Pisces having issues with Sagittarius SUPER LONG!

Hello everyone! It's been years since I've been here but been having issues with a Sagittarius I was seeing and just wanted to know opinions from other Sags..

I met him a few years ago online through FB. He lived in New York at the time and there was no intention of him moving to Colorado where I live at all when we started talking. We really liked and very attracted to each other and got along great and kept in touch but there was never any issues between us since it wasn't anything super serious.

He ended up moving out to Colorado about a year ago surprisingly and I already KNEW that things would end bad if we took things further and I didn't want to end up hurt so I stopped talking to him for about 6 months. With me being a very emotional Pisces and needing a lot of attention and him being Sagittarius and loving his freedom just knowing MYSELF and expectations I knew it would end bad.

I finally ended up messaging him and explained that although I really like him that I could already ready tell we are not compatible that way and would not work out in the long run. I told him all my expectations and that even though he is a wonderful guy I'm just not the type of girl who could be with a guy like him. He of course didn't believe me and doesn't believe in astrology but he has most Sag traits and I am very much Pisces.

So things progressively got more serious over the last 6 months or so but and were wonderful at first then about the last 3 months I started to really care about him and that's when things started going downhill.

It started with little things like him messaging me a little less often and stuff like that. It really bothers me when guys do anything to get you but once they have you then they don't try as hard. ESPECIALLY since I told him my expectations from the beginning and I told him what I would not deal with and of course he said he could handle it.

Every time I would get annoyed by little things like not hearing from him for a few days or not getting the goodmorning/goodnight texts that he did EVERY DAY before the tension grew. I am the type that I will hold it in so long when things bother me and maybe make a few comments here and there but eventually I will feel like my feelings aren't being considered and EXPLODE.. Once I get to that point it's very hard to ever go back.

HE set the expectation of speaking every single day even if it's just a goodnight text so when I didn't hear from him for 3 days I sent him a message and let him have it telling him what a selfish jerk he is and going on and on and he basically brushed me off like what I said didn't even matter and he could care less and that's when things got really ugly..

I was hurt he wasn't even considering my feelings and proceeded to tell him anything I possibly could to hurt him like he's bad in bed, broke, jerk, asshole.. basically ANYTHING that I knew would get to him. He is not the type of guy who likes confrontation at all so he just avoided me the rest of the night and I apologized a few days later and then we made up and all was good again.

Ever since that happened every time we argue it gets worse and worse and now it's gotten to the point that even he says the meanest most hurtful things to me and we go back and forth trying to hurt each other as much as possible.

This has been going on a few months and the arguments usually start over something stupid and end with us both saying the most hateful, hurtful things to each other. I usually am the one to start it so I'm usually the one to apologize first and then he ALWAYS accepts my apology and apologizes too says how much he wants to be with me and then things are good again.

I have tried breaking things off with him and telling him that we are just not compatible but he NEVER wants that and always says he is falling in love with me and so we just go back and forth..

OK, so about a week ago I suggested we just be friends but every single day he kept messaging me how much he misses me so I fell into it again. As soon as we started talking again I got pissed over some stupid Facebook stuff and why he needs to request 200 girls that he doesn't even know DAILY as friends.. He said I was making a big deal out of nothing and I went off on how immature he is and kept going again... we argued badly again and then he wouldn't speak to me the next day but after he calmed down I asked him to please talk to me and he told me that the things I say are really hurtful and I promised him that I would try really hard to not let my anger get the best of me anymore. He then told me that he wants me in his life and that he really misses me.

So not even an hour later he accepted my friend request on FB again since he had deleted me and I immediately seen a post that annoyed me. I mentioned it to hi

So not even an hour later he accepted my friend request on FB again since he had deleted me and I immediately seen a post that annoyed me. I mentioned it to him that the post annoyed me and he told me "if you don't like it delete yourself".. After we had JUST made up and he just told me how much he missed me and needs me in his life to talk to me that way I became unhinged.. I'm not gonne lie.. like Psycho.. I messaged him EVERY SINGLE hurtful thing you could possibly say to someone and kept going and going and going. He told me the meanest things he has ever said to me also and I haven't spoke to him since.

I've tried to text him apologizing, I messaged him on FB but he blocked me and he has not responded for about 4 days now.

I know we are bad together but I hate things ending like this when I know we both genuinely cared about each other. I don't want him back to be together but I atleast want to be friends and even though I started it he said some VERY, VERY mean and hurtful things to me also so I can't believe that he would at least not apologize for the things he said. The silent treatment is KILLING me.. I think he knows that too..

Do you think he still cares about me and will ever atleast speak to me again?? All I want is to be cool, we don't have to be together but I don't want him to hate me either.

ONE more thing!

Right before he stopped talking to me I was telling him how he SUCKS in bed (just to hurt him) and then he said "your friend likes it though"... and then blocked me and hasn't said one word to me since.

I have no friends in this town and he's from New York so I highly doubt he was ever been with any of my friends and just said that to hurt me but now it's driving me CRAZY that he wont even talk to me but I can't even address what he said.. I'm wondering if that's also why he's avoiding me just to torture me with that thought in my mind!

sharks in kiddie pools = sags n pisces

Definitely the WORST compatibility I've ever had with someone. No matter how much we want it to work we are NOT COMPATIBLE! PERIOD! LOL

Do you think he still cares about me and will ever atleast speak to me again?? All I want is to be cool, we don't have to be together but I don't want him to hate me either.

i think he cares about you as a friend, but if he liked you as a GF, he wouldnt talk to you that way.

seems like this is you guys' cycle and you secretly get off on the verbal slashings. he will come back around when he thinks youve calmed down.

