When sag guy spends more on your present than you do on his.. awkward or OK?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by aj123 on Saturday, June 17, 2017 and has 29 replies.

How Sagittarius Men View Gift Spending in Relationships

Sagittarius men value sincerity and effort over the monetary value of gifts. They often appreciate thoughtfulness and honesty more than expensive presents. If you feel uncomfortable about the spending difference, communicating openly can help ensure both partners feel appreciated and understood without awkwardness.

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@aj123
12 Years

Been seeing a sag man (early 30s) for a few months now - I am mid-20s.. we have our ups and downs but anyway, my birthday and his birthday were sorta close by so we exchanged gifts on the same day.. I usually spend as much as the other person will spend on pressies so it's fair but couldn't use that technique this time as we were giving each other the presents on the same day..

Anyway, I found out he had bought me a perfume for slightly over £60.. whilst I had bought him stuff that totals to about £9... I even made a big thing of telling him this as I didn't know the perfume would have been expensive until I googled it so thought £9 was a good amount to spend on him...

Now I feel really awkward and uncomfortable that he might have been secretly disappointed or annoyed to spend so much on me when I spent about £50 less than him on his pressies...

I know the traditional view is that men generally pay for more stuff for the girl than the other way (but I know modern approaches of equality might void this reasoning).. Also, he is the one and only person I have ever slept with and he knows this since I was a virgin when we met..

What would a sagittarius male think??

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I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

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@LazyK
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Sagg don't care. Just save up and give them something nice & expensive next time around.

It's not about the money, it's about the gesture

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@Whorpio
9 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.

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@TheSag
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Distilled

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Feels like it's waiting for the one.

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It's purpose is to remember myself that women are evil 😢

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@TheSag
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.

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I want the nudes first!!!

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by LazyK
Sagg don't care. Just save up and give them something nice & expensive next time around.

It's not about the money, it's about the gesture

Just give him something expensive next time because we don't care about money?

That was one moronic statement!

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Don't you have returning option?

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.

I want the nudes first!!!

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Like WHY? She set the rule! Put up or drink that perfume without any nudes!

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@TheSag
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Distilled

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Distilled

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Feels like it's waiting for the one.

It's purpose is to remember myself that women are evil 😢

Wrapping a bottle-shaped ? Must've taken some time and effort.

😢

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It did! The damn cashier took way too long to do it 😡

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@TheSag
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Don't you have returning option?

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It's been almost 2 years

lol

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@TheSag
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.

I want the nudes first!!!

Like WHY? She set the rule! Put up or drink that perfume without any nudes!

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I WANT THE NUDES!!!!

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@TheSag
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Distilled

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Distilled

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Distilled

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Feels like it's waiting for the one.

It's purpose is to remember myself that women are evil 😢

Wrapping a bottle-shaped ? Must've taken some time and effort.

😢

It did! The damn cashier took way too long to do it 😡

Lol she must've been an ?

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Not really, I hate them both..

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@TheSag
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Distilled

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Distilled

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Distilled

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Distilled

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Feels like it's waiting for the one.

It's purpose is to remember myself that women are evil 😢

Wrapping a bottle-shaped ? Must've taken some time and effort.

😢

It did! The damn cashier took way too long to do it 😡

Lol she must've been an ?

Not really, I hate them both..

The wrapper and potential girt receiver or the emojis?

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The wrapper, that evil girl, emojis just like everyone!

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@Whorpio
9 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.

I want the nudes first!!!

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K gimme yo address

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@TheSag
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.

I want the nudes first!!!

K gimme yo address

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what address? Send me nudes, damn it!

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@Whorpio
9 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.

I want the nudes first!!!

K gimme yo address

what address? Send me nudes, damn it!

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I'm sending them in the mail!!

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@TheSag
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Distilled

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Distilled

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Distilled

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Distilled

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Distilled

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Feels like it's waiting for the one.

It's purpose is to remember myself that women are evil 😢

Wrapping a bottle-shaped ? Must've taken some time and effort.

😢

It did! The damn cashier took way too long to do it 😡

Lol she must've been an ?

Not really, I hate them both..

The wrapper and potential girt receiver or the emojis?

The wrapper, that evil girl, emojis just like everyone!

Not everyone.

Perfume is sad if it's not sprayed around and just idle. Turns a yucky color.

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Mmmmm...I can live with it

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@TheSag
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.

I want the nudes first!!!

K gimme yo address

what address? Send me nudes, damn it!

I'm sending them in the mail!!

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I LOVE you!

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@Whorpio
9 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.

I want the nudes first!!!

K gimme yo address

what address? Send me nudes, damn it!

I'm sending them in the mail!!

I LOVE you! ❤️

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Yo momma said that to me too...when I was between her legs

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@TheSag
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.

I want the nudes first!!!

K gimme yo address

what address? Send me nudes, damn it!

I'm sending them in the mail!!

I LOVE you! ❤️

Yo momma said that to me too...when I was between her legs

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Oh really, but she is dead honey.

So what's wrong with you? First you talk about sending me nudes now you talk about my dead momma? Either send me nudes or shut up

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@Whorpio
9 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all

But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument

The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol

Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.

I want the nudes first!!!

K gimme yo address

what address? Send me nudes, damn it!

I'm sending them in the mail!!

I LOVE you! ❤️

Yo momma said that to me too...when I was between her legs

Oh really, but she is dead honey.

So what's wrong with you? First you talk about sending me nudes now you talk about my dead momma? Either send me nudes or shut up

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You never gave me your address

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@LazyK
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LazyK
Sagg don't care. Just save up and give them something nice & expensive next time around.

It's not about the money, it's about the gesture

Just give him something expensive next time because we don't care about money?

That was one moronic statement!

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So you can write in language other than gibberish

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by LazyK

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LazyK
Sagg don't care. Just save up and give them something nice & expensive next time around.

It's not about the money, it's about the gesture

Just give him something expensive next time because we don't care about money?

That was one moronic statement!

So you can write in language other than gibberish

click to expand

I can do anything if I chose to do it

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@LazyK
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LazyK

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LazyK
Sagg don't care. Just save up and give them something nice & expensive next time around.

It's not about the money, it's about the gesture

Just give him something expensive next time because we don't care about money?

That was one moronic statement!

So you can write in language other than gibberish

I can do anything if I chose to do it

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Well, do what u want & do me good

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by LazyK

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LazyK

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LazyK
Sagg don't care. Just save up and give them something nice & expensive next time around.

It's not about the money, it's about the gesture

Just give him something expensive next time because we don't care about money?

That was one moronic statement!

So you can write in language other than gibberish

I can do anything if I chose to do it

Well, do what u want & do me good

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Do yourself good! Know how?

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@LazyK
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LazyK

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LazyK

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LazyK
Sagg don't care. Just save up and give them something nice & expensive next time around.

It's not about the money, it's about the gesture

Just give him something expensive next time because we don't care about money?

That was one moronic statement!

So you can write in language other than gibberish

I can do anything if I chose to do it

Well, do what u want & do me good

Do yourself good! Know how?

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Cock pull on tongue between your teeths