Sag boyfriend

I don't know if I can handle him anymore. He drives me nuts. He's possessive, insecure, clingy, constantly lies about his feelings, and he doesn't trust me at all for irrelevant reasons. It's his way or the-colossal-amounts-of-tears. What do I do?? I've lost complete attraction to thim and my attraction does not merely run with the physical... it must have a lot to do with the mental. What I mean by 'deception of feelings' is that when I confront him he denies everything and play that defensive role when it's not needed.

After our disputes(I just cut him off these days because I'm getting emotionally drained.) he calls me up the next day and acts as if NOTHING happened. Like 'HI LUZ JOLLY GOOD.' attitude. Sometimes I wonder if he has issues.

I don't know if he's in love or he just loves keeping me. The little things bug me... but the little things are the ones that keep reoccuring. I've talked about this many times before... I told him we should go our seperate ways but he keeps insisting he'll change. I don't like coercing him to change and I never did, but how many times does he have to say 'I'll change' in order to? I feel insulted and degraded to be brainwashed that way.

Get rid of him.

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drown him push him off a cliff all sags are like scum under the loo rim.

Aye, James I drink to that.

Hi Zofia, and james tate...I think it is very unfair to say all sags "are like scum under the loo rim" I am a Sag woman and I know we all react starnge when we feel "fenced in". Maybe you should cut him some slack and see what happens. we love very deeply, but need breathing space!!!The worst you can do is ask him to change. Either you love him the way he is or not. What sign are you Zofia?

Excuse jame tates harsh words Sharon, he went through a bad exprience with a Sag.

Well Sharon, I've been with my Sag boyfriend for more than 2 years and all he has done is insisted he'll change. I have never asked him to change, I've only implied that we should go our seperate ways seeing as though it IS unfair to enforce change upon a person. We are who are and there's nothing we can do about it unless our experiences are willing to teach us a lesson but that is all up to us.

Being a Sag myself, I'd have to agree with James and say that we do all suck. Your boyfriend sucks, too, Zofia.

Pun inteded, Don?

No. Maybe the part about your boyfriend, however.

I need no excuses

Don I'd like to castrate you. It's a good thing. All hugs.

My Sag b-friend was EXACTLY like that. HE wanted to be under me all the time, accused me of outrageously ridulous things (even though I am a flirt, I NEVER cheat on my men) Then he would cry like a little b! $ *h when I said I was leaving him! If you are the primary breadwinner in the house....GET OUT NOW! He is using you! If he is not, good luck if you really want to leave him, because he won't make it easy!

I respect you SOO much for not wanting to change him..but it sounds like the only way you will be happy is if he does. I say get the heck out.

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