I pushed my Libra away

Bcus my Aqua ex came back. I started to question my motives & the exes. My insecurities came to the surface. I ? My feelings for the Libra.
The end result became me reacting emotionally & ultimately pushing my Libra so far that I pushed him to break up with me. I realized (& those who know my story) that I do not want the Aqua ex!!!!!! Yeh me!!! (finally!!) I would like to make it right with my Libra!!! I asked him to speak to me in person. That txting misconstrues the meaning. & i wanted to know gis thoughts & if he agreed. He told me, Im sorry. I dont agree. I feel to much pressure right now.
I dont want to dissect his words. I need tips! Help me to win him back!

Lol you seem to like the chase Nick! 😛

I guess I would just try and be really cool detached friendly with the libra or give him some space. Than try and re kindle it? Was he really upset?

Glad your over aqua if that is what you want!

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Lol you seem to like the chase Nick! 😛

I guess I would just try and be really cool detached friendly with the libra or give him some space. Than try and re kindle it? Was he really upset?

Glad your over aqua if that is what you want!

I am just unsure if they mean "the chase." And my Libra showed it to me, but when the Aqua ex tried to come back, he threw me for a loop!
I pushed the Leeb and WHAM! He ran!
I am being cool at this point bcus I do not want to ruin what little chance I may have left. I have not attempted to speak to him since yesterday and I am not going to. I woke up feeling dread this morning so I hope that doesn't mean he will never speak to me again. Do Libra's do that? Cut off like Aqua's do?
I am trying to rekindle it!

I am over the Aqua-I have taken my power back! I do not want him. YEH ME!

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Posted by Sag89
Lol you seem to like the chase Nick! 😛

I guess I would just try and be really cool detached friendly with the libra or give him some space. Than try and re kindle it? Was he really upset?

Glad your over aqua if that is what you want!

I am just unsure if they mean "the chase." And my Libra showed it to me, but when the Aqua ex tried to come back, he threw me for a loop!
I pushed the Leeb and WHAM! He ran!
I am being cool at this point bcus I do not want to ruin what little chance I may have left. I have not attempted to speak to him since yesterday and I am not going to. I woke up feeling dread this morning so I hope that doesn't mean he will never speak to me again. Do Libra's do that? Cut off like Aqua's do?
I am trying to rekindle it!

I am over the Aqua-I have taken my power back! I do not want him. YEH ME!

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Good hun!

I think they can cut off. The one I dated cut me off for 3 months. Than he came back and told me he loved me and wanted to be with me but I said no because I was too hurt.

So I think it depends on how much you hurt them. He was really hurt by me but I was upset he felt cause I have issues around that.

I hope he forgives you 🙂

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Yes libras will run away from u! I know... I ran from a Scorpio today. God I still want her 2! U have to make him realize that things will be different this time. If ur detached and act like u don't care, then it's only gonna be easier to cut u out of his life. Like I said on the other post "keep bothering him". He'll come back 2 u if he thinks he's the only 1 u want.

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I hope I haven't hurt him too much either. My texting may have been a little too much, and my self doubt portrayed negatively on him, bucs I was insecure, but I beleive I asked legit ?'s, I just didn't give him enough time to answer them. And I should not have been asking them in the first place! I should have known, but when an Aqua comes back, they come back. It threw me, big time! The Libra said he feels pressure. He doesn't even want to speak to me, bucs of that pressure. 😢
I am sad! I have decided though, I am mailing him the Christmas gifts I have gotten him. I still want him to have them.

Posted by SrgntLeebz
Yes libras will run away from u! I know... I ran from a Scorpio today. God I still want her 2! U have to make him realize that things will be different this time. If ur detached and act like u don't care, then it's only gonna be easier to cut u out of his life. Like I said on the other post "keep bothering him". He'll come back 2 u if he thinks he's the only 1 u want.

"Keep bothering him..."-If hes feeling pressure (like he told me in text Sunday) wouldn't that push him further away?

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I hope I haven't hurt him too much either. My texting may have been a little too much, and my self doubt portrayed negatively on him, bucs I was insecure, but I beleive I asked legit ?'s, I just didn't give him enough time to answer them. And I should not have been asking them in the first place! I should have known, but when an Aqua comes back, they come back. It threw me, big time! The Libra said he feels pressure. He doesn't even want to speak to me, bucs of that pressure. 😢
I am sad! I have decided though, I am mailing him the Christmas gifts I have gotten him. I still want him to have them.

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Gosh guys suck! I totally know what your going thru 😢 He will come back. The libra. Probably when once again you least. Just like the aqua did. I have this crazy idea for guys tho!! HOW ABOUT NEVER LEAVE IN THE FIRST PLACE 😛

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Posted by SrgntLeebz
Yes libras will run away from u! I know... I ran from a Scorpio today. God I still want her 2! U have to make him realize that things will be different this time. If ur detached and act like u don't care, then it's only gonna be easier to cut u out of his life. Like I said on the other post "keep bothering him". He'll come back 2 u if he thinks he's the only 1 u want.

"Keep bothering him..."-If hes feeling pressure (like he told me in text Sunday) wouldn't that push him further away?

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You should probably if he says that. I did but that was because I was too afraid of him being mean to me for me to say anything lol

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I hope I haven't hurt him too much either. My texting may have been a little too much, and my self doubt portrayed negatively on him, bucs I was insecure, but I beleive I asked legit ?'s, I just didn't give him enough time to answer them. And I should not have been asking them in the first place! I should have known, but when an Aqua comes back, they come back. It threw me, big time! The Libra said he feels pressure. He doesn't even want to speak to me, bucs of that pressure. 😢
I am sad! I have decided though, I am mailing him the Christmas gifts I have gotten him. I still want him to have them.

Gosh guys suck! I totally know what your going thru 😢 He will come back. The libra. Probably when once again you least. Just like the aqua did. I have this crazy idea for guys tho!! HOW ABOUT NEVER LEAVE IN THE FIRST PLACE 😛

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LOL-I agree Sag89! Just don't leave! HAHA. Now that is a concept we need to think about. It just shows he never really cared all that much (now granted it was only a month of dating) but the connection wasn't strong on his end, ecspecially if he doesn't even want to hear what I have to say. 🙂

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Posted by SrgntLeebz
Yes libras will run away from u! I know... I ran from a Scorpio today. God I still want her 2! U have to make him realize that things will be different this time. If ur detached and act like u don't care, then it's only gonna be easier to cut u out of his life. Like I said on the other post "keep bothering him". He'll come back 2 u if he thinks he's the only 1 u want.

"Keep bothering him..."-If hes feeling pressure (like he told me in text Sunday) wouldn't that push him further away?

You should probably if he says that. I did but that was because I was too afraid of him being mean to me for me to say anything lol

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So you agree with SrgntLeebz??