A story with a scorpio male

Cheers to you all, perhaps some of you read my earlier post entitles Scorpio's darkness and silence, il repeat the story with a smaller version now, so it can match my q.

Ok, I have a question, but before i ask it, let me explain to u the scenario first so you can give me your insights.

First of all, im a gemini! yes! Not too promising with a scorpio i know, and knew it before i even got involved, didnt mind it and accepted it. But being the curious knowledge loving adventurous typical gemini i am, i went it.

Ok, so i met this scorpio on my birthday party, a friend of mine invited him since he knew no one and was new to the country on vacation visiting family, i was busy celebrating and entertaining all my friends, but ofcourse, who misses the scorpio's killing deep intense look in their eyes?

He was leaving in 3 days, he managed to contact me and express his real interest, i was very very careful, i know they manipulate situations to their advantage and would say and do whatever it takes to get what they want. But, being the adventurous curious gemini i am, i dated him twice b4 he left, it was sweet, good conversation, 'good communication', sexy talk, he wud ask me anything about me wanting to know every little detail, etc etc, we kissed a bit it was nice and sweat and caring and undemanding.

He moves back to his country, we stay intouch every now and then, i go on with my life ofcourse. Whenever we're intouch he makes sure he reminds me of how special the time we spent together was. He is a very imp. political ambitious man, typical fixed determined passionate scorpio who devotes to his cause to an obsessive level... etc. yet he manages to talk to me almost every other day.

He lives in Europe, i find out im going for a 2 week workshop in germany, he suggests to come visit me while im there. We agree to meet and keot talking about it for a month, i said il see him as a friend since i just started seeing someone now, he was cool about it and said there will be no hidden agendas. Manipulative huh?

I stop seeing the guy i was seeing for diff reasons not related to this scorpio, and i decide to have an open mind about whatever can happen in germany.

I was so excited to see him that i even forgot that the main reason i was going to germany was the workshop. I buy expensive dresses and etc etc, buy him a gift, and i cant stop thinking about the weekend wel spend together.

(...continued) For once in my life, i learn to appreciate the fact that life is not counted by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

I dont usually have romantic relationships if i know they will be short term. I know thats hard to believe since im a typical gemini, but its true, i like steady and serious. But this scorpio makes me wana appreciate today, and not even wish for a tomorrow.

I arrive in germany, i let him know as we agreed, he was busy travelling the world as usual, we email and text each other for days back and forth, he says he is busy he has a lot of work to catch up with since he is travelling and lotta work is waiting for him at work upon his return... etc. so.. timing was wrong.

He finally said he wont come, but that i can fly to see him instead. When he saw i was willing to and started looking for fight prices, he tells me he is coming but has to beg his boss for it, since the timing is very bad and he is needed in the office.

So heres the the thing, what was supposed to be one of the most spontaneous romantic expensive adventurous weekends ever, turned out to be totally the opposite!!

He hated the fact that he left work to come see me, he hated the fact that he lied to his boss saying he is sick, just to come see a girl!! He was silent, selfish, distant, even in bed. Nothing like the person i have met back in my country. Few hours after he arrived he was honest to admitt that now that he have come, he knows he would never do it again, never mix pleasure along the same time with business.

He never admitted this ofcourse, but i knew it, i think his distant dry treatment was part of his 'punishment' to me, because 'i' was the reason he was there feeling bad and disappointed of himself?? feeling this way means it made him feel week and inferior to me, thus comes the indifferent selfish treatment. We did only what he wanted, we hardly talked at all, hardly explored the city like we planned before meeting, we would spend hours in the hotel room with him staring on his laptop and the news on TV. He approached me first day in the hotel but it was quick, very quick. Later acted as if nothing happened.

Now i know scorpio is calm from the outside but raging from the inside, maybe sensitive and is hurting bcoz he is acting this way. I, being the gemini i am, i adapted and was mutable, i didnt critisize nor object, i was caring and sacrificing and loving. I even approached him and gave him a

my rising? You mean ascendant? Its leo. Im a gemini sun venus and mercury! Moon in Aquarius, whatever all this means 🙂 you?

(... continued part 3)

, being the gemini i am, i adapted and was mutable, i didnt critisize nor object, i was caring and sacrificing and loving. I even approached him and gave him a 2 hour massage with my hands and mouth, i drove him nuts, what does he do? He gets up has me and finished his business in a minute.

Too much details i guess i chose not to give the shorter version. Chater box gemini 😉

So, bottom line, the weekend wasnt like what we thought and talked about at all, i understand his situation which is why i adapted, timing was wrong, he felt bad, but why the distance? If not during the 2 days, then why til now ever since we flew back to our countries? When we said goodbye he said how wonderful i was and adaptable, and how any other woman would freak out. I can tell a man whos in it just for sex or if he really does somehow care for me. He flew to see me then acted distant. But why do we haaaaaardly talk online now? It used to be every other day? Is he scared or just doesnt care. It just really blows my mind away...

" i said il see him as a friend since i just started seeing someone now, he was cool about it and said there will be no hidden agendas. Manipulative huh?"

******

Yes, that was very manipulative of you.