Are we entiltles to love through life...—

Upon finding this message board I was delighted to see so many people expressing their opinion because in my experiance this shows you care.

On further inspection though I was a little dissapointed (however not surprised) to find the bulk of the messages were based on brocken love interests, dissapointed ex-lovers and people with in my opinion...bad attitudes developed through a misconception that love lasts forever and on every occasion you think you've found it in this imperfect world.

I guess what I'm trying to say or ask to you out there is this...

Do you think we are automatically entitled to find love in this life time just because we have already been given the gift of life...

The reason I ask is that most of these postings and replies seem to be asking questions and sure that's one of the beauties of our lives...we have the power to converse and share...but

What I mean is this...
In my opinion we are all pointing fingers and asking questions to try and ease our insecurities based on our own self doubt. If we learned to live life properly and by that I mean learning to love ourselves first I reckon we would know the answeres to those questions, or better still never find ourselves in those situations that give rise to our self dobt and insecurities.

Excellent questions and thoughts Durrie! I have to disagree though with some of your ideas. I don't have time to reply know, I will later on! Don't lose heart. Love is coming your way!!! Whether you're ready or not! It's going to find you.

Yes! We are entitled to love all through life. What's wrong with that? We are put in this universe to be happy and if that's what makes one happy - other than good sex, good friends (include family) and a good meal - why do we have to suffer so much to get it. That's the riddle. We are the answer. Therefore, if we are the answer we have to look for it ourselves - and how do we look for it? We have to bring it up from our lives, from inside, look at it, b**** about it for a while, then do everything within our power to resolve it - so that we can find that inner happiness.

"In my opinion we are all pointing fingers and asking questions to try and ease our insecurities based on our own self doubt. If we learned to live life properly and by that I mean learning to love ourselves first I reckon we would know the answeres to those questions, or better still never find ourselves in those situations that give rise to our self dobt and insecurities."

Hey Durrie!

First off, you're absoulutely right! GREAT QUESTIONS, and you answered it for yourself.

Whatever we want in life, is ours. If we want love, we find it (somehow)! If we are hungry, we feed ourselves etc...this is what we do to survive, and it is natural.

What I want to ask you is, if you never put yourself in a situation that is risky, how will you ever learn. We learn only when we don't know the outcome and then we go about trying to solve it. This is what make us different from animals.

I hear what your saying, as far as, we should take more responsiblity for our decisions. But, I don't think that should be the a reason for stopping us from potential danger. We need to make use of everything we were given!!!

Self-doubt comes from no faith in your self. You don't trust youself! You're not sure what you are made of!! The only way to find out, is to challenge yourself fully. The only way to fail is by never trying!!!!!

As humans, it is in our nature to crave the validation of others. We learn this from our parents when we are small and we continue to seek it out for as long as we are alive. What I think you are saying is: if we were all self-affirming we would not need the love and comfort of others! I disagree and I will answer your question-with a question...you speak of living your life properly-knowing who you are and overcoming your insecurities-how does one do that without experiencing love and loss?

Yes you are quite right shadylady and thankyou all for your replies...I am most greatful.

Hmmm...you are quite rite in that we need to love and lose to learn but my thinking at the time was we need to learn to live lIFE that's all, because Life encompasses everything including love and loss you are quite right.

I merely wanted to illustrate that people need to concentrate more on progressing their own lives because that way they will be in tune with life and life is a glorious thing which is fair and beautiful.

Learn to live LIFE and LOVE...i mean true love will find you.

Shucks...I don't know if this has made any sense and I almost didn't post this because I didn't like the way it sounded but then hey...that's life...hehe.

Can suggest is that you check out this exact same posting on the other horoscopes message boards and get more opinions...in other words live a little more LIFE.

I posted it on Airies/Scorpio/Aquarius and Pisces which is my sun sign. The responses are all very interesting and I feel very typical of the signs that wrote them...assuming that the same signs replied to their message board.

For instance 152.163 your go out and get 'em attitude and no fear type of response is very indicative of Scorpio. It yields a result either way...if you can keep your chin up through the falls in my opinion you are a very possitively minded person...a good attitude to have...I am glad to have shared some of my life with you...😉

Thank you! That was very kind. Hope to share some more, Durrie.

Susan