how should i approach this sag guy? i am feeling the feels.

There is a sagittarius man at my new workplace and I am having a lot of trouble reading him. We first met when he was one of the facilitators at my job training.

- I am constantly catching him looking at me, but when I look at him he quickly looks away.

- He will look deep into my eyes from across the room, but won't even say hello to me or make eye contact when we pass by each other.

- He always seems to be tuned into me and my reactions to things and he seems to like it when I laugh at his jokes.

- If I’m having a conversation with someone else, he will join in and speak to the other person, but will ignore me!

- He walks by my desk multiple times a day, and I always feel him looking at me. It’s almost as if he wants me to know that he’s around. I feel that he looks out for me from a distance.

I am a taurus sun/sagittarius moon and I believe he is a sagittarius sun/taurus moon. we have a moon conjunct sun double whammy & sun opposite venus.

I’m confused because he comes across as a very confident, kind-hearted, attractive, outgoing guy, but he acts so weird around me. This doesn't seem like normal sagittarius behaviour. I am worried that maybe he is just attracted to my appearance, and is possibly a player. He seems to be private, and all of his social media is private so I can't gauge his personality from that.

I really wish he would talk to me or approach me, but it has already been two months and I’m not sure if it is going to happen. I really like him but I feel way too shy around him. I’m so confused about his behaviour that I don’t feel confident enough to approach him first. I’m not very experienced in dating, and I know that dating someone you work with is a bad idea, but I really like him.

How do you think he feels about me?

Any advice on how to approach him would be much appreciated.

oh yes,

this guy also has sun conjunct saturn and is born on the sagittarius/capricorn cusp, which may possibly explain his behaviour?

Thank you for your reply, lovinglioness!

He has a Sag Venus, Mars in Aries which I assumed would make him quite direct, leading to him making the first move.

Here is his chart:

http://imgur.com/a/qOyi5

Thank you again!

Thank you for your reply, aflyingarrow!

How do I make a Sagittarius feel secure?

Keep in mind, we have yet to have a one on one conversation, it has all been a lot of glances and stares and anticipation up to this point.

I'm going to try to be around him more and I will try to start a conversation with him and go from there. This must seem like simple stuff, but it's really quite difficult for me as I am incredibly shy around him.

Thank you so much for your advice!

Posted by Leovixen89
Omg haha you just described the sag guy i know lol so cute

Get him at a social event.

Do you have partys at your job? With co worker's?? Like... Say Christmas. Things like that.

And hate to tell you but be bold

I made the same mistake. We both just fluttered around each other will get you no where lol trust me.

But don't give it away. Just keep it light. And he will meet you halfway. Trust me that guy likes you. But dont make it a "huge" thing

Oh, this is just what I needed to hear. Thank you so much, Leovixen!

Wish me luck! : )

Posted by Leovixen89

Hahaha if you are a bit introvert.... Sags can pull you out of your shell if you let them. Just don't cling to them and Chase them. And they like lady like classy and women who make an effort. Not ten layers of cake in your face... But... Do your hair, nails, lashes and juicy lips. But most of all...... When you talk... Look him in the eye.... Sag and i always lock eyes... And even when the whole conversation is complet bullshit..... Those seconds we hook and the whole world disappeares. This is a sign that can read you a mile away. It can either be intimidating or you embrass it cause it's a sign they wanna get to know you.... But be careful. It is a phase to get to know you. Don't fall head over heels... Why? If they don't feel the zinggg well then they will keep it on a friendly base. You see....... Turn the thing around when you talk with him. What does he has to offer you? Is he worth it? We tend to make us the once who have to convince someone to like us. But that's nonsense. It's a two way street. Sags actually like independent woman. Fierce. Know your worth ....beside him. Walking side by side. Equally. They really hate people who step on others... And injustice

Wow, this is so, so true! You give really great advice.

What's the story between you & your Sag?

The Sag is getting married next month. So that explains it.