Am I falling or is he? The scorpio death trap..

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...and for that matter, if we both are, who's gonna catch who?


Gotta love scorpios. They somehow manage to rope you back in after you thought you were done with them. I've done so good with not falling for anyone recently. I just wanna be free from drama this summer. Yet somehow I find myself thinking about that dang scorpio again.

Got a call from him tonight because apparently his phone has been screwing up and he can't text. He told me he'd have a new phone soon tho and asked why I had disappeared the morning after I stayed over at his place. He wants me to hang out again, but I told him I wouldn't till after I got back from my vacation. He was a little annoyed, but I told him I'd bring him something back and we ended the convo.

I guess I'm not really asking for advice...just stating the obvious inevitable mess that will probably be occuring soon. These damn scorpios and their charm...I'll tell ya one thing, you can't forget em'.
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They say that opposite signs attract to each other but I think it is scorp/sagg, like I have said before me and my sagg we have been on and off for a year and a half and so recently it back on and it's great I just hope it stays like this positive and we are expressing our selves to each other and that is what makes it works... We have tried to go our seperate ways more recently but we couldn't stay away from each other so here we are making it work and we had to discuss those things that didn't work before and do things differently. I think previously with him I held a lot back and I know he wants me to be more open with him, and the things I ask of him I notice a change already so let's just say in the last 3 weeks I am all 🙂.......... I
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Wonder what strange force brings two opposite elements together. This time around it's be different like yours scorpdiva. I think sagXscorp relationships now have better communication because I'm also able to express myself more now and I don't feel like I should keep things hidden. I know that's weird coming from the sag end, but I was trying to appeal more to his scorpio nature when I first came on these boards and was asking questions about him. Back then I didn't have near as much respect for myself as I do now. I'm learning and these boards have helped a lot. Funny how this has all come full circle...I just can't believe he's stuck around this long.
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Wonder what strange force brings two opposite elements together. This time around it's be different like yours scorpdiva. I think sagXscorp relationships now have better communication because I'm also able to express myself more now and I don't feel like I should keep things hidden. I know that's weird coming from the sag end, but I was trying to appeal more to his scorpio nature when I first came on these boards and was asking questions about him. Back then I didn't have near as much respect for myself as I do now. I'm learning and these boards have helped a lot. Funny how this has all come full circle...I just can't believe he's stuck around this long.




Scorp, we stick around when we know the person is worth it...........

He thinks you are worth it 🙂
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I guess so. He's seemed to open up a lot more. I wonder if it has anything to do with one of the convos we had. He was saying that when he goes out with a girl he likes to be able to pay for dates (which is nice), but that he isn't paid enough to have a gf because he has a lot of stuff he still has to pay off for his car and such. As it is he has to ride a bike to work. I told him I understood and that sometimes the girl pays for stuff when a guy doesn't have enough cash. I think this really put him at ease. Not that he's going to ask me to be his gf. He's still struggling a lot with money and I understand where he's coming from, which is why I'm staying at a safe distance as just a friend and occassional cuddle buddy. I don't mind paying for my own stuff when I know someone is struggling financially, but I'd rather not get into something right now with someone who isn't financially sound due to the fact that that could cause a lot of strain in a relationship. Better to keep things where they are and save the drama
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Wonder what strange force brings two opposite elements together. This time around it's be different like yours scorpdiva. I think sagXscorp relationships now have better communication because I'm also able to express myself more now and I don't feel like I should keep things hidden. I know that's weird coming from the sag end, but I was trying to appeal more to his scorpio nature when I first came on these boards and was asking questions about him. Back then I didn't have near as much respect for myself as I do now. I'm learning and these boards have helped a lot. Funny how this has all come full circle...I just can't believe he's stuck around this long.




Scorp, we stick around when we know the person is worth it...........

He thinks you are worth it 🙂
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Maybe 🙂 He does like that we're very similar, in a nerdy sort of way psh
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Panties have been kept on. He's not seeing me till a lil over a week so hopefully that will allow things to cool down because it got to the point where he was able to seduce me last time. Hopefully this vacation will allow me to cool off and think straight about this.

Not sure if I feel along time ago. He seemed like a different person back then. Not the type of guy I'd be into now...now he seems more respectful and easy to talk to. I don't think that's really because he changed tho, it's more so that I've changed and he's adapted himself to how I am now.