sag female and cancer males

i'm a sag female. anyone out there ever have to deal with a cancer male? what was your experience with them like?

this is goingn to be a unny pairing, cause sagg girls, don't want any emotional obligations and LOVE their freedom....Cancer is going to CLING to you, like a drowning swimer on a safety vest

it's weird with the cancer i'm hanging out with, though, because he doesn't cling at all. in fact, i'm probably more clingy than he is.

i probably like him so much because he's a challenge, though.

ive you're one of the love hard Saggs.. its a match made for both parties 🙂

ive= i'm* (sorry for the typo)

ha yea. i am. when i did my birth chart, my venus was in scorpio, which to my understanding is how i'm like in relationships. unfortunately, i have displayed possessiveness and some jealousy. anyone else here the love hard sags? what's the difference between november sags and december sags (i'm a november sag)?

lol..i met IF*** again apologies for the typo

lol... i meant IF** again apologies for the typo..sometimes i type too fast with my mind in other places 😉 typical Sagg trait i guess

im suuuch a love hard Sagg.. thoe at the end of the sign tend to be a bit more dynamic than those toward the beginning.. one of my dearest friends is a november sagg. 23rd actually.. i love him to pieces...hes insane..as am i.. i just have a bit more reserve..lol

lol...those*

he is a good lover. he has some major issues, though. he has some self esteem issues, which i read was an issue with most cancers. i found this out when i found some conversations he had with some of his gal pals. even though we aren't together, and he tells me that he doesn't sleep with anyone else, i found that i was part of list of potential hook up girls. i'm number 1 on the list, but still there's a list and i really think he's just full of shit. but maybe he's just all talk and just likes to know that he could have them if he wanted them. i'm not a casual relationship type girl. i'm a hit it or quit it (haha...doesn't happen very often, though since i'm picky as hell) or totally serious. i need 100% damnit! i dropped his ass today, though. on to the next one...

I don't really get along with cancer men. I find the ones i have met to be hyper sensitive. I feel like the ones i have met get so frustrated with their emotions that they get really angry and start yelling. Like they feel weird for being sensitive so they react in the total opposite way. All macho and stupid.

I like cancer women. they are very smart and compasionate.

yea...i have the same experience. this is the first cancer man i've "dated" but my father was also a cancer and he was very abusive in his words. most of my gal pals are cancers, though, and i love them to death because they're probably the funniest people i've ever met.

Sagibot, what a nice compliment 🙂

the thing is, if you're both in it for the ride, it don't matter if things go smoothly or rough, at the end, you just want to be together not matter what sign the two of you have or compatibility. (just my thoughts)

i mean i do want to be with him. i just feel like i can't trust him because he's a bit secretive about a lot of things. plus, he hangs out a lot with this one girl he used to hook up with and while he said he wasn't hooking up with her, he said that he still speaks to her sexually. i just think that if he's going to speak to her sexually and hang out with her...then he probably does want something sexual or maybe he's just leaving her as second option since i've been hot and cold with my emotions towards him. i mean when i asked him about it, he was pretty honest. i hate that i have to ask. it brings up more drama everytime i ask on a suspicion that turns out to be untrue. i'm also wondering if he's just putting up with my shit because of the sex. he has told me that i was the best he's had in bed. he also tells me he's the most comfortable around me but he can't chill with me with his friends around even though i know his friends and have hung out with him and his friends at the bars. maybe i'm just thinking way into things...

Yikes, I'm a cancer gal and dated a sag male, it was a promissing relationship but I think we were a good match.

I know I don't fit the profile you were seeking responses from, but just wanted to share that compatibility outside our horoscopes is the most important factor in successful relationships.

Seemed like most of the match info I found repeated over and again, if we could allow each other to be very different and choose to learn from each other we had a chance, otherwise it was a tough mix, fire and water don't mix real well.

I have 3 words for you coming from a fellow Sag.

DON'T DO IT!

End of story done lol.

lol

My 3rd best friend was a sag. she was with a cancer male. He made me cry one day because he lied to me I like liked him. She also said that he lies to her. She broke up with him because he was a jerk and a liar. Now everyone in my school except his sister and his friend thinks hi iss a jerk. No one likes him any more.

OMFG,iVE ALWAYS BEEN surrounded by cancers...girls and guys...at first you will be attracted to the cancer guy because he has got what you know is right in a relationship..but eventually you get sick,aand annoyed by his caring nice guy,suffocating ways...just keep as friends

@Kym1209: I know your heart wants to believe in him but the fact that he talks to another woman about sex and hangs out with her tells you all you need to know.

