So there's this sag guy at my school that I'm really interested in, but he's hard to read. I had him in one of my classes for the past 2 years but we don't have the same classes this year. It all started with him adding me on Facebook, and started to sit at the same table with him for breakfast before school because I was looking for a place to sit but didn't want to sit next to a stranger. He doesn't talk much and keeps to himself, but he's the typical adventurous Sag. He likes to read, I can't remember a time he hasn't had a book with him. After we became Facebook friends he poked me and I would poke back. He's done this like 3 times already and whenever he sees me in the mornings he'll watch me from a distance then stop when I'm close. Every now and then he'll look at me when I'm sitting at the table, it's usually just us sitting there across from each other but my Gemini best friend has started sitting with me and we will talk. My friend knows that I like him and she said Good Morning to him once and he didn't reply, so I'm nervous to say hello and he ends up ignoring me. We haven't spoken a word to each other yet. I wanted to ask him to a Sadie Hawkins dance that's coming in a month, I so can save face if he says no instead of being embarrassed by saying I like him outright. My Leo ex dumped me a week after my birthday in February, and a Taurus guy I was interested in gave me a vague rejection and ended up going back to his ex. I feel like my pride and ego is a bit bruised, because of my Moon in Leo.
Should I ask the Sag to the dance or would I turn him off by making the first move? Is he even interested at all? Will it end badly because I'm a Aquarius-Pisces cusp and he's a sag? I have both of our charts but I don't have a birth time for him. Can someone please tell me how to attach an image? Can you attach images from a phone or do you have to be on a computer? Thank you to anyone who can help me with my dilemma, I'm becoming obsessed with this Sag. (Sorry for all the questions)
Hm. Can you subtly show him you're interested, and maybe then he'll try going after you. Sags like making the first move but we want to be sure that our interest is reciprocated, otherwise it'd be a waste of time to chase anyone. I'm not sure how you can upload the pictures...
I typed up our charts, listed the degrees from the pic just incase if it was relevant not quite sure if they were. I can laugh at other peoples jokes easily and but I don't think I'm that funny. He's seen me laugh many times because of a story of friend will tell me when we are sitting at the same table. My friends find me funny because of my weird behavior, and I don't know if he'll find my jokes funny because he's white and I'm black, there's probably a cultural divide. I don't know if I can pull off hey I want you and you will be mine because I don't want to come off to strong. I had planned of making this card and asking him to the dance with candy like: Hey sag, this is probably nerdy (insert nerds candy here) but I think you're one hot tamale (insert hot tamale candy here). Will you be my date to the dance? Do you think this is too girly or weird? I wanted to do something special instead of just asking him but I don't want to go over the top like I did with my ex. I made my ex a valentines day basket with handmade fortune cookies with 1 thing I lived about him in each one and there was 30 of them. They took me 2 days to make and we were dating for only 4 months. He dumped me later that month lol. I'll try to keep cool and act normal of he ends up turning me down, although my is rice is to run away and lick my wounds by avoiding the rejecter (I think I have a frail ego sometimes) My chart: Sun: Pisces 1.40 Moon: Leo 8.05 Mercury: Aquarius 16.48 Venus: Aquarius 21.23 Mars: Libra 4.38 R Jupiter: Aquarius 6.53 Saturn: Aries 5.35 Uranus: Aquarius 6.10 Neptune: Capricorn 28.42 Pluto: Sagittarius 5.32 Lilith: Leo 26.55 Asc Node: Virgo 29.05 Ascendant: Sagittarius 2.35 II: Capricorn 3.05 III: Aquarius 6.29 IV: Pisces 10.53 V: Aries 12.28 VI: Taurus 9.22 VII: Gemini 2.35 VIII: Cancer 3.05 IX: Leo 6.29 Midheaven: Virgo 10.53 XI: Libra 12.28 XII: Scorpio 9.22
Update: I gave the sag the card, and I watched his face as he was he was reading. It was entertaining to watch. My friend has him in her class, and she asked him if he was going to the dance and he said he was going alone, so this gave me the courage to do it. When I asked him he said that he would love to but he couldn't go and he had to do something the night of the dance. My friend and her boyfriend commented he seemed sad in class the day of the dance. I went to the dance and he went to martial arts practice (from what I saw from a Facebook tag). I feel like I showed my interest in him and the ball in his court.
I would ask him some questions about himself but I arrive to school later due to a change in the bus schedule and I don't usually have a chance to see him. I would love to listen to his stories of traveling again, he sometimes to talked about his travels in class to someone and and I would secretly listen. This is our last year in high school and I probably won't see him again after we graduate. I could see myself traveling with him because I want to travel to world, and I find his hobbies so interesting. I'm not sure what I should do. I don't want to keep pursuing because I feel I would just annoy him and it would be a turn off, but unless he makes a move then nothing will probably happen between us. I probably will just have to let him go. I'm feeling sad about this, I have that feeling he's probably going the one that away. Thanks for the advice guys.
Question: when is the birthday of this guy lol? He has the EXACT same chart of this dude I am interested in, down to the degrees of every planet, literally. My guy is 11/27 (or maybe 11/28... i'm pretty sure 27 though.), with pluto at same degree, so I guess the same year.
My guy has been pursuing me for a couple weeks. He is pretty shy and introverted; maybe he is just quiet, but he did make his interest kind of obvious in the beginning. Like Trillian said before, maybe you could subtly show your interest in him to let him know that you want him to pursue you or whatever.
Be optimistic, not delusional. You're calling him the one that got away and imagining yourself traveling the world with him, but you barely know the guy. Why don't you try to get to know him and build a friendship?
His birthday is on Thanksgiving, November 27 1997. Yeah I always have unrealistic expectations when it comes to relationships, I think in my head and imagine all the things I want to do with that person when we've probably have never had a conversation (it's happened before). It's hard to me to take off the rose tinted glasses and be realistic so I have this self defeating attitude (which is not helpful). We haven't talked ever since I gave him the card but I've haven't gone out of the way to avoid him. My bus now comes after the morning bell, he leaves for class when the morning bell rings. My bus came a little early so I sat at the table with him today for a few minutes before he went to class, . I sit across from him so I don't feel like I'm invading his personal space. I don't know why but whenever I'm going to talk to him something about his presence shuts me down. Should I try talking to him over Facebook instead about an assignment and gradually progress? We have the same biology teacher but not the same class period.
Why don't you just say something to him? The first thing i said to my guy after we met was something silly and funny, it made him laugh and apparently caught his interest, lol. He is kind of a 'shut down', too, mainly because he has a stoic resting face and is quiet. That doesn't faze me though. 😄
If something about his presence shuts you down to the point where you can't communicate, why are you trying to pursue him? :O But maybe facebook would be a good icebreaker for you.
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Should I ask the Sag to the dance or would I turn him off by making the first move? Is he even interested at all? Will it end badly because I'm a Aquarius-Pisces cusp and he's a sag? I have both of our charts but I don't have a birth time for him. Can someone please tell me how to attach an image? Can you attach images from a phone or do you have to be on a computer? Thank you to anyone who can help me with my dilemma, I'm becoming obsessed with this Sag. (Sorry for all the questions)