Well.. he tried his hardest not to talk to me that way and he will usually just keep asking me to stop and he even said "please stop before I say something disrespectful" and I kept going and going.. He really prides himself on how "manly" he is so that's why I told him I have NEVER even enjoyed sex with him and he sucks, broke ass, immature, little boy, bitch.. I really was hateful so I don't blame him.

I really wish I could take it all back. At this point though I just hope we can atleast be friends or discuss the situation and end on friendly terms.

I took advantage of him always accepting my apology immediately and I know I deserve this.

I sent him messages apologizing profusely and no response and then he blocked me on FB so I deleted his number that I don't know by heart thankfully so I guess the balls in his court now if he ever comes around..

I don't blame u lol

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Posted by luvlylady2010
ONE more thing!

Right before he stopped talking to me I was telling him how he SUCKS in bed (just to hurt him) and then he said "your friend likes it though"... and then blocked me and hasn't said one word to me since.

I have no friends in this town and he's from New York so I highly doubt he was ever been with any of my friends and just said that to hurt me but now it's driving me CRAZY that he wont even talk to me but I can't even address what he said.. I'm wondering if that's also why he's avoiding me just to torture me with that thought in my mind!

dont hurt him again

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I've learned my lesson! I'm really hoping that he will give me another chance to atleast be friends. I do care about him. I don't know if I should wait so long before attempting to speak to him again or just wait and see if he ever decides to message me and if not then just forget it.

The SAME DAY all this went down he kept telling me how much he misses me and wants me in his life but that I really hurt him with the things I say and I promised I wouldn't say hurtful things anymore and obviously I went back on my promise. I guess I took it cor granted that he always accepts my apology right away. :-/

i would never date a sag as a pisces woman.
hell, i wouldn't date a sag man as a sag woman.
now, dating a pisces man as a sag woman...😉

Your avatar says your an Aries sun?

Nah..it says Rising sign - Aries

Seen a lot of Pisces ladies come in here with the same exact complaint about the Sagi Man 😢

Never read any success stories about the two...guess there wouldn't be any here if there was, I suppose 😄

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Not understanding why the Sag is getting all the flack here? Didn't anyone read the parts where FishGirl finds a certain pleasure in reaming this guy a new one every time she goes all mutable and dreams of swimming away—??

I'm confused. I feel bad for the Sag guy in this situation. Damn he took a lot and still kept coming. I would say he's the more mature one here??_

Yes, I was the immature, I agree. I just hope he talks to me again so we can at least end on good terms. I hate that I pushed someone away that I know cared about me and of course I regret it now that it's too late.

I will NEVER attempt to date a Sag again! Lol

Pisces= dumb

Sag=smart


easy to figure out the result.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Not understanding why the Sag is getting all the flack here? Didn't anyone read the parts where FishGirl finds a certain pleasure in reaming this guy a new one every time she goes all mutable and dreams of swimming away—??

I'm confused. I feel bad for the Sag guy in this situation. Damn he took a lot and still kept coming. I would say he's the more mature one here??_

They enjoy giving it to each other but the Sag will grow bored of the song n dance eventually.

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Posted by IrresistableScorp
Not understanding why the Sag is getting all the flack here? Didn't anyone read the parts where FishGirl finds a certain pleasure in reaming this guy a new one every time she goes all mutable and dreams of swimming away—??

I'm confused. I feel bad for the Sag guy in this situation. Damn he took a lot and still kept coming. I would say he's the more mature one here??_

They enjoy giving it to each other but the Sag will grow bored of the song n dance eventually.

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I tried to end it with him MANY times because I knew we didn't work HE'S the one who keep kept saying how much he wanted to be with me and missed me and even said he loved me several times which I NEVER told him. I been tired of the "song and dance" for awhile. I just feel bad now because although we don't work together he was good to me and I'd like to at least be able to end on good terms once and for all.

Posted by TURNDOWNFORWHAT
Pisces= dumb

Sag=smart


easy to figure out the result.

Good one... NOT..

I'm pretty much over it. . I have more options which are much better suited for me than him. It was for the best and one of us had to end it once and for all.. It's probably more of a blow to my ego then anything that he's ignoring me which he has never done before more than a day.. Oh well.. guess if he ever decides to talk to me I can express my apologies then. Otherwise, lesson learned..

I had no idea Pisces women could be so vicious towards their romantic partners. Most of them come on these boards crying about some guy ignoring or disappearing on them.

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I had no idea Pisces women could be so vicious towards their romantic partners. Most of them come on these boards crying about some guy ignoring or disappearing on them.

I knew since the beginning that we would not be compatible but we were very attracted to each other so I gave him a chance to prove me wrong. It's not a shock though because I already had expectations of it not working from the beginning so I didn't allow myself to get too attached even though I do care and don't want him to hate me.

I would say I'm about 99% true Pisces and everything I usually read is true EXCEPT I am not submissive in any way with anyone. I use d to be when I was younger but the few times I did treat guys right they took advantage and hurt me so I don't put up with anything anymore. I kinda expect people to prove their worthiness before I let my guard down.

I guess it's because I'm a "damaged" Pisces.. lol..