help me with this sag guy

i m falling for this sag guy,who is successful,funny,smart,intelligent but i m not sure whether i can trust him becoz i get a feeling that he is playing games with me.My question to u people is
1) are sags trustworthy?
2) how do u know that u r the only girl for him rather than other million girls he is interacting with?
3)we where very close to each other but now it feels that both of us are moving away from each other(i m a gemini.....so i guess both of us are commitmentphobic).what should i do to get the sparkle back in our relationship?
Any suggestions people?

God Freedom Lover .. I can relate exactly to what youre saying .. its like looking into a mirror..good luck with it all, and I hope that saggis will give you some insight.

Cuspy xX

Sags are normally trustworthy but, there are some out there that play the field. I agree with jr, take him someplace different and new to him. Sags do not like to be bored and we are afraid of commitment too but, we do want it. How old is he? It does depend on the age. If he's young then he is probably not ready to settle down. If he is in his 30's or older than more likely he is getting ready to settle down but, he has to have challenges and excitement and we do not like routine. Our lives have to be shakened up a little to keep our fire burning. I recently just started dating a Gemini male so, I'm kind of in the opposite side of you. I'm not sure if I totally trust him yet but, that's just how I am. It takes me a while to fully trust someone. Oh, and the other thing we hate to be smothered. We like our space and we will back off if someone tries to smother us.

as far as i can tell, yes, Saggis are trustworthy. i dated one (who was a complete jerk, but an honest jerk at least) and married another. now, being a fellow Gem, i can understand somewhat the position that you're in. alot of it can stem from the fact that Gems themselves are often rather unstable when it comes to relationships. alot of the time we like to deny this, especially when others start in ragging on it like we're a bunch of heidonistic leppers (note: it wouldn't be a good idea for anyone to do so at this time), but the bottom line is that for many of us, it's the truth and we know it. so, basicly, being commitment-phobic often stems from this...we dont trust ourselves to be consistant in our relationships...and sometimes, because of this we can't trust anyone else either. now lets examine something i've noticed among Saggis...if you question them in this vein, they see it as questioning their loyalty over all and their charachter...they take it really personally and often, they'll either become superbly pist off at you or they'll simply refuse to talk about it. my husband once said to me that if i ever questioned his faithfulness, he'd leave me right then and there. i'm sure this statement was meant to convey the depth of his devotion or something, but i felt it was a cop out. 🙂 so, perhaps examine some of these ideas and how they may or may not apply to your situation and if you feel the need to talk with him about it (as i there's a chance you wont, right? hehe) i'd suggest keeping it to a discussion of how the two of you relate to eachother, as opposed to your theories on why that might be.

Keep in mind that dishonesty is a character flaw and not a astrological trait. All signs have the ability to be honest or lie....just depending on their ethics. With that being said, Sag males are usually promiscuous in their younger years. We can't assume that a male sag cheats because he enjoys many experiences in his younger years. He would be hard to catch and pin down. I agree with the early post.....they usually start do settle down in their 30's.

he works in a gay bar - i saw him

I'm sag as is my best friend; both of us are very loyal. Therefore, probably pretty trustworthy. Unfortunately, being faithful and commiting is difficult for us as we love our freedom. If you're the right one, he won't do anything to mess that up, however.