druken sag woman

Allright drunken sag woman, everyone is excited now right 😉
I have this weird relationship ( not love or sex ) with a sag woman , we know eachother but verry superficial.
But still we have this friendly care thing going on.
For example few months ago I triped at a swimming pool and my toenail came off ( yeh iiuww i know :p ) but still I went out aaand well i couldn't follow up because i was kinda limping ( it hurted every time i took a step lol :p ) but she stayed behind with me all joyfully , she even grabbed me.
Few weeks ago i ran into her at a party and stayed the night with her cause , well i made up an excuse , i felt like staying the night with her. We slept in the same bed, nothing sexualy happend but we had some good laughs and we cuddelt.
The next morning i took off when she was still asleep , but i made her some breakfast and left her a note : " because i had such a great night with you i made you a delicious breakfast and spared you my morning face 😉 "

Well anyway, last weekend she was really , really drunk. And she grabbed me and said she loved me. She went on and on lol saying : i love your smile so much , don't you feel it when i push my breasts against you. Why didn't you kiss me when you spended the night with me ?? Then she turned sad lol and yeh she trew up on me (iieeuuw). I took her in my car and drove her home. Anyway i found it cute , nasty but cute... But now she avoids me. How should i handle this ?
I wanna give it a shot with her.

Yay! Saggy and libra!🙂

probably if you gonna spend the night, you should have made a move then. Did you even play with her hair or anything affectionate besides cuddle up and go to sleep?

Just so you know ... if a sag places their body in reach of you, we probably want some lovin'. I love seeing this sag I met lately because when we are together she touches me all the time ... extremely affectionate like no one else I've known ... like practically tries to sit in my lap when we are driving, and I love every minute like that ( i'm sag too ).

But when a sag is away, it is natural for us to be loners or aloof.

So, try to mimic her a little. Be aloof for a bit, then invite her to do something fun w/ you ... be fun, playful, and affectionate while you are w/ her. If she pulls away, you pull away a little, if she moves in close, you move in closer.

Well it's not the dating , flirting , loving thing that i'm concerned about.. cmon i'm a libra for peet sake :p

She is ambarresed atm because she threw up all over me , i'm kinda wondering on how to get her relaxed again.

I agree with you Upheaval, I think she is very embarrassed right now! I would for throwing up on you eww! 🙂

have you tried calling or texting her? if so did she reply in a cold or even cutting way or didnt reply at all?

I would let her know, you thought it was cute, normally that is a lil nasty, but you dont feel grossed out by her at all.. and exactly what you said here, that you wanna give it a shot and start all over, as if it didnt happen 🙂

I recently was in a similar situ, no vomit tho... well if I feel embarrassed, i would love to know that to you that was no big deal, specially not a deal breaker..

hope it helps!

G. Luck

Ps, Libra & Sag ROCKS in relationships!!!!!!!

@ jade_dragon: 🙂

Upheaval, I dont think its bad that you didnt "make a move" on her when you stayed with her.. if anything its good!

cuddling with a Libra is the best, very comfortable to do so!!

then when you do get to the other stuff is even better!! lol :p

have you tried calling or texting her? if so did she reply in a cold or even cutting way or didnt reply at all?

--> no , cause i wanted to let her wonder :p

I dont think its bad that you didnt "make a move" on her when you stayed with her..

--> well actually the whole night was my move , i got to stay at her place , in her bed , we cuddelt , said some nice things like : your hair smels nice , then i laughed , she asked why i was laughing and i said i was picturing this if you would smell , she was like whaaat but she was laughing and i think she was excited 🙂 and i got up before she did and left , well with the right things set up to make it well kinda like an adventure for her.

The only thing i didn't count on.. was that she would trew up on me :p

Now , i called her today and we're going out tomorrow. I think i'm just gonna comfort her and kiss her later on.

Thx for your reply's !

I would let her know, you thought it was cute, normally that is a lil nasty, but you dont feel grossed out by her at all..

--> Well in all honestly , i have a lot of aquarius influence and i don't find it that hard of a deal.
If you had to many drinks you barf , thats how it is !
It's not like she peed on me lol !

Don't even know why i'm sharing this , maybe bc i want to spray the libra fun look on live or i'm just rambling on ! :p

Yes, luck🙂

alcohol plus sag = crazy fun 🙂

Allright our date was a succes ! We did some squash to start the evening ,we took a shower 😉 and then we went out eating.
We had a couple of drinks afterwards and meet up with some friends of hers at an elektro party.
The party was a lot of fun but we got really really wasted. Sag's are really funny when they are drunk imo !
I stayed the night at her place , no complaints there 🙂 Hope i can keep her lol. That's the hard part of dating a sag right 😉

How you can keep her? Be always honest with her don't lie to her, trust me she will know, keep her entertained and laughing and she will love you, take her to places, be spontaneous and get drunk together :p. Thats what my Libra does and thats why I am still with him 🙂

Posted by Upheaval
Allright our date was a succes ! We did some squash to start the evening ,we took a shower 😉 and then we went out eating.
We had a couple of drinks afterwards and meet up with some friends of hers at an elektro party.
The party was a lot of fun but we got really really wasted. Sag's are really funny when they are drunk imo !
I stayed the night at her place , no complaints there 🙂 Hope i can keep her lol. That's the hard part of dating a sag right 😉

A libra is capable of keeping a Sag! Be FUN! Honest!

A libra can keep me! I wish my Libra would think like you! he seems less direct than you are! grrrrr

Aww you'll be able too🙂 Libra can give that friend/ lover thats really ideal for a sag. Also the most important thing too. MENTAL CONNECTION!!!😉

"MENTAL CONNECTION!!!"

True 🙂 so far so good ! i hate to be away from her though but i don't want to suffocate her 🙂

Btw i thought that aries was good in the sack but sag is really something else !

"Btw i thought that aries was good in the sack but sag is really something else !"

🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

Awwwww Saggies and Libras ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
It's seriously the best match EVER

You'll drive each other crazy but you'll always be crazy about each other. 🙂

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
I cant picture in my head how a sag girl would deal with a Libran situation like this: "should I fuck her?, or should I not"

A sag wouldn't wait, they'll just jump the libra 🙂

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
I cant picture in my head how a sag girl would deal with a Libran situation like this: "should I fuck her?, or should I not"

She'd boldly proclaim, "you should fuck me." 😄

& his heart would melt of course.
every Libra needs a Sag to tell them what to do. 😉

I'm not really that type of indecisive libra , the reason why i didn't fuck her the first night was bc it was like 6 in the morning i wanted to sleep.
"every Libra needs a Sag to tell them what to do. "
I prefer the other way arround :p I'll tell my sag what to do and if she's good i'll give in to her sometimes !
We're going wall climbing next weekend , she was really excited when i told her i made reservations.
Think this is going great , she's up for everything and we're laughing a lot. This girl is making me happy 🙂

How's it going with your libra amyl ?

I'm really glad upheavel🙂

UpheavaL, I am happy for you 2, I would be excited abt wall climbing too!! great choice!

Libra was out of town, we had plans to meet when he got back.

Everything was normal, he kept texting while he was on the work trip, one day he just deleted me from his Instant messenger.. or at least I dont have him on my instant messenger so either he deleted me, someone else did.. but I sent him a text that he wasnt on it, but I never got a reply from him, so I dont know, I keep thinking why or what happened, at least he could've said something instead of just dissapearing..

that was a week ago, I still have no signals from him.. It would be easier to move on if I could only know what happened..

Again I am glad you and your sag gal are working out, I know how awesome a sag/libra relationship can be!!

enjoy!

If you have any insights, it could help 🙂

Well i think it's strange that he's texting you a lot and then stops. You tried calling him ?

No I havent actually called him, I just sent him a text, but since I got no reply.. I dont think I should call him.. Its been more than a week now..

😢

I think you should call him , if it's not good atleast you have closure.

Get on your phone ! :p

thats right you tell her

Ok, finally we talked
basically when we met he had been offered a promotion at work that would transfer him to the other side of the states , I remember him telling me this, but at the time he said he would not take it..
well he took it!
He said this:

"sorry I was a chicken to tell you, just didnt want to get to close bc I knew I may leave"
"But you'll see me again, promise.. was just running.. "

funny thing is I had a trip planed to his new city cause I used to live there and have lots of friends, so he asked me when is my trip and if he would see me then...

He is not happy with the move, and doesnt like that city (boring) he said I hope I can last..

Well at least now I know what happened, I am not happy he moved 😢 but at least I am not wondering all the time..

I would like to see him, but what would be the point, I am not sure wanna put myself in that situation again..