Here's my story. I went on a group trip(25 ppl) two weeks ago. It was convoy style and I drove my own vehicle(19 hr trip) down to FL. This Scorpio guy rode with me along with two other people. I never considered this guy as a love interest. Well the first 2 hours of the drive, he spilled his guts. He told it ALL, all of his personal business. The rest of the ride was full of fun(Monday). I was oblivious to any kind of attraction that he might have had for me. By Wendsday someone approached me an told me that he "really loved me"(not love, but really liked me)and that he said that "they" (the group) could'nt let me go, that "he" wasnt letting me leave, and that they had to do their best to keep me around. After that another person approached me and said "He is REALLY into you". So I started paying attention. I noticed that he was very interested in feelings, that he was trying to be close to me without being obvious to the others and that he seemed very interested. We were on a Christian retreat so there is reason for us to be spending alone time together but I would say things under my breath like "I wish we could go to the beach" and he would rally everyone within 10 minutes and say he wanted to go. The church that he works for(that I went down with) doesnt encourage random dating because it leads to sex and sex before marriage is frowned upon. When it was time to go my older brother wanted to leave early without the rest of the group. I didnt want to leave early but Jacob did. Once he got to the car he put his luggage down and waited until I made my decision while my brother pressured him to get in the car. So, he did want to ride with me else he would've just got in and left with my brother. Anyways I stalled long enough for my bro to HAVE to leave with everyone else. IDK if this makes ANY sense. Anyways, I felt like there was a connection DEFINITELY. There was never any verbal communication about the attraction but he was so sweet about everything and the non verbal communication was nice. Now that we are back he is not really showing any interest. I though that there would be a hint of something but there isnt. He seems nervous almost and very reluctant to get close to me. What do you Scorps think. There is a whole other side to this story but its too long.
Aquarius and Scorpio
To Mata Hari, let me present Exhibit B.
I think the Aqua-Scorp coupling is difficult. Different wiring upstairs altogether.

Yup I agree with S_R, this is what I have seen in a couple of these combos.

Good luck with that.

Oh for goodness sake...which relationship isn't difficult? If anyone thinks a Cancer-Scorp or Pisces-Scorp would be any easier than an Aqua-Scorp or any other sign combos for that matter they are EXTREMELY naive.
First of all, astrologically speaking, there's more than the sun sign.
Secondly, in any relationship the two people have to work damn hard to understand each other. It's all about communication. No one understands another person without communication.
You can kid yourself that "Ooooh, we're water signs so we'll just instinctively GET each other" but I can guarantee you that without verbal communication and hard work on both ends, the relationship will be dead in no time.
First of all, astrologically speaking, there's more than the sun sign.
Secondly, in any relationship the two people have to work damn hard to understand each other. It's all about communication. No one understands another person without communication.
You can kid yourself that "Ooooh, we're water signs so we'll just instinctively GET each other" but I can guarantee you that without verbal communication and hard work on both ends, the relationship will be dead in no time.
I think it can work. Im not the typical aquarius for some odd reason. So, what do I expect? He told me yesterday that I am one of the most modest ladies that he know and that I carry myself well. He also said that I set a standard. We are in a church environment so I cant really just approach the situation like a typical person would. I dont want to come right out and ask whats up. It's not appropriate to flirt either, so Im not looking for the norm. I know he's interested but what to do? What do I expect?
I with a Scorpio Female. We met during orientation week. While waiting for a bus to take a crowd of uni students to a night club. Someone I knew seen me so I go over and talk. This Scorp girl was there with her, I don't think we said anything to each other maybe 'Hi'. At the club I had quite a bit to drink and I remember being on the dance floor (nothing special haha) and I remember her jumping up on me and what not. Then after we got a taxi back to the uni res and I stayed in her room (nothing happened, until about a month or so later). We seen each other for the rest of the week. Then we decided to go out, she had stronger feelings for me at the start than i did for her, but it was only the beginning. Then I've noticed myself (once again - over a girl) becoming obsessed with her. I really love her and she says she loves me. What i really hate is how my mind works in overdrive with theories and thoughts. Like that she doesn't really like me etc. I just can't seem to figure out what she's thinking. It'd be gr8 2 read minds haha. I just don't want to lose her cos I really like her and I don't want her to lose interest/just not love me anymore. I feel we don't communicate. Also I feel awkward as to who got the leader roll when we're together.
I also hate trying to talk or explain something, this is to everyone, not just her. I always confuse the hell out of people most of the time because i can't seem to get the right words out or whatever. My mind must run at a million miles ahead of my mouth... I always get the sense that people don't listen to me or don't understand or care what i have to talk about...
Sorry it's probably the same here lol. I think I got sort of 2 topics in 1 up there. Yeah I'm just rattling of some stuff on my mind.
I also hate trying to talk or explain something, this is to everyone, not just her. I always confuse the hell out of people most of the time because i can't seem to get the right words out or whatever. My mind must run at a million miles ahead of my mouth... I always get the sense that people don't listen to me or don't understand or care what i have to talk about...
Sorry it's probably the same here lol. I think I got sort of 2 topics in 1 up there. Yeah I'm just rattling of some stuff on my mind.

I know a Aqua and Scorp pairing. They seem very happily married.

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