@candyrain02...as a fellow Sag girl, I met a Cancer man and we got married in June of last year. It hasnt always been easy but we love each other and work hard to make things work.My brother is a Sag and he is married 15 years to a Cancer gal. I know it can work.I am a Nov 23 sag with a lot of earth and water in my chart.

oh my god. dont do it. i ended a 7 year relationship with a cancer/cap rising. he and i were like crack for eachother but he was such a goddamn nag that i grew to resent him more than anything. the sick thing is, we still hook up when we are having dry spells in our separate dating lives. we have always had an amazing sex life and we even explored extra-curriculars together. however, these things you all are saying about the secretive nature— DROVE MY ANXIETY THRU THE ROOF!! and i always had the feeling he had a black book and a black book and another secret black book. the cancer man is an attention whore and saggi likes to be the star! he always dominated conversations. he could not fathom the depth and breadth of my randomness.

i met a guy online a few months ago and i felt the searing chemistry thru his photos. chatted and agreed to meet and then i find out he is a cancer. solely as an experiment, i went out with him, had the awesome feeling of connectedness i knew i would feel. he thought i was using him for sex after a few weeks and insisted that we become a couple so he would feel ok about it. so we do, one week, ONE WEEK later he freaks and gets scared and says it will never work. today he made up a reason to stop by so he could see me and he says he is lost without me and begging me to give it a chance. lol, drowning swimmer clinging to a life jacket...

I love my cancer guy. He is the most cutest sexiest thing i've ever seen.
It was a hard fight for me, with myself but I will commit to him. He is fucking perfect.
Cancer guys want a mature Woman who knows what she wants. They need you to be strong but soft on the inside. It's that what they are looking for.
If you can't provide that, they won't take you serious.

Ok, rather than start a new thread, I thought I'd bump this one.
Although you archers are blunt, set aside the baggage. Honest advice only.

Haven't met this girl yet in person.
We were going to go out a few weeks back but she had to handle some personal matters and I gave her time. Not your typical crab here. I'm a big believer in personal space.
Kept in contact with occasional text.
Sent text tonight to honestly see how she was doing and she mentioned that she was thinking about me driving home tonight and can we meet next week.
So, said I'm open, we'll work around her availability in case she has things to deal with.
Deferred to me to time, day, and place. I set it and the date is on.

Backstory: We did chat on the phone when she had to cancel and I could pick up the stress in her voice when she went into the personal matters. So, I knew she needed her time to sort without me being in the picture.

I'm not looking into a wham bam thank you ma'am. She seems to be a very straightforward person that impressed this Crab.

Its a first date. Any advice?

For a first date?
Originally it was just for coffee.
But the things going on I figured she needed to step away from life for a while and just be.
So its dinner.
Don't want to go beyond that, but I am thinking after dinner coffee or drinks if things go well.

Posted by EISREGEN
I love my cancer guy. He is the most cutest sexiest thing i've ever seen.
It was a hard fight for me, with myself but I will commit to him. He is fucking perfect.
Cancer guys want a mature Woman who knows what she wants. They need you to be strong but soft on the inside. It's that what they are looking for.
If you can't provide that, they won't take you serious.

Yup.

I've been chatting with an Sagi girl for a couple of months now, sadly she has an boyfriend already. But I still like her, she is cool. I wish I could give it all I got but i'm not that kind of a guy and she seems happy with her boyfriend.

Posted by kym1209
i'm a sag female. anyone out there ever have to deal with a cancer male? what was your experience with them like?

Cancers are very sensitive. My sharp Sag tongue usually hurts their feelings, lol.

This tends to be a very common match and marriage.
I wonder if anyone could shed some light on what the draw is between the two.

I think I will call my brother and ask him his opinion as well.

Ok, I'm going to give you Sag ladies a big head.
I caught a glimpse tonight of why Cancer Man-Sag Woman pairing actually could work. 🙂

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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Ok, I'm going to give you Sag ladies a big head.
I caught a glimpse tonight of why Cancer Man-Sag Woman pairing actually could work. 🙂

Take it the date went well lol.

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You could say that.
Broke the first date kiss rule (in a very no tongues involved fashion).

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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp

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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Ok, I'm going to give you Sag ladies a big head.
I caught a glimpse tonight of why Cancer Man-Sag Woman pairing actually could work. 🙂

Take it the date went well lol.

You could say that.
Broke the first date kiss rule (in a very no tongues involved fashion).

Nice.

You might as well throw that rule book out if you

continue with your Sag.

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You might be right.
The restaurant folks were sending subtle messages for us to get out.

Kaley Cuoco (Sag) and Ryan Sweeting (Cancer) just got married!! So I'm sure this a great combination. Plus, you have a Leo moon! That works well with her Sag sun. Sorry I don't have anymore substantial advice to offer except I wish you the best 🙂.

just ugh.