Sag women can you help me to understand part 2

he told her he loves you very much. although i messed up 3 special days for her. she teared up when she said she loved me. he told her to do him a favor, before she sleeps with this new guy give virgo66 another chance. she agreed but wanted time to sort through things.

i had spoken with her during the week and reiterated my love for her and told her i loved her, she said i love you to. she wanted space and time. i was prepared to give that. st pattys day my right hand man called her for something and when she returned the call she accidentally left the phone off the hook and he heard her in a bar saying you smell sooo nice to a guy. my right hand guy texted her and said if you are out with another guy its about time you let virgo66 know so he doesnt waste his time waiting. she texted back tell virgo66 that he and i are soooo done. he said for her to tell me.

the next day i went to her house to get the news i was dreading. i thought she wanted time and space not a complete end. where was the love. we talked for quite a while but she admitted she cant do a relationship and with me its all or nothing. she told me to move on. she doesnt know about the future with us. we kissed and i left in tears.

i know her email password and checked it which i shouldnt. she has sent this cancer guy a lingerie pic of herself and has a babysitter planned for tonight. i am devestated our relationship did not make it. i will not contact her, she wanted her space and time to explore whatever but its killing me. any advice you can give me would be appreciated. how can she say she loves me and move on to have another relationship with another man. they are spending time together although rebound relationships rarely last. she said if she calls me for me not to asssume we are back together. which i wouldnt. she wants to be friends but i love her and always will have a place in my heart for her.

"i know her email password and checked it which i shouldnt."

WTF

"any advice you can give me would be appreciated."

Do you think maybe you need to seek professional help? You have stalker ways.

"how can she say she loves me and move on to have another relationship with another man."

A person can love another, but that does not mean they are in love. She's a Sag and they move on. No big secret there.


This is not rocket science man. She told you how she felt about the situation. And who is your friend to tell her to make a decision, because she told someone they smelled good. He was sticking his nose where it does not belong.

I hate to be the one to break the news to you. But you need to move on and fast. When a Sagittarius is over someone, she is completely over them. There is nothing left and she feels no reason to stick around any longer. I hate to say this but the reason why she probably told you she loved you was because she was afraid of hurting you but at the same time a little hesitant to throw away what she had with you for someone else. So in a way she is being completely selfish and yet at the same time trying to avoid hurting you. She thinks that with avoidance you'll just disappear. With a Sagittarius it's either 100% in or nothing. If she is not there 100% , she is not yours truly. She won't call you back and even if she does it will be strictly as friends to be nice. For some reason Sag will always try to be friends with an ex she feels she may have hurt. Even if she comes back it's only due to fear of the future because she is so used to you. She will probably test the water again with you (ex., try and get back with you) come to realise you're really not what she wants and then she will leave again. Avoid answering her calls and take some time to move on. Just pick up you're life and let her know she isn't the center of it. She will freak out you've moved on so quickly and start to question if you really loved her and she might try to come back. But keep moving on. She won't ever stick around. And you do deserve happiness.

This is coming from a Sagittarius who has been in this situation with a Libra guy and a Scorpio guy before when she was younger. And I have observed this a thousand times in other Sag friends relationships.

thank you InfiniteBliss. i wrote this note down that i will send her one day. many advise not sending this for a min. of 30-60 days. what do you think

You know when i look back i am getting the impression that you were right about ending our relationship. i dont think either of us were really happy. i can see now why you wanted to end it. what we shared was great but you were right, it was time to move forward for both of us. yes would should definitely remain friends. we have shard so much together that it is natural to stay friends.

or

i hope you are doing fine. you know the time i spent away from you made me realize that you were right about our breakup. we both needed to move on. you just saw it first. i will never forget all the magic moments we shared together. i need to catch up with you one day but there are so many exciting things in my life now.

which one you like and when should i send it?

any comments how long should i wait to send it to make its biggest impact? to soon and she wont believe it and too long it might loose its effectiveness.

Don't be her toy man

I wouldn't even send her a note. Just pretend she is dead and move on.

Posted by Sagittarius89
I wouldn't even send her a note. Just pretend she is dead and move on.

i like that idea. shes rebounding right now and i cant put up with all i did for her and it still wasnt enough. she needs a tool.

"i like that idea. shes rebounding right now and i cant put up with all i did for her and it still wasnt enough. she needs a tool." This is why we are the bachelors of the zodiac lol

thankyou anybody who commented. we didnt make it. wrong time i guess. too many problems. shes moved on to another guy. its time i did the same and find somebody new. but first i will work on myself before i dump my baggage on the next. as much as it hurts. it wasnt meant to be. she told me if its meant to be it will be.. i cant see myself contacting her ever. we had something that was special. we went to church together, did outdoor activities together, she told me i fit her personality better than anyone. what happened took its toll and she ran. but jumping to another relationship only 2 wks after the breakup is insane. filling a void that i left is not satisfied by external flesh satisfying pusuits. its feeding your spirit that ultimately satisfies. so i am disappointed in her choosing to do the rebound thing. instead of staying alone and working through her internal problems. ultimately this will all surface again with the next guy and he will be crushed.