water sign and that doesn't imply weakness on her part. The truth about us makes is while we wax poetic about wanting a strong independent but because of our "king mentality" we destroy the relationships with those same women who actually are the best for us. Simply, we have a problem with sharing power and being put in check after our behavior caused the situation. It really shouldn't take "space and reflection" to realize this as we are the sign that knows the truth...as he does. His ego is hurt not his feelings. His doubting the engagement and not knowing what to do took a toll on her. He most likely took his stress out on her and when she had enough he did the typical thing we males do...said :"ok" and bounced. Its actually out of anger and fear that we often leave. She's been accountable for her behavior. He should be a man, not a boy because he ran, and be accountable for his.

It was a joke beautiful. He obviously cares about his pride more like any immature idiot. Come on, it was funny.

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Oh I got a chuckle out of it lol. I just get straight to the point_—

Posted by dreamy
He defo is pissed, I thought I was complicated as a Scorpio but Saggies take it to a whole new level!!

Heartache is not good, I need to stop moping about, il hit the gym tomorrow and try occupy myself a bit more!

Oh,no you wont.Get back to kitchen right now! 😛

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by Sag89
Sounds like he took your advice. a break and is now probably fucking a bunch of other chicks. Saggies can take your hints n will do what you say when they really love you.

I disagree. This has everything to do with ego and nothing about love. She put her foot down about his behavior and his ego kicked in and didn't like being told what to do not realizing that his behavior was hurting her...she's a water sign and that doesn't imply weakness on her part. The truth about us makes is while we wax poetic about wanting a strong independent but because of our "king mentality" we destroy the relationships with those same women who actually are the best for us. Simply, we have a problem with sharing power and being put in check after our behavior caused the situation. It really shouldn't take "space and reflection" to realize this as we are the sign that knows the truth...as he does. His ego is hurt not his feelings. His doubting the engagement and not knowing what to do took a toll on her. He most likely took his stress out on her and when she had enough he did the typical thing we males do...said :"ok" and bounced. Its actually out of anger and fear that we often leave. She's been accountable for her behavior. He should be a man, not a boy because he ran, and be accountable for his.

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The way he is acting that sounds spot on, he is 39 but does act like a little boy, he still lives with his parents!

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Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by Sag89
Sounds like he took your advice. a break and is now probably fucking a bunch of other chicks. Saggies can take your hints n will do what you say when they really love you.

I disagree. This has everything to do with ego and nothing about love. She put her foot down about his behavior and his ego kicked in and didn't like being told what to do not realizing that his behavior was hurting her...she's a water sign and that doesn't imply weakness on her part. The truth about us makes is while we wax poetic about wanting a strong independent but because of our "king mentality" we destroy the relationships with those same women who actually are the best for us. Simply, we have a problem with sharing power and being put in check after our behavior caused the situation. It really shouldn't take "space and reflection" to realize this as we are the sign that knows the truth...as he does. His ego is hurt not his feelings. His doubting the engagement and not knowing what to do took a toll on her. He most likely took his stress out on her and when she had enough he did the typical thing we males do...said :"ok" and bounced. Its actually out of anger and fear that we often leave. She's been accountable for her behavior. He should be a man, not a boy because he ran, and be accountable for his.

The way he is acting that sounds spot on, he is 39 but does act like a little boy, he still lives with his parents!

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Ouch...I'm 39_— Just kidding. I feel you. I have a Scorp friend who is going through the same with a 40 something Sag. It's a shame really. Some of us never grow up.

same question I am asking myself....

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Posted by Sag89
Sounds like he took your advice. a break and is now probably fucking a bunch of other chicks. Saggies can take your hints n will do what you say when they really love you.

I disagree. This has everything to do with ego and nothing about love. She put her foot down about his behavior and his ego kicked in and didn't like being told what to do not realizing that his behavior was hurting her...she's a water sign and that doesn't imply weakness on her part. The truth about us makes is while we wax poetic about wanting a strong independent but because of our "king mentality" we destroy the relationships with those same women who actually are the best for us. Simply, we have a problem with sharing power and being put in check after our behavior caused the situation. It really shouldn't take "space and reflection" to realize this as we are the sign that knows the truth...as he does. His ego is hurt not his feelings. His doubting the engagement and not knowing what to do took a toll on her. He most likely took his stress out on her and when she had enough he did the typical thing we males do...said :"ok" and bounced. Its actually out of anger and fear that we often leave. She's been accountable for her behavior. He should be a man, not a boy because he ran, and be accountable for his.

It was a joke beautiful. He obviously cares about his pride more like any immature idiot. Come on, it was funny.

Oh I got a chuckle out of it lol. I just get straight to the point_—

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🙂

Thanks Superhero, thats what my mama said, she reckons he would have turned worse the more I carried on and the nasty streak that came out in him would have come out at some point in our relationship!!

I have had contact today from him, saying he has post at his and can he bring it round, I was going out so said no, he said he would bring it tomorrow. Made me feel a bit better being on speaking terms rather than thinking he hated me, he must have calmed down and it worked me not contacting him first!!

Is this a break through—

Posted by dreamy
Is this a break through—

He may be using brining something over as a means to talk. Play it by ear.

Well happy new year to you all hope 2014 brings all you wish for.

It was a no show or contact by my ex today & I have not made contact either he will prob be waiting for me to txt so I didnt

xx

Posted by dreamy
Well happy new year to you all hope 2014 brings all you wish for.

It was a no show or contact by my ex today & I have not made contact either he will prob be waiting for me to txt so I didnt

xx

Happy New Year to you too!

Looks like that Sag mutability kicked in and he changed his mind. Don't let that spoil your festive mood! Keep it moving!

Posted by dreamy
I need some advice, I am a Scorpio woman and I have just split up with a Sagittarius male a month ago. This was due to him being stressed and he was always in a mood with me so I recognized we needed a break. I believe he really loved me and has for 3 years but we were only together for 9 months.
Since then he has gone really spiteful and now won't talk to me, I tried the I love you txt didn't work, do you think he will ever come back to me, he did not even wish me merry xmas and has been asking other girls out.
I cant really txt him out of the blue, the last message I sent was 4 days ago, about an item I wanted back & he just put —2 busy??
I am heartbroken please help!!

Its safe to say he's moved on, and you should too! Forget about signs, why would you want a man who ignores you and is dating other women? Dont you think you deserve something more? Not for nothing, but im a Sag, once im gone, im gone for good.

Yes I think I have to face it, its over and move on. What a waist though as we would have had a good future together but that's life.

Thanks for the advice

Good luck dreamy!

I thought Sag males always leave " a door open"?? Meaning always leaving a way to come back in/out as they please...?