Sag girls, how do you handle clingy friends?

Hello all,

I've posted about this Sag girl on here before, and here's the story. I had a fat crush on this sag girl, got rejected and friend zoned about 5 years ago. We recently started hanging out together more often, (spent christmas together at her house), and sort of became pretty good friends.

However, I admit that I still have feelings for her, and wouldn't mind it if she changed her mind about me haha! But I cross no boundaries as I am just being a good friend as she does me, (pun intended), because I do like her company too. Anyways, recently I've been sort of clingy I guess, and she's been responding less when I text her. She's been busy with school these days, but it's very obvious that she is talking to me less. I backed off the moment I realized she didn't want to talk as much. Am I over-analyzing the situation?

bah, why ruin a good friendship? 😢

She's not interested in going further, I think

well i dont think your over analyzing. sometimes when saggis get busy, everything else gets pushed to the side. when she comes up for air, clear a path because she will be ready for some action.

Wynter: I said I cross no boundaries! I don't mind being good friends with her =)

DMV: Yeah, she's been very busy with school lately.

So, was backing off the right thing to do?

just be cool.

yea just chill

these damn saggies and their "space"

ugh. if you like me and i don't like you, you will get punked AFTER i tell you i don't like you. the reason is that guys never act the same once they like you. when a guy likes you, he won't be a friend that will give you an honest opinion. there will always be some ulterior motive. and a guy that wants to be my friend but likes me is always sulking at how i live. that is a no-no. the only things i like clingy are leo men and pencil skirts.

Posted by cancerboo
these damn saggies and their "space"

"Space" hah. 🙂

Or you're boring. I want to have conversations with someone else who is more interesting.

@msX

Just so you know, I have already been rejected by this girl, but that didn't end our friendship in any way. We just took some time apart and didn't hang out much for maybe 2 years? We recently started hanging out a lot more often, and we both acknowledge each other as close friends. Maybe you've had some bad experiences with losing friends because they liked you, but I consider my situation different than yours. I just wanted to know if I dealt with the situation correctly and I got my answer I think =)

On the other hand, we've been hanging out a lot and she's been initiating contact and hangouts now. I guess I did the right thing 😄

Thanks static! ^_^

So this is a question for you and all the other sag ladies; what sign is your current interest/love? 😄

lol @ crustacean! Well you know, recently since we've been hanging out so much, she pulled the "you're such a good friend" card on me. So now I have my answer :p It's okay though, it's not like I was putting my life on pause for her, I still have other interests and whatnot haha! But I'm glad she considers me a close friend.

On the other hand, you sag girls get bored really easily don't you? haha!