@c0mrade
15 YearsTaurus
Are Sag girls stubborn?
Are Sagittarius women considered stubborn
Sagittarius women are known for their independence and strong opinions, which can sometimes be perceived as stubbornness. They value honesty and freedom, and may resist change or control. However, their stubbornness often stems from a desire for truth and authenticity rather than mere obstinance.
She probably just forgot lol
Posted by c0mrade
I was talking to this Sag girl, beautiful, intelligent and sweet. We were talking like friends, and when I found out that she is in a relationship I kept away from her. I just ignored her, no contact, nothing. But a few months ago, she ended the relationship.. in a not very pleasant way. From the start I had an instinct that she was not very happy with her current relationship. It came to an end - just as I thought it would. But the problem is, I started ignoring her. It's like I've decided not to let her into my life again. Usually, when I do that, people try to reconnect. But she didn't even try to? She knew that i'm ignoring her, cuz I just stopped communicating.. all of a sudden. What's on her mind, anyone?
Simple...you ignored her, she is ignoring you. And she has moved on from it.
lol
Sag89,
Whaaat? hahaaa No she hasn't. 🙂
Tacky,
Not desperate, does that mean I have to make the first move?
Nikki,
We're still in touch... but not as we used to.
Wynter,
Man... i'm posting here to get some ideas.. and you're lolling.. dammn you! lol
Enni,
I just want to make sure... not playing games. 🙂
I'd get over her. She probably never saw you as anyone she'd want to date or she would have contacted you.
Just move on
Posted by c0mrade
Sag89,Whaaat? hahaaa No she hasn't. 🙂
Tacky,
Not desperate, does that mean I have to make the first move?
Nikki,
We're still in touch... but not as we used to.
Wynter,
Man... i'm posting here to get some ideas.. and you're lolling.. dammn you! lol
Enni,
I just want to make sure... not playing games. 🙂
You didn't say in your post you were in touch! Being a Saggie female we are everyones friend. We hardly have any enemies and if we did we sure as hell would not talk to you!
She is just being herself, nice, friendly, caring self. I wouldn't look too much into it until she TELLS you! And beleive me, if she likes you she WILL tell you. 🙂
You didn't say in your post you were in touch! Being a Saggie female we are everyones friend. We hardly have any enemies and if we did we sure as hell would not talk to you!
She is just being herself, nice, friendly, caring self. I wouldn't look too much into it until she TELLS you! And beleive me, if she likes you she WILL tell you. 🙂
Lol yep!
It's not like you dated the girl or anything. She has no tie to you
Ok than why are you here asking where she went?
Oh than ya she is probably just being nice
Posted by enni
—? You are such an eyesore (Enni is finally back..)....And don't play mind games thx.
**does dance for return!✨*
You shouldn't have ignored her. And yes we are stubborn. But if she's not really feeling you, it won't bother her that you stopped contacting her. C'est la vie!
Nikki,
Thanks for shedding some light into that. Being nice, caring and friendly with everyone - just like you responding to me in a pleasant way. But I can tell you, it's not the same when we talk to each other - it's different.
"if she likes you she WILL tell you"
I take your word for it!
Mebs,
Yeah, but when I talked to her after some time, she was like - "where have you been 😢" May be her egoistic side didn't want to be the one to start first?
Tacky,
Thanks for the very encouraging words! 😄
Mebs,
Yeah, but when I talked to her after some time, she was like - "where have you been 😢" May be her egoistic side didn't want to be the one to start first?
Definitely. I know for me I will hold out like a mo-fo till the guy texts me first
happykitsune,
Thanks for the reply. Now that explains everything. 🙂
Tacky,
Nah.. I was not being sarcastic. Sorry about that. 🙂 I was just looking for some ideas on how to please her or how to reconnect with her.. and then you shattered the little hope I had. I've never tried this hard with any girl before, she is like the most intelligent, beautiful and sweet girl i've ever met. I'll be an idiot to miss a girl like her. Yes, I like her. 🙂
"In that case, you're going to have to offer an explanation for the whole ignoring thing. You know- tell her you were doing it because she had a boyfriend. Remind her it was the honourable thing to do, on your part."
You couldn't have put it better than this. That is exactly why I stopped talking to her. But being the sweetest girl she is, she didn't mind me cutting off the communication and then trying to reconnect with her again. And I think she guessed why I stopped talking to her.. being the intelligent girl she is. 🙂 Do you think I need to be frank and tell her the reason? I feel kind of awkward? :/
Tacky,
Not desperate, does that mean I have to make the first move?
Well, I guess so. If you think that's a good idea? I wonder if it is, though. I bet she's moved on already.
If someone chooses to ignore me, I just shrug my shoulders and go "whatever".
Then I go out and meet someone else.
😄 lolz
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Posted by c0mrade
Nikki,Thanks for shedding some light into that. Being nice, caring and friendly with everyone - just like you responding to me in a pleasant way. But I can tell you, it's not the same when we talk to each other - it's different.
