The aries is coming over!

I'm so excited I can't help post. This is not something I can post on facebook, lol! The plan is I call in sick on Wed. and she is coming over to play some music for me. I've been frantically cleaning all day. My house is going to look better on Wed. than in has in years.

I got the piano tuned on Friday, orderves ready ... I'll be cooking up some treats, picking up some happy plant, getting several wines for her to choose from (her specific request) ... hmmm, some chocolate covered strawberries might be good.

Ok, remember ... we're just friends!

Aww! 🙂 That's sweet! —🙂

Isn't she the Aries from work that's in a relationship?

Hmmm, cooking, and cleaning up the house. Arranging a "good time" with weed and booze, hmmmm...

Me thinks Aries has caught your attention....

yes, beautiful74, it's the same aries i've been talking about for forever. yes, it's kind of a messed up relationship in some ways ... but, so far, spending time with her makes me happier than spending time with anyone else i've met

at our last happy hour we decided to be each other's rebound partner (she's changing jobs and won't be able to see her lover-boy at work anymore). Anyway between us it's not likely to get physical again, we're just being there for each other.

And it's funny how other 'exes are coming out lately ... the sag girl that I dated for a bit in S. Carolina called out of the blue over the weekend and I was telling her about the rebound arrangement ... she laughed and said, if it's not physical, what's the point? God, I was wishing I could telliport back to SC after talking to her.

...just my luck to be a month without sex and get a booty call that's only a 16hr drive away.

Posted by jru2
yes, beautiful74, it's the same aries i've been talking about for forever. yes, it's kind of a messed up relationship in some ways ... but, so far, spending time with her makes me happier than spending time with anyone else i've met

at our last happy hour we decided to be each other's rebound partner (she's changing jobs and won't be able to see her lover-boy at work anymore). Anyway between us it's not likely to get physical again, we're just being there for each other.

And it's funny how other 'exes are coming out lately ... the sag girl that I dated for a bit in S. Carolina called out of the blue over the weekend and I was telling her about the rebound arrangement ... she laughed and said, if it's not physical, what's the point? God, I was wishing I could telliport back to SC after talking to her.

That's good jru, but you didn't answer my question...is she still attached? If she is, then your "happiness" is coming at the expense of their relationship. If anything is to happen between you two, the foundation met be pure.

yeah, nothing will happen between me and the aries. she's just like a drug, a rare treat, being with her makes me feel good ... and I presume being with me makes her feel good of she wouldn't make the effort. i'm trying not to make anything more of it than it is, just I do so enjoy her

but, to answer your question, yes she's still married. I actually know what its like to be her right now, married and going through the pain of the end of an affair ... I know y'all might be rolling your eyes, like a cheater doesn't deserve sympathy, but I just know what it feels like is all 'cause i've been there too.

the aries is my litmus test. when I meet a girl and she makes me not want to see the aries anymore, then I'll know to go all in with that one.

Jru, all of this you're doing is simply unnecessary and creating karma that has to be worked out down the road and not in a good way. Why not start from scratch and find someone who is not attached? Change your spiritual energy and vibration.

You know what you're doing is not innocent. You care for her and trust me and this is not some litmus test. You want what you can't have...same as with the aqua. You're repeating a pattern. No matter how much you rationalize it, you have romantic intentions for someone who is in a marriage bond. I know its difficult for her and you want to heal her, but a romantic interlude disguised as a friendly get together is not the way to go. Be a friend but keep you're distance and make you're intentions pure. If she wants you, she had to earn you and do what is necessary for you two to be together. But you'll no doubt proceed as planned.

Best wishes

lol, yeah ... I think everything will be just fine as long as I don't try to make it into a romantic interlude ... we would both barf.

At very least, my house is cleaner and nicer than it has been in years (and not me living in it then). I will enjoy my clean home for a while no matter what happens, and hopefully I'll have some nice music recorded as well. She starts her new job next week, so we won't have time for trouble then anyway.

haha, i've got to post some pictures of my place since y'all gave me so much shit about how messy it was before.

...me, the timid director:

she was hung over so I had to edit out some spots, but she still plays a hell of lot better than me

The second piece if very beautiful....in a sort of melancholic way. I find it soothing. Thanks for posting it.

I like the 1st one best ... well, the 2nd half of it. It's a lullaby she used to sing to me 4 years ago. I encouraged her to make up something on the piano to go with it. She got more motivated to do something with it after she had a kid. On a better day we could do a better recording of her song, but I'm happy to even have a crappy version of it saved.