Is this sag behavior!

Ok so I BEEN dating this sag guy for the past four months and its been much of a rollercoaster ride!

We used to be so close we had a loving relationship then all of a sudden he start showing a different side to him.Even though we both party he parties way more than I do.We don't spend as much time as we used to.And when I talk about how i'm trying so hard to make it work between us he argues me into a corner and denies everything.During the thanksgiving holiday we didn't see each other but he phoned me.His bday was nov 27th and on that sunday he had a lilttle bday gathering and didn't invite me.And when I asked him why he said he didn't even know he was having a party and that it was his brother that threw him the party.It's like he knows im a good woman to him why is he doing this to me.I ask him all the time is this what he wants he says yes.Trust me I tried to leave him several times and he won't let me leave him.So yesterday I finally got the courage to leave his @ $ $ alone.But im so hurt is this sag behavior.Advice needed please help

First Question........How old is he?

Wow Brandon, that was a little harsh on her........ Did you have a bad day or something? Cheer-up 🙂 We all are conflicting on here because we are driven by our emotions. Yes, even you.... no matter how logical you are. Hope you have a great night!!!

Cherie.... If a Sag man doesn't invite you for Holiday events and things like that then Brandon is right in that sense. I'm a Sag female and if I really like someone I will invite them around the family but, if I know it is only temporary then, I keep them away from that part of my life. I have done that to men before and they have done it to me but, I know our emotions get in the way and that can really screw you up when you know what is happening and you know what you should do but, you FEEL otherwise.

branh0913 im not even gonna comment on what you said as far as my relationship goes lol.I don't argue with people and you anit even a sag dear what are you doing on the sag board giving advice lol wow virgo.If you read clearly what I said I stated we both party.And for the record you can meet a wonderful woman or man at a party and be happily ever after.My parents met at a party been married for 23 years.What are you saying.And how I sound conflicted fall back you anit a sag mind your business lol.You spend most of your time on these boards.But anyway back to the real world sweethearts 1969 I understand what your saying.I understand people change over time.I had a sag bf before and we communicated well.Everyone isn't the same you know.I should have elaborated more about my relationship cause people already getting it twisted sweethearts 1969 I'll send you a message in detail about what happened.lol later

There is nothing wrong with meeting someone partying. I know alot of people who have gotten married from that type of meeting. It just depends on what you want. If you are still in your 20's then it will probably keep happening for a while. If you are in your 30's then there is a chance for settling down. Sag's usually don't like to settle down until later in life. There are exceptions of course. I'm ready to settle down know and if you would of asked me a few years ago well, I would of told you no. I will be 37 this month and I have past up a few good men because I wasn't ready well, they are married now but, still keep in contact with me from time to time. They told me that they knew I wasn't ready and they were and that was a big part of us not working out.

Oh my, what you had said Bran was very accurate but wow, that made me cringe and I am use to harsh and blunt facts.

Sagi are hard to settle down. We are fun, adventures can talk about everything under the moon.. we can even talk about settling down but inwardly we are secretly plotting our escape route. We even know we have a great person with us and it will be unlikely we will find someone better.. but when we are not ready, we simply are not ready. No matter how you are, what you do.. it will not change this fact. I wish it were not so, boy do I... would save us all a bit of some heartache's, but that is just our quirky nature.

He maybe be 20, or 30's.. but his actions are screaming. Not ready to settle yet.. So now is the time for you to decide. Are you ready to handle a man who is going to go out and party all the time, will let you into a certain section of his life, on his terms and will show you two very drastic and different sides. One .. that charming, silly man that had you laughing til the wee hours in the morning.. then the next day he will be this silent.. glaring bugger who growls at you to just leave him be.. Hint, leave him be.

I am asking this because you have to accept the ugly just as you do the good. If you can hang in there, not get hurt when he avoids calling you over for family functions and can handle that emotional roller coaster then you will be set.. but this will be a long ride, longer then most.

My suggestion, that is if you want this guy. Do not demand anything from him, give him his freedom but also do not mope around if he is out. Go out with your girlfriends, take up a hobby.. show him you are just as independent as he is.. Even make sure he knows.. you do not want him taking up your own independence, and hold to your word. We have flattery tongues and we use it to our advantage. Speak up when he has upset you, make it blunt and to the point. We hate being nagged, we tune you out. Do not dwell on things and above everything... be equally as independent as he is. Make him work to get you...

Im not a guy, but as a Sag if I feel locked down or pushed in any way I'll just run from the situation completely.

Archer...U can run ...but U cant hide.

LOL....How have U been ?....How are U surviving w/o DXP ? 😛

Great ...so when do we get to see that new look 😉

"any thing remarkable done in europe my MARS MAN BUDDY"

LOL...Since U were out of action ...there was nothing remarkable I cud plan.

"even if you did ,,,,, how did you control your red hot hotbloodedness in there... english women are so appealing "

LMAO ....Complete disappointment they have been. Not to say that this native is some hunk, but I expected sth better 😛

I guess itz time to move on to Ur escapades now ...😉

LOL...Exactly !...Guess U know everything about the english culture 😉

So how are things ?...Howz Ur mom doing ?

Haa Haa...I know U must be splurging ...like any other sag !

haa haa.....yeah all moms are like that. So are U eating and sleeping well ?

Joke -

Bhola and Herolal are in a railway station.
"Can I take this train to Patna?" asks the first.
"No," answers the RR man.
"Can I?" asks the second.

Kewlll...A red sari ...wowie !....Hope to get a snap soon then 😛

So whoz this aries and cap getting married to ?...And when are U getting married ? 😛

BTW ...itz fun to splurge ...at least to me ..it uplifts.

haa haa haa....great joke !

Herez one -

Bhola sees lot of guys running on the highway. Asks a bystander as to why are the guys doing what they are doing.
The bystander explains that a Marathon race is going on
Bhola : What do they get from that?
Bystander : The winner will get a prize
Bhola : Then why are the others running?!

aapne bataya nahi ...when r U getting married ? 😛

Last one -

JOKE OF THE DAY

Herolal is driving with Bhola as his passenger, when he decides to pull over because he suspects that his turn signal may not be working.

He asks Bhola if he doesn't mind stepping out of the car to check the lights while he tests them. Bhola steps out and stands in front of the car.
Herolal turns on the turn signal and asks, "Is it working?"
To which Bhola responds, "Yes, it's working....No, it's not working....Yes, it's working....No, it's not working...."

😛

Now this will have U in splits !

Q: What did Bholaji do when his wife gave birth to twins?
A: He is out looking for the other man.

OK Archie ...Cya laterzz then ...take care.

If U happen to come back 😛

JOKE OF THE DAY

Bhola with two red ears went to his doctor. The doctor asked him what had happened to his ears and he answered,

"I was ironing a shirt and the phone rang - but instead of picking up the phone I accidentally picked up the iron and stuck it to my ear."

"Oh Dear!" the doctor exclaimed in disbelief.

"But .. what happened to your other ear?"

"That scoundrel called back."