"if she likes you she WILL tell you"
I take your word for it!
Mebs,
Yeah, but when I talked to her after some time, she was like - "where have you been 😢" May be her egoistic side didn't want to be the one to start first?
Tacky,
Thanks for the very encouraging words! 😄
Yes, it is different. I don't know you and you don't know me. However, being nice is being nice, until we feel betrayed or we are hurt. Then claws can come out!
Mebs,
Yeah, but when I talked to her after some time, she was like - "where have you been 😢" May be her egoistic side didn't want to be the one to start first?
Definitely. I know for me I will hold out like a mo-fo till the guy texts me first
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Hell no!!!! Not me, if I like you I WILL TEXT YOU or CALL YOU first. Doesn't matter if my ego nor my heart tells me otherwise. A Saggie trait "Speaking before thinking." 🙂
Posted by c0mrade
happykitsune,Thanks for the reply. Now that explains everything. 🙂
Tacky,
Nah.. I was not being sarcastic. Sorry about that. 🙂 I was just looking for some ideas on how to please her or how to reconnect with her.. and then you shattered the little hope I had. I've never tried this hard with any girl before, she is like the most intelligent, beautiful and sweet girl i've ever met. I'll be an idiot to miss a girl like her. Yes, I like her. 🙂
"In that case, you're going to have to offer an explanation for the whole ignoring thing. You know- tell her you were doing it because she had a boyfriend. Remind her it was the honourable thing to do, on your part."
You couldn't have put it better than this. That is exactly why I stopped talking to her. But being the sweetest girl she is, she didn't mind me cutting off the communication and then trying to reconnect with her again. And I think she guessed why I stopped talking to her.. being the intelligent girl she is. 🙂 Do you think I need to be frank and tell her the reason? I feel kind of awkward? :/
*SCREAMING*
Yes, be frank & honest. It is what us Sag's love the best! We hate beating around the bush, naysayers, hemming and hawing over things in life. If you want her in this life, grab her by the horns and take HER NOW! 🙂 🙂 🙂
Sag89,
Yeah, I am a Taurus. I don't go into details about the planets.. but here is what's bothering me - Her Venus is in Scorpio and mine is in Gemini. That's what makes her complicated I think... A Sag in social life, and a Scorpio in love life? Dang!
Nikki,
Claws can come out? That's scary! But I know I didn't hurt her, but she is confused a little bit about me for sure. I know the 'Speaking before thinking' thing.. lol I've experienced it when we went to a trekking trip together. Man.. she was non-stop! I enjoyed it though!
"If you want her in this life, grab her by the horns and take HER NOW!"
Well, what if I abruptly made a move and she is not ready for it? She is too precious for me to miss. 🙂 I'll try to tell her about why I stopped talking to her though. Thanks a lot Nikki. Nice sharing with all you guys! I'll keep updated. 😉 But I fear there won't be much to update as i'm leaving for another country in a month or so! 😢
MzSag,
Yeah, you guys can be stubborn.. more than anyone. lol - first hand experience! 🙂
"When you cut us off and ignore us at of the blue, with no explanation, that says a ton about character."
About character? Like... what? Can you please tell me that? Yeah, I ignored her cuz I didn't want to spend my time on her when she is with another man, right?
Yea, my best friend has a mars in gemini she is like all over the place.
The sag sun/ scorp venus man I wouldn't want to try that!
Posted by Sag89
Yea, my best friend has a mars in gemini she is like all over the place.The sag sun/ scorp venus man I wouldn't want to try that!
Haha... c'mon. There is one quote "If she is easy, she wont be amazing, If she is amazing, she wont be easy!"
She is amazing! 🙂 And I have no idea of giving up! 😉
Nikki,
Claws can come out? That's scary! But I know I didn't hurt her, but she is confused a little bit about me for sure. I know the 'Speaking before thinking' thing.. lol I've experienced it when we went to a trekking trip together. Man.. she was non-stop! I enjoyed it though!
"If you want her in this life, grab her by the horns and take HER NOW!"
Well, what if I abruptly made a move and she is not ready for it? She is too precious for me to miss. I'll try to tell her about why I stopped talking to her though. Thanks a lot Nikki. Nice sharing with all you guys! I'll keep updated. But I fear there won't be much to update as i'm leaving for another country in a month or so!
Yes, claws come out when we are a little angry. But what most people don't understand is we are not angry with YOU we are angry at OURSELVES. There is a big difference.
She may not be ready for it if she hasn't even shown any interest beyond talking. She is still talking to you, right?
Where are you going? And why start a relationship when you are leaving in the first place?
Posted by Sag89
Yea, my best friend has a mars in gemini she is like all over the place.The sag sun/ scorp venus man I wouldn't want to try that!
Haha... c'mon. There is one quote "If she is easy, she wont be amazing, If she is amazing, she wont be easy!"
She is amazing! 🙂 And I have no idea of giving up! 😉
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Lol omg I just realized nikki has that lol well your awesome nicks! 🙂 you should ask her.
Nikki,
Angry at yourselves? Why is that? :/
"She may not be ready for it if she hasn't even shown any interest beyond talking. She is still talking to you, right?"
Yeah, just a brief chat now and then.
"Where are you going? And why start a relationship when you are leaving in the first place?""
Well, you cannot start to love someone after calculating everything, right? It just happens and it just happened to me. Like I saw the love of my life.. like she IS the one. It started an year ago. And back then I had no idea of going to another country. I'm moving to London and she will to Sydney. Poles apart, huh? Now literally too. lol
Luck is not in my side it seems. 😢
Sag89,
Nikki for sure is one amazing woman and a matured Sag. 🙂 I bet she's already met the love of her life. 😉 What about you? lol 😛 jk.. jk! 🙂
I'm 22 years old lol ya right about " love of my life "
Posted by c0mrade
I was talking to this Sag girl, beautiful, intelligent and sweet. We were talking like friends, and when I found out that she is in a relationship I kept away from her. I just ignored her, no contact, nothing. But a few months ago, she ended the relationship.. in a not very pleasant way. From the start I had an instinct that she was not very happy with her current relationship. It came to an end - just as I thought it would. But the problem is, I started ignoring her. It's like I've decided not to let her into my life again. Usually, when I do that, people try to reconnect. But she didn't even try to? She knew that i'm ignoring her, cuz I just stopped communicating.. all of a sudden. What's on her mind, anyone?
you are stupid, and sags have attitude "if you dont need me i dont need you" so dont stress
just talk to her
and no sags are not stuborn, most easily convinced people
Dude it's funny because of your seemingly innocent ignorance if you will to her well being.
Firstly you find out she's taken so you sacrifice a nice friendship with a lovely sweet saggy.
You then find out she ended the relationship "in a not very pleasant way", so like a predator stalking it's prey you swoop in and basically be a dick.
Then you have the cheek and stupidity to ask what's on her mind because "usually" when you do that "people try to reconnect"?
You sound like an ass bro.
i mean i'm no fucking ladies expert or anything, and i could be seeing this in wrong way. But that ain't no way to treat a lady.
Posted by AA
Dude it's funny because of your seemingly innocent ignorance if you will to her well being.
Firstly you find out she's taken so you sacrifice a nice friendship with a lovely sweet saggy.
You then find out she ended the relationship "in a not very pleasant way", so like a predator stalking it's prey you swoop in and basically be a dick.
Then you have the cheek and stupidity to ask what's on her mind because "usually" when you do that "people try to reconnect"?You sound like an ass bro.
If she hasn't replied surely there's nothing on her mind in regards to c0mrade ?
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hopefully ...
My sister is a "Sag"...yes very introverted and stubborn. Best, to let leave them alone and wait until they get out of their
"heads".
I think your ignoring her because she connected with another man whilst in a relationship - so in your gut you feel she will bond with other men if you start a relationship with her.
Shes feeling rejected then shes moved on and forgotten about it. She probably thought if we are just friends why the hell end a friendship because Im not single and concluded your not a good friend
While this might work with other signs and other immature girls, the reality is don't try and play the "game" with Sagittarius period. They didn't invent the game, but they have to many people pursuing them to fall prey to it. Basically, you tried a last ditch move of desperation, it failed, and now you are kicking yourself in the ass for it. As a Virgo, I say be more mature and less manipulative about it next time. If you are interested in somebody and they have a significant other, you need to be honest with yourself. You can either truly deal with it and just be friends, most people genuinely can't do this, or you can be honest and admit that simply a friendship isn't going to work and ask them to call you if they are ever single again: you get on with your life, you aren't beating your head against the wall for an extended period of time, and the reality is if the relationship had any chance of being, this is more likely to make it happen because you are being an ADULT.
sorry for the late reply enni but i have no idea what you meant. I'll just assume you were on drugs when you wrote that.
some kind of acid
well.. as a sag/sun leo/moon (lots of fire 🙂 I can tell you that sags are not stubborn, however we don't appreciate being ignored, "I understand therefore I am", if I know the reasons/motivations for things being how they are I can accept most things, so I agree with whoever told you to just talk to her..be straightforward and talk to her..maybe she has never even considered you a bf option..let her know you live! Good luck 🙂
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I was talking to this Sag girl, beautiful, intelligent and sweet. We were talking like friends, and when I found out that she is in a relationship I kept away from her. I just ignored her, no contact, nothing. But a few months ago, she ended the relationship.. in a not very pleasant way. From the start I had an instinct that she was not very happy with her current relationship. It came to an end - just as I thought it would. But the problem is, I started ignoring her. It's like I've decided not to let her into my life again. Usually, when I do that, people try to reconnect. But she didn't even try to? She knew that i'm ignoring her, cuz I just stopped communicating.. all of a sudden. What's on her mind, anyone?