sag women, lend me your ears

I know a girl who is a sag since high school, we started talking last year and after a while we started talking she up and disappeared for a lil while and reappeared this year and we start talking again. She telling me I am sexy, what she is looking for in her next relationship. Me and her started talking a lot about what each other look for in a relationship, she wanted us as friends to see if she wants what I have to offer in relationship. We have had sex, and since then since has been scarce. Any ideas what is the deal? Brutal honesty is welcomed.

@cherubicpar I have reached out I dont want to over do it and she runs off. When she does respond it is not cold responses, she doesn't answer or she talk for a bit and does what she does. I take it as she is very busy. As for the archer charming matter, I witness that from her which made me want to get close to her. How can I shower her with some love, in a proper appropriate manner?

See that is the info I need, thanks

@everevolingepithet lol, here you go

she pumped and dumped?

@sag89 I am trying to figure that out. This uncharted territory with a sag at this level.

Posted by VirgoChyld
@sag89 I am trying to figure that out. This uncharted territory with a sag at this level.

well i hope she didn't! in my humble opinion you virgos are definitely worth staying around for 🙂

@sag89 thanks for the compliment, 🙂. And for what it is worth I love the sag women energy and personality

Lol @ pumped n dumped lol

Thanks for your guys input, @ DMV lol, I didn't mind the pumped part at all

She enjoyed her self. if that was the case I would of been told bout my performance . I was in contact with her after, I am trying to figure she want me to chase her or not?

Posted by VirgoChyld
@sag89 thanks for the compliment, 🙂. And for what it is worth I love the sag women energy and personality

no prob so how is it goin?

Idk really, I haven't been in contact much, just said "good night" and "good morning" Tuesday night and morning.she responded to the good night. Just waiting this out a bit.

Posted by VirgoChyld
She enjoyed her self. if that was the case I would of been told bout my performance . I was in contact with her after, I am trying to figure she want me to chase her or not?

I usually dont tell a guy I didnt like him in bed. I just go bout my business

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Posted by VirgoChyld
She enjoyed her self. if that was the case I would of been told bout my performance . I was in contact with her after, I am trying to figure she want me to chase her or not?

I usually dont tell a guy I didnt like him in bed. I just go bout my business

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I figured since you sags are the truth sign, you would tell it like it is?

@ scorsagian21 I have ask and I didnt get an answer. But it is what it is. Thanks for the help. 🙂

Yea. Well I mean positive thoughts towards u Vc. If it doesn't work out I'm sure you'll find someone else

Thanks everyone your help is appreciated

@virgo,

u got an update?

Posted by VirgoChyld
I know a girl who is a sag since high school

She's only been a sag since high school? What sign was she before then?

😛

Couldn't resist!!!

Yep, two weeks is my cut off point. Had a virgo do that to me, then I went out with my aqua and been with him ever since. When virgo finally did contact me, I wasn't interested anymore.

IMO.... I sometimes just want to feel a connection with someone so in the past i have just had a nice time with talking some closeness some sex then after i try to get the point across i dont want anything more by minimal contact however i do admit i keep it at minimal and not cut it right off because i never like to burn bridges. however if asked i will be totaly honest with what im thinking or feeling about that person. honest to a fault in fact... Sounds to me like she may find you attractive and dig spending time with your possible for her own selfish reasons... however what do i know lol I dont know the girl or the situation but my advice would be to please ask her. also i do love being treated like a princes by a guy im into if its a guy im not into and he does that stuff it pushes me away more.

Good luck!

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Posted by VirgoChyld
She enjoyed her self. if that was the case I would of been told bout my performance . I was in contact with her after, I am trying to figure she want me to chase her or not?

I usually dont tell a guy I didnt like him in bed. I just go bout my business

Co Sign, I wouldn't want to hurt his feelings.

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I appreciate the sentiment, but I rather you be honest actually

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Posted by VirgoChyld
I know a girl who is a sag since high school

She's only been a sag since high school? What sign was she before then?

😛

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Lol

Posted by Sagtastic1
@DMV he said he hasn't contacted her in TWO WEEKS because he's been busy. I'm like WTF, she's better than me because in my head, ITS OVER!

Whoa @ Sagtastic1 she bounced for months and came for her own reasons, I didn't bat an eye two weeks isn't gonna kill her.

Not to be mean, but why is it that the rules change when it comes to dating? When you're hungry, the food doesn't come to you. You get up and get it. Same with a job. You're broke. You go get one. But when it comes to love, the rules change? He has to come to you?

If the premise is that he has something to prove, well...so do you_??_ Sorry, everyone else can have the games. I'm looking for something different. If you're looking to be chased and caught...you will get exactly that. Caught. _—

Posted by shorty1978
IMO.... I sometimes just want to feel a connection with someone so in the past i have just had a nice time with talking some closeness some sex then after i try to get the point across i dont want anything more by minimal contact however i do admit i keep it at minimal and not cut it right off because i never like to burn bridges. however if asked i will be totaly honest with what im thinking or feeling about that person. honest to a fault in fact... Sounds to me like she may find you attractive and dig spending time with your possible for her own selfish reasons... however what do i know lol I dont know the girl or the situation but my advice would be to please ask her. also i do love being treated like a princes by a guy im into if its a guy im not into and he does that stuff it pushes me away more.

Good luck!

Thanks for the info

*back

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Posted by Sagtastic1
@DMV he said he hasn't contacted her in TWO WEEKS because he's been busy. I'm like WTF, she's better than me because in my head, ITS OVER!

OR

You could just pick up the phone and call him, no?

Unless you only want him to make time for you because he's the man.

LOL

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Cosign, +24

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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24

Posted by Sagtastic1
@DMV he said he hasn't contacted her in TWO WEEKS because he's been busy. I'm like WTF, she's better than me because in my head, ITS OVER!

OR

You could just pick up the phone and call him, no?

Unless you only want him to make time for you because he's the man.

LOL

My thing is, a man goes for what he "wants". If he doesn't then he doesn't want you.

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Why wouldn't I want her? I am gonna say this, a call isn't going to hurt, nor asking me what is up.

Posted by DMV
@virgo,

u got an update?

None yet....

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Posted by Sagtastic1

Posted by PotHeadVirgo24

Posted by Sagtastic1
@DMV he said he hasn't contacted her in TWO WEEKS because he's been busy. I'm like WTF, she's better than me because in my head, ITS OVER!

OR

You could just pick up the phone and call him, no?

Unless you only want him to make time for you because he's the man.

LOL

My thing is, a man goes for what he "wants". If he doesn't then he doesn't want you.

Why wouldn't I want her? I am gonna say this, a call isn't going to hurt, nor asking me what is up.

+ Me

How could something so simple be blown out of proportion..

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I don't know how that can be eschewed