As a Scorpio woman...what would your ideal man be like?

Iam Scorpio sun / venus, Pisces moon, Virgo rising, Mercury Sag, Mars Leo, Jupiter Cancer...

I'd classify myself as very emotional / watery with a bit of fire.

I was wondering was fellow / similar females looked for in an ideal counterpart.

I had an Aquarius with a very airy chart and I loved / bonded to him extremely deeply ut also felt he did not fully understand me.

I had a Gemini full of fire in his chart who I loved but argued with like cat and dog and found him really annoying.

I had a Taurus, with lots of Scorpio in his chart but found him quite passive / lazy

I had a Leo with 6 planets in Leo who I found WAY to controlling and bossy with me / jealous.

The man I have been MOST attracted to was a fellow Scorpio Sun /Venus with Virgo rising and the bulk of his major planets in Scorpio (although he had a Cappy moon) and that relationship was HOT on every level and Iw as crazy about him.

I am trying to figure out what characteristics (maybe even planet placements) I find most sexy / appealing and feel connected to but it is hard because I find I am very contradictary. For example I LOVE a man wo takes charge and stands up to me but HATE a man who tries to control me. I LOVE a man who showers me in attention but HATE a man who feels desparate etc.

What do you Scorps find works best for you and have you found the perfet conbination of placements and characteristics that work for you?

I've the same placements as you:

Sun Scorp
Venus Scorp
Moon Pisces
Mars Leo
Merc Sag

I'm a Sag rising though. I'm all water and fire!

Another Scorp sun and Venus can be good together although I tend to find it's like dating myself!

I'm not keen on Cancer/Pisces as I find them too weak. Gemini is like talking to an alien! No connection.

Currently dating a Sun Taurus with Aries Venus and Merc, Leo Moon and rising, and Cap Mars. He's pursued me persistently but not desperately and I find him very stabilising as he knows who he is. He loves my confidence and ego, maybe his Leo placements go with mine.

I think you need some fixed and/or earth with fire in their belly.

I also was with an Aqua with heavy Cap placements but found him too depressive on the whole.

Posted by AgentP911
I've the same placements as you:

Sun Scorp
Venus Scorp
Moon Pisces
Mars Leo
Merc Sag

I'm a Sag rising though. I'm all water and fire!

Another Scorp sun and Venus can be good together although I tend to find it's like dating myself!

I'm not keen on Cancer/Pisces as I find them too weak. Gemini is like talking to an alien! No connection.

Currently dating a Sun Taurus with Aries Venus and Merc, Leo Moon and rising, and Cap Mars. He's pursued me persistently but not desperately and I find him very stabilising as he knows who he is. He loves my confidence and ego, maybe his Leo placements go with mine.

I think you need some fixed and/or earth with fire in their belly.

I also was with an Aqua with heavy Cap placements but found him too depressive on the whole.

Interesting we have such similar placements! i agree with you with the Pisces /Cancer thing. No offence to those here but for me when I have dated this in the past they have been quite clingy / needy with me and wanted too much.

I also agree I need to be pursued with persistence but not desperation!

Posted by Reincarnation
Those Scorpio women are all about Taurus.

hahaha. Taurus men and Scorpio Women are just fine.

Scorpio always have an issue and Taurus are Stubborn that create tension in a relationship..

Posted by Koniucha
Turns out I'm mostly air, so yeah

You are full of hot air